My long-term girlfriend and I are looking for a toy that we both can use equally. We enjoy the harness & dildos we have, but all the ones we own only can be used on one (i.e. one wears the harness and the other receives penetrative sex). We have decided to look into getting one that can be used for both of us at the same time. Any suggestions on what to go for? I really enjoy the vibrating dildos we have, but she really likes bigger sized dildos (both length and girth). We wanted to ask for opinions before buying a few, so I'm curious to see what everyone suggests! Thanks for your opinions everyone, we appreciate it!