Little things you do to keep the Lust Alive

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Little things you do to keep the Lust Alive

P'Gell P'Gell
A while ago, I posted a thread about games (nice ones, not manipulative ones) you and your partner play to keep the relationship fresh.

This time, I'm wondering, what else do you do to keep the Spark Alive? Little things can mean a lot.

When I put my lipstick on, I always use a clean, new Puffs. I make sure the imprint is perfect and then I put it where he'll see it. On his pillow, on His Chair, in the living room. Sometimes on the seat of his truck.

Sometimes I put on lipstick just so I can leave him a Kiss Mark, somewhere he will see it.

He finds them and knows I'm thinking of him. (I also put one in his bag when he went on a Boys Weekend with some buddies a few weeks ago. He didn't see it. Though it was a dirty Kleenex and left it on the floor.)

He brings me inexpensive flowers and candy bars.

There's also the little attempts to touch during the day or evening, sneaking in a tiny spank or love tap. Pinching butts, those are all common.

What do you do to keep things interesting?
08/20/2010
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MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
A while ago, I posted a thread about games (nice ones, not manipulative ones) you and your partner play to keep the relationship fresh.

This time, I'm wondering, what else do you do to keep the Spark Alive? Little things can mean a ...
That's a cute idea with the lipstick! Sometimes I stop in to visit my boyfriend at work just to give him a kiss or bring him lunch. When I'm out shopping if I see something that reminds me of him I purchase it and give it to him just because. We also have this weird little thing we do when we go to taco bell. The sauce packets all have little sayings on them and one of them says "will you marry me?" When we go we have a contest to see who can find one first to give it to the other person. When I'm at school I send him love letters, even though I talk to him on the phone every night and visit every other weekend
08/20/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
That is a cute idea with the lipstick, and MuffysPinguLove, we do the same thing with the Taco Bell sauce packets only sometimes I'll stick one through my engagement ring to give to him, lol.

I'll send my fiance pictures sometimes, a sneak peek at some new lingerie, a close up of some new pasties, stuff like that. I'll stop by after work while he's still at work and bring him food, and if I can find anything Edsel related, I snag it as soon as I get a chance.

He'll do the little just because gifts too, and my favorite was when he managed to find a matchbox version of my show car, because nobody has any love for the slantback Sevilles and I've had 2, lol
08/20/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I tend to do too much - it gets a little frustrating when it's mostly a one-way street. But I'm hopeless, I get over my frustration and keep trying.

I make sexy 'greeting' cards by downloading erotic images like flowers (especially orchids) and images of a new toy of lingerie item I have gotten for her.

The passing touches are good - and when time permits an extended 'dive' kiss to the nape of her neck - followed by a brief back rub.

As always - new toys!
08/20/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
A while ago, I posted a thread about games (nice ones, not manipulative ones) you and your partner play to keep the relationship fresh.

This time, I'm wondering, what else do you do to keep the Spark Alive? Little things can mean a ...
Awww that's great with the lipstick kiss
We will take a moment to stop and really ask each other how the day is going and spend some time really listening. Neither guy will leave the house without kissing me, (and usually the kids as well) cause you just never know...
If we go to the kitchen to make food or a drink we will make a plate or cup for the other one (or ones). Little things that just say I'm thinking about you and I love you tend to lead to that intimate touch, caress, grope...spontaneous bones jumping.
08/20/2010
NightNight NightNight
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
That is a cute idea with the lipstick, and MuffysPinguLove, we do the same thing with the Taco Bell sauce packets only sometimes I'll stick one through my engagement ring to give to him, lol.

I'll send my fiance pictures sometimes, a ...
I laughed out loud at the thought of a sauce packet pushing through an engagement ring

Since we're apart I'll do things like take special pictures for him or make him custom wallpapers for his monitor. When I try on cute or sexy clothes in a store I'll take pictures on my cellphone and email them to him when I get home. When I was mailing immigration documents to him I'd leave little notes in there with kiss prints I'd make right there in the post office
08/20/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by NightNight
I laughed out loud at the thought of a sauce packet pushing through an engagement ring

Since we're apart I'll do things like take special pictures for him or make him custom wallpapers for his monitor. When I try on cute or sexy ...
Well then just for you I went and found the picture on my phone, it's not the greatest, but here is my engagement ring on a sauce packet, lol

ring
08/21/2010
Kindred Kindred
I like to slap my wife's ass when I walk behind her, like if she's doing the dishes or brushing her teeth. Nothing hard, just a nice little love tap to let her know I think she's sexy. Now she plays along and sticks her butt out if she knows I'm there.
08/21/2010
trios trios
My wife likes it when I clean the house!
08/21/2010
NightNight NightNight
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
Well then just for you I went and found the picture on my phone, it's not the greatest, but here is my engagement ring on a sauce packet, lol

...
Yyyyesssssssssssssssss s!!!!!!!!!!!!
08/21/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
I like to slap my wife's ass when I walk behind her, like if she's doing the dishes or brushing her teeth. Nothing hard, just a nice little love tap to let her know I think she's sexy. Now she plays along and sticks her butt out if she ...
My Man thrives on this.
08/21/2010
MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
Well then just for you I went and found the picture on my phone, it's not the greatest, but here is my engagement ring on a sauce packet, lol

...
Thanks for the picture
08/21/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by MuffysPinguLove
Thanks for the picture
I'll have to try and retake it with an actual camera, but no problem
08/22/2010
Annemarie Annemarie
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
Well then just for you I went and found the picture on my phone, it's not the greatest, but here is my engagement ring on a sauce packet, lol

...
That's a nice rock!
08/22/2010
jennydanger jennydanger
Sometimes I will put a naughty note in my guys lunch so he can think about whatever it is I want to do him later, while he is at work. But once he didnt know what the folded piece of paper was and a co-worker got ahold of it and read it outloud to everyone. of course he feels like 'the man' and brags about how much i deisre him, but that is ok with me
08/22/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
We are more of the physical intimate type, little kisses and spanking. It would be nice to do some other stuff but what we do now works so if it stops working then we can make some changes.
08/23/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by Annemarie
That's a nice rock!
Thanks girly
08/23/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by trios
My wife likes it when I clean the house!
Mine would too - but I refuse. She has to find something else to admire me for!
08/23/2010
joja joja
Since we're long distance now, we keep up every day with multiple emails, little love texts, etc. I often write him goofy poems when I'm in a good mood.

At home, it's all about touching. I make sure our kisses are more than just absent-minded pecks - an unexpected slow, deep kiss can be extremely erotic. Also little back rubs, kisses to the back of the neck, and of course dry humping each other (we do this constantly, it's actually pretty funny now that I think about it).
08/25/2010
trios trios
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Mine would too - but I refuse. She has to find something else to admire me for!
LOL!

If you find out something else that works, please let me know!
10/29/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by trios
LOL!

If you find out something else that works, please let me know!
Trios - that's easy - I'm the purveyor of toys and the king of the multiple orgasm. My job is indeed secure!
10/29/2010
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