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I've been with my woobsie (aka the boyfriend) for 2 1/2 years and in late August, he's leaving to go to China for 10 months. I can't stand it and wish I could go with him, but alas, I can't. I'm giving him a great sexual sendoff
I've been with my woobsie (aka the boyfriend) for 2 1/2 years and in late August, he's leaving to go to China for 10 months. I can't stand it and wish I could go with him, but alas, I can't. I'm giving him a great sexual sendoff and then I am buying a webcam to do the Skype thing, but the 12 hour time difference will be hard. I'll have toys and school to keep me busy, and he'll have his hand and whatever sort of porn China hasn't banned.
Does anyone have any advice for doing the super long-distance thing? Anyone have a spouse in the military or anything like that? Phone sex is out of the question. I just want to be as close to him as I can without being there.
Also, cam sex tips or anything would be greatly appreciated, since I've never done that before
Heheh. I just got back from China, so this is a pretty interesting thread for me to see. From what I've been able to see, blocked sites include Facebook, Youtube, Megavideo, Veoh, Blogger, and Twitter. However, if he's willing to pay a monthly fee, there are ways to get around that
The 12 hour time difference does suck, but you'll both be up and about in the mornings and evenings (you'll just be asleep during each other's lunch thru afternoons), so at least you get some overlap wakey time online. The good news is that you can totally buy sex toys in China, and good quality brands like LELO and Tenga are available too, so hopefully if his hand gets too boring he can find a sex toy shop and grab a sleeve of some sort, though the stores I've seen in China mostly target women.
Apparently, porn is teh illegalz in China, which I didn't even realize when I was over there (you kind of stop caring when you're staying with family for extended periods of time). I was still able to access my usual web stops for online porn though, like imagefap and megaporn, soooo... yeah. If he's careful with where he keeps his porn (I'd say preferably on his computer and not on the coffee table), it should be fine. But, you know, if you're really worried about it, better safe than sorry.
As for sending love letters via snail mail... Back when I still wrote to my family in China, I would receive their letters in envelopes that were glued back together. * cough * I wouldn't be super concerned about them actually reading your mail, but email is the better choice for safe, on-time message delivery.
The super important thing for your boyfriend to do, computer-wise, is to get a good anti-virus and anti-spyware program installed. There is so much crap floating around in Chinese webspace; it can really bog down your computer to the point where you can make breakfast in the time it takes Skype to start up.
The other super important thing for you two to do: Remember that this too shall pass
10 months is a long time, but it's shorter than a year. He'll be back before you know it, with ridiculously cute souvenirs and lots of pictures. It's going to suck, yes, but it won't suck forever.