Have you ever had moments where your long term partner or spouse just suddenly looks amazing?

Jaimes Jaimes
I was chatting with my husband yesterday and there was just suddenly something about what he was wearing and the way he carried himself that took my breath away. I've always thought my husband was very attractive, but after 8 years, one gets used to having a face around you, and you don't always have that traffic-stopping appreciation of them that you do when you are first starting out. It was a very fun feeling for me, and a better one for him when I told him what I was feeling. Do you guys have those moments? What was the situation, casual or to the nines? How often?
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I am male
Gunsmoke , t00sl0w , OhMy! , ac0313 , dhig , slynch , Lummox , Jon S , Mike Honcho , LowFreqFreak , Mr. E , hhh , rockblenny , tctink
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I am female
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Yes, there are times looking at my partner when it suddenly hits me like the thunderbolt
Jaimes , - Kira - , CutiePatootie , Beck , P'Gell , Liz2 , Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama , Eucaly , catgirl9 , Rarity , XYCopperheadSly , SexyTabby , js250 , darthkitt3n , OhMy! , ac0313 , Elnoa , AmberM , lilly555 , ~LaUr3n~ , crazypao , GravyCakes , kokopelli , Vanille , dhig , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , slynch , Lummox , sktb0007 , ZenaidaMacroura , InNeedOfABuzzzz , sausagelover , TameTemptress , Mike Honcho , LowFreqFreak , Mr. E , jr2012 , mjtheprincess , hhh , AliMc , Lildrummrgurl7 , Nurse Katie , Cheluh10 , MidnightStorm , Robespierrethecat , DarkMoonLily , llellsee , BrittaniMaree , HeartThrobby , Beautiful-Disaster , deltalima , nova2014 , tctink , Munko , Pete's Princess , angel42539 , wetone123 , evie.amor , karenm , twelve13
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Yes, I notice that my partner reminds me of the way they looked when we first met
TameTemptress , Mike Honcho , mjtheprincess , Nurse Katie , burtnuh , deltalima , nova2014 , tctink , bratcat , Ayogirl230
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Yes, there are times when I suddenly notice how beautifully my partner has aged in our relationship
Girly Girl , padmeamidala , P'Gell , Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama , catgirl9 , Redboxbaby , SexyTabby , OhMy! , ~LaUr3n~ , TameTemptress , mjtheprincess , Nurse Katie , tctink , Ayogirl230
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No, I always notice that my partner looks amazing. It never feels like I'm suddenly appreciating how wonderful they look.
Gunsmoke , unfulfilled , Red Vinyl Kitty , joeycute , Redboxbaby , t00sl0w , aliceinthehole , Peggi , rockblenny , lalalalove
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It happens when they/we are dressing up for something special
P'Gell , Redboxbaby , Rarity , SexyTabby , OhMy! , AmberM , CS2012 , Lummox , TameTemptress , MidnightStorm , Robespierrethecat
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It happens when we are at a casual moment, like grocery shopping or just walking together
- Kira - , P'Gell , Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama , catgirl9 , Redboxbaby , Rarity , XYCopperheadSly , SexyTabby , js250 , darthkitt3n , OhMy! , aliceinthehole , AmberM , lilly555 , dhig , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Lummox , ZenaidaMacroura , TameTemptress , Mike Honcho , mjtheprincess , Lildrummrgurl7 , Nurse Katie , Cheluh10 , MidnightStorm , Robespierrethecat , DarkMoonLily , nova2014 , tctink , Munko , evie.amor , karenm , twelve13 , bratcat
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It happens when we are fully relaxed, in sweats, with no attention to our looks
- Kira - , Beck , P'Gell , Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama , catgirl9 , Redboxbaby , Rarity , XYCopperheadSly , SexyTabby , darthkitt3n , aliceinthehole , AmberM , dhig , Lummox , ZenaidaMacroura , TameTemptress , Mike Honcho , jr2012 , Lildrummrgurl7 , Nurse Katie , MidnightStorm , Robespierrethecat , DarkMoonLily , HeartThrobby , skittlezjoyann , nova2014 , tctink , evie.amor , bratcat
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It happens to me every few weeks
- Kira - , Beck , Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama , Redboxbaby , js250 , darthkitt3n , ac0313 , AmberM , lilly555 , ~LaUr3n~ , Vanille , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , TameTemptress , LowFreqFreak , mjtheprincess , Lildrummrgurl7 , Nurse Katie , MidnightStorm , Robespierrethecat , Munko , Pete's Princess , evie.amor
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It happens to me every few months
Jaimes , CutiePatootie , XYCopperheadSly , Mew , ZenaidaMacroura , HeartThrobby , nova2014
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It happens to me every few years
We have been together for 5+ years
Jaimes , - Kira - , CutiePatootie , Beck , Red Vinyl Kitty , AmberM , Lummox , jr2012 , Lildrummrgurl7 , Nurse Katie , Munko , Ayogirl230
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We have been together 10+ years
unfulfilled , padmeamidala , catgirl9 , js250 , slynch , TameTemptress , LowFreqFreak , BrittaniMaree , tctink
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We have been together 15+ years
Gunsmoke , P'Gell , Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama , Redboxbaby , SexyTabby , Mr. E
6
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10/24/2011
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife is always very fastidious about her looks. Off course I see her plenty before she goes through her beauty routine - and I appreciate the results. After 22+ years the lightening bolts aren't common - but they can happen - more often in bed than out!

She's taken to surprising me with her new openness to new things and that's keeping things fresh.
10/24/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife is always very fastidious about her looks. Off course I see her plenty before she goes through her beauty routine - and I appreciate the results. After 22+ years the lightening bolts aren't common - but they can happen - more often in bed ... More
I hate wearing makeup and doing my hair. I'll do them on occassions, but its very rare.
10/24/2011
Girly Girl Girly Girl
i love my partner
10/24/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
It happens a lot. We go through periods of not even liking each other (although those seem to occur less and less as we get older and more mature.) We also go through periods of intense passion.

We made love a lot this weekend (we usually do, but it was really special this weekend for some reason) and last night, he was sleeping on my lap, while I was watching TV. We were on the couch, and I was petting his hair and kissing him and whispering in his ear. Every once in a while, he'd give me a sleepy "I love you." then go back to sleep.

It was a wonderful time. This happens a lot, but sometimes it's just really special. Saturday night we had the most amazing sex, and I woke frequently during the night and keep snuggling up to him. He was putting his arm around me and we felt really close. We made love again in the morning. This isn't unusual, but we felt really close for some reason.

It's amazing that after so many years (20+) we're still so much in love.

I feel Blessed at times, really.
10/24/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I did want to mention that I went through a period of depression some years ago. I have periodic depression, but these were particularly bad. I stopped taking care of myself, and even when I was on the mend, I "let myself go." (Not that I gained a lot of weight or anything, but I was dressing in sweats and raggy T Shirts, and not wearing make up or taking care of myself.) It occurred to me that I wasn't getting any younger and that I FELT better when I took care of myself, put on make up, dressed nicely (even a little slutty from time to time) wore a bra during the day and ALWAYS a nightgown or Baby Doll at night. I never wear T Shirts to bed anymore and never will again.

Not surprisingly, I not only felt better, but our sex life got better and we got along better. We recognized the dynamic of our relationship and were able to define it better, and it has lead to great things; using sex toys being some of them.

I think the extra time I use to take care of myself means I not only respect myself but that I respect my husband. He loves having a good looking woman on his arm, and it gives him a kick when other men look at me.

It works to help our relationship and I'm happy to do it.
10/24/2011
Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Been married 31 years and I still get those moments (quite often) of "Wow...I really think he looks great". But even more than that - I often get "aha" moments about his character and how much that draws me to him.

My husband looks nice - don't get me wrong. But who he is as a man is what keeps me with him even during the hard times. He has a sense of humor and a sense of compassion and is just so...perfect for me. He's tough - and yet tender.

I love those "aha" moments.
10/24/2011
Eucaly Eucaly
Yes. Getting ready for church. He always looks amazing then.
10/24/2011
catgirl9 catgirl9
Ah yes, it does hit me sometimes. For no particular reason, I'll just see my husband as just the hottest, most handsome man ever. A lot of times it's just when we're bumming around not doing much of anything. I'll just glance over at him and he's just stunning. It's a wonderful feeling.
10/24/2011
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
When I see him in dress clothes, which is infrequent.
10/24/2011
js250 js250
Usually every so often, for no reason other than he is wearing something attractive, has a different look to his hair or just something, I get that first together rush looking at him. We love it!!
10/24/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
It's always wonderful when you stare at a loved one and see all the reasons you love em instantly from a look, a smile, a character or even just the air around them. Warms the heart knowing I made a good choice. I really feel like this watching Hubby with our kids. He's really close to all of them and it just feels complete. Can't really say how often it is though don't really think about it - just happens.
10/24/2011
t00sl0w t00sl0w
i would say its almost every single time i look at my wife. her body is celestial and she caries herself with this air of confidence that, idk....makes the case i guess.
her eyes are so beautiful i cant even describe them, they are this blueish green and her irises form little flower like shapes that add to impact they have when she looks in your direction.
i love everything about her
10/24/2011
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
it happens to me at least once every time we're together. he's so handsome it's dumb. we've been together for a year.
10/24/2011
ac0313 ac0313
I find my SO to be absolutely beautiful. However, she does not see that in her self very often. Once in a while, she is particularly stunning, either wearing a nice dress, sexy clothing, or something else and she will often see how gorgeous she is at those times as well!
10/24/2011
lilly555 lilly555
Every time he roles up his sleeves or does something to his appearance that I know is for my benefit I'm taken aback by how sexy I find him to be. I admit seeing him dressed up for weddings or other special occasions doesn't do it for me I prefer him scuffy to cleaned up. We've been together almost 1.5 years, not as long as some of the others here but it's the longest for me.
10/25/2011
GravyCakes GravyCakes
i remember 1 time when my bf & i had just finished fooling around, & he got up & walked over to his full length mirror. he looked at his face real quick, then just kinda turned to the side & flexed some to see how the progress was from his weight training class. i remember laying there & thinking, "good god, damn, he's hot." i'd never really thought of him as smoking hot before, but the way his naked body looked, & his hair, & how his face looked w/out his glasses on... oooooo man, he was DAMN sexy.
10/25/2011
Vanille Vanille
Yes! It's definitely every time Master sends me a photo of her on iMessage. I'm just stopped in my tracks. Even though she's not physically with me yet, I am just mesmerized by her beautiful face and body.
10/25/2011
CS2012 CS2012
I think how amazing my husband looks every time he wears a suite and tie. Since it is very rare I see him wear one. I always think man he looks hot in his suite.
10/25/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by CS2012
I think how amazing my husband looks every time he wears a suite and tie. Since it is very rare I see him wear one. I always think man he looks hot in his suite.
FYI - your husband wears a suit - a suite is a group of rooms.
10/26/2011
sktb0007 sktb0007
I have these moments every so often yes!!!
10/27/2011
Mike Honcho Mike Honcho
I have these moments more and more. It's not always when she is dressed up. More often then not, it's when we are doing out normal errands and she has on a pair of jeans.
11/03/2011
RememberMe RememberMe
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Originally posted by Girly Girl
i love my partner
Aww.
11/06/2012
jr2012 jr2012
gosh, I do get this occasionally. my SO has the most beautiful green eyes, and it's funny how often we chat without looking at each other, or do our seperate things...but suddenly I will be aware of eye contact and it's like WHAM!

It's a pretty awesome feeling.
11/06/2012
mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
Every few weeks my guy will do something or say something and I am just like oh my gosh this guy is so freaking hot! It's insane how it just comes! It totally crashes into you. It's so fun to feel that!
11/06/2012
The Majikat The Majikat
Oh for sure! They always surprise me.
11/08/2012
Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
Those moments are my FAVORITE.
11/19/2012
burtnuh burtnuh
I love when that happens. We live together so sometimes it's just easy to forget all the things that made you fall in love. But sometimes I'll just look at him, mostly when he's talking to someone else, and think "damn, I'm so lucky" I completely adore him.
12/04/2012
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Yes just happened recently too. we been together 10 and a half years now it has been a tough bumpy ride but I do get these moments occasionally.
12/04/2012
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
yes
12/04/2012
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