Long Distance Relationships?

JessieDawg JessieDawg
Just to see how people view them.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes, I'm in one
SMichelle , G&L , RonLee , LadyDarknezz , LoooveMonkey , *Camoprincess* , HannahPanda , maxwe , Vanille , Puss in Boots , MidnightStorm , Airen Wolf , Geography , Bleu , AliMc , Isola , guppiefish , bratcat , nova2014 , petlove0311 , GONE! , twelve13 , oneeyedoctopus
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I had one and didn't like it
PropertyOfPotter , T&L , G&L , Sima-pusya , Trysexual , unfulfilled , sexfairy , Flan-Flan Shazam , sexxxkitten , xyrella , darthkitt3n , hawaiian chick , Beautiful-Disaster , KrissyNovacaine , bayosgirl , loveme , haley730 , Nykatron , Missmarc , butts , falalena , AliMc , nova2014 , novanilla
24
Never had one
Geogeo , JessieDawg , Beck , theothers1 , sweetpea12 , Zandrock , hhh , RedKyuubi
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Yes, I liked it
Flan-Flan Shazam , sXeVegan90 , BlooJay , xyrella , LadyDarknezz , LoooveMonkey , Lildrummrgurl7 , Bleu , quinceykay , xOhxSoxScandalousx , bratcat , petlove0311
12
They aren't for everyone
PropertyOfPotter , Trysexual , sexfairy , Thumper Logic , Flan-Flan Shazam , sXeVegan90 , BlooJay , Chilipepper , RonLee , Gallowraven , LadyDarknezz , mpfm , darthkitt3n , LoooveMonkey , Beck , Edeneve , hawaiian chick , *Camoprincess* , Kitka , married with children , Beautiful-Disaster , SadoMas , satinlady550 , Billie Bones , bayosgirl , Meido , Lildrummrgurl7 , LavenderSkies , MidnightStorm , haley730 , hhh , Andrey2052 , Airen Wolf , falalena , Bleu , AliMc , guppiefish , bratcat , petlove0311 , GONE!
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I'm interested in them
Geogeo , JessieDawg
2
I don't like them
Beautiful-Disaster , Puss in Boots , Meido , Airen Wolf , butts , novanilla , oneeyedoctopus
7
Total votes: 116 (70 voters)
Poll is closed
09/26/2012
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SMichelle SMichelle
I am in an extremely long distance relationship. He's in the UK, and I am in the US. I don't like it because I miss him daily, but I love him so I am more than happy to deal with the distance.
09/26/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
If you can make it work, than it can be more of a positive experience than a bad one. However, they aren't for everyone. There's a huge trust factor when you can't be around the person you love every day, or even often. It's very difficult and you have to both be very mature people who truly love each other and want to make it work.
09/26/2012
T&L T&L
I dislike long distant relationships, too much "missing" involved!
09/26/2012
G&L G&L
Unfortunately with my job I am often long distance form my wife and it sucks a lot.
09/26/2012
Sima-pusya Sima-pusya
I had one and didn't like it
09/26/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by JessieDawg
Just to see how people view them.
Wouldnt waste my time, in my opinion
09/26/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
I've had more than one and they are tough. Not for everyone. You have to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Of course it didn't help that I had mine when phone calls were expensive and before webcams/internet.
09/26/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I had one as a teen and didn't like it ebcause I could never see him. I haven't had one as an adult, but I wouldn't like it because I want to be able to see them often.
09/26/2012
sexfairy sexfairy
I had one and even though we really loved each other, it was too hard (he was from Europe and I am in Canada). After three years of heart stretching we ended it. I like love making too much and I think that life is too short to spend half of my time waiting.
09/26/2012
Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
Just got out of one. He decided it was too tough. They require an immense amount of mutual trust, maturity, and respect, and if you can make it work, more power to you.
09/26/2012
Flan-Flan Shazam Flan-Flan Shazam
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Originally posted by JessieDawg
Just to see how people view them.
My vote looks contradictory: I liked it and I didn't like it.

Sometimes it was great to have my space and have meetings be special. But other times it got pretty lonely. And that was only with an hour's driving distance!
09/26/2012
sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I had one, I liked it because I liked the person, but I'm no longer with them. The long distance thing isn't for everyone, that's for sure.
09/26/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
I've had one in the past and I liked it.
09/26/2012
Chilipepper Chilipepper
I've had a few. The distance combined with lack of finances for visiting make it worthless. If you have the money to spare for travel, more power to you. I'm shopping local from now on.
09/26/2012
justme23 justme23
I'm in one. I've known (in person) my partner since last March (at same school), started dating last October (already distant). If we're lucky, we see each other once a month. They are definitely not for everyone, my sister can't handle a summer of distance even with visits. They are hard but for me, it's worth it.
09/26/2012
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I had one and didn't like it. But I like to be able to see the person I'm with on a regular basis.
09/26/2012
Gallowraven Gallowraven
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Originally posted by JessieDawg
Just to see how people view them.
I'm sure they work well for some, especially with today's tech, with webcams and face time, email and sms, etc. but I don't think I could handle the extended period of time with no skin to skin contact.
09/27/2012
JessieDawg JessieDawg
I think I could try them one day
09/27/2012
LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
I'm in one and I have been in another long distance relationship before my current one. The first one didn't work out, but the current one I am in with my Dom is going swell. It is definitely not easy, but if both parties are willing to make it work, then it can last a very long time with few complications. It is definitely not the kind of relationship that everyone can manage, though. It's a good thing that my Dom doesn't live far from my city, but He has lived in my current city for most of His life. It's much easier for us to meet than it would be if He lived half-way across the country.
09/27/2012
LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
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Originally posted by JessieDawg
Just to see how people view them.
Been in one for 7 years. If you find that person you love more than anything else in the whole world who loves you back just as much, and you're both willing to work for it, it's actually not so hard. I'm very, very happy with him.
09/27/2012
LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
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Originally posted by JessieDawg
Just to see how people view them.
Also I didn't get to meet him in person for 5 of those years and people were very critical of the whole thing. Honestly, people's constant rudeness about it was one of the worst things for us. But when we met, it was absolutely amazing!! So far we've spent about 8 months together and we love each other just as much in person as we did in the video game where we met.

P.S. In case you're curious, we have lots of webcam and phone sex and we send pictures. It helps make the needing sex less bad. . . Nothing helps when you need cuddles, though. :\
09/27/2012
Edeneve Edeneve
just to have a good one again, that would be nice!
09/27/2012
theothers1 theothers1
I don't think they are impossible, but they do require a fair amount of work. What relationship doesn't anyway?
09/27/2012
hawaiian chick hawaiian chick
Not a fan of them unless it like my husband was away at school or something like that.
09/27/2012
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I am in one for the most part right now and it sucks but we make it work. They aren't for everyone, it makes our time together that much more special and worth it.
09/27/2012
HannahPanda HannahPanda
I am in one, but not for much longer. It's been a year, and a rough one at that, but we've made it this far and now it's just waiting to move in
09/28/2012
Kitka Kitka
I was in one during the last two years of high school with my now hubby. It was hard but well worth it in my opinion but I know it's not for everyone.
09/28/2012
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
never worked for me.
09/29/2012
SadoMas SadoMas
i couldnt do them
09/29/2012
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