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I've been with my husband for over a year, now, and for about 8 of those months, he's been in the Army. I completely and unequivocally support his decision, and respect the hell out of his commitment, that isn't the issue. The problem is, he's going to Korea for a hardship tour in less than 6 weeks, and as it stands right now, he's 1300 miles away for the next 4. In a span of 9 months, I will have seen him for 3 visits, 4 days, 4 days, and 11 days.

I'm explaining all these details, because I absolutely hate my body naked. I have a lot of self-esteem issues, especially since two kids and turning into a house. I am looking for ways to keep the flame going, and keep us both satisfied (as can be, when you're a world away from half of your heart) without cam sex. We know all about phone sex, dirty texting, etc, but I'm looking for some other possible ideas.

Have any of you ever been in this situation, with the deployment?

Thanks in advance. :]
10/29/2011
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Remigirl Remigirl
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Originally posted by badk1tty
I've been with my husband for over a year, now, and for about 8 of those months, he's been in the Army. I completely and unequivocally support his decision, and respect the hell out of his commitment, that isn't the issue. The problem is, ...
My husband is also in the military. I see him a lot more now but for awhile we had to spend a lot of time a part. He was always a little funny about things like emailing dirty talk because sometimes the email was monitored. When we did get phone call time he was always around people and he said it would just make it harder for the both of us to talk about how bad we "missed" each other. This always made for very exciting homecomings as you can imagine.

Maybe you can mail him dirty little letters. Letters are always so thoughtful but I also think it takes a lot of imagination to come up with a sexy story. You said already that you don't feel comfortable with your body so pictures may be out of the question. But unlike webcam you can take a ton of pictures and pick which ones you might feel you look better in or you can wear some cute lingerie that may make you feel better about your body. Neither of these are probably very helpful but there is only so much that you can do in this type of situation.

Goodluck with the deployment!
11/13/2011
badk1tty badk1tty
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Originally posted by Remigirl
My husband is also in the military. I see him a lot more now but for awhile we had to spend a lot of time a part. He was always a little funny about things like emailing dirty talk because sometimes the email was monitored. When we did get phone ...
I do not know why this post disappeared! I had set flags for it. Grr! So many months later, we're still making it work. Thank you for your suggestions. Sadly, it's really just been typical texting and calls. Occasionally we get time for phonesex. We don't even get much time for Skype, so even if I were okay with myself it probably wouldn't happen.
04/27/2012
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Originally posted by badk1tty
I do not know why this post disappeared! I had set flags for it. Grr! So many months later, we're still making it work. Thank you for your suggestions. Sadly, it's really just been typical texting and calls. Occasionally we get time for ...
Idk if you have already, but you should get him a fleshlight or something to relieve his sexual frustrations. Maybe you could send him naughty pictures too. I couldn't imagine the stress you must under being apart from the man you love. You could send him voice recordings of you pleasuring yourself for him. I'm sure that would really surprise him and turn him on. I know your a bit insecure about the way you look but even still, he loves your body and loves the way you are and look. I've never been in your situation. Your very strong and are truly dedicated.
04/28/2012
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