So...she called me this morning bawling her eyes out because her husband Googled her to "check up on her." He told her about how she is all over the internet--even on sites she knows nothing about (and seriously, would never visit!) She told me she felt "violated" and "the lack of respect and trust for her makes her want to move away from him."
I can't really relate, it is not anything I have ever thought about due to my hubby's lack of experience on the internet and my lack of search skills--besides, why would we do that after 17 years together? If we don't know about it by now--it is not important. (Heck, I tried to Google myself and came up with everyone but me!! Mine and hubby's search skills are very lacking and minimal.)
--Has this happened to you or a loved one?
--How did you or they feel about it?
--What was the end result?
--Any advice on helping her without getting in the middle of it?