What if the person you fell in love with changed?

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What if the person you fell in love with changed?

Tangerine Tangerine
Let's say you are in a relationship and it is fairly new.....this person is AMAZING. You feel as if they could be the one. You fall in love and can't see past this person. Now what if that person has a VERY tramatic experience and changes. You try to work on things but they basically tell you that they are not the same abd have decided that they are no longer "that person"
Trying to be understanding and supportive you stay with them occasionally seeing that person you fell for..... Do you stay or do you let go....
12/02/2011
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SilverIsis SilverIsis
Quote:
Originally posted by Tangerine
Let's say you are in a relationship and it is fairly new.....this person is AMAZING. You feel as if they could be the one. You fall in love and can't see past this person. Now what if that person has a VERY tramatic experience and changes. ...
Are you asking just in the hypothetical or is there a real situation here? There are too many questions here for me to give a full answer.
12/02/2011
Tangerine Tangerine
Quote:
Originally posted by SilverIsis
Are you asking just in the hypothetical or is there a real situation here? There are too many questions here for me to give a full answer.
It is a situation.
12/03/2011
js250 js250
I was in a car accident a couple years ago and suffered brain damage, it is mild but still present and there are mental changes. With that being said, you have choices, you can either change with them, decide if the different person they have become is still the one for you or you can decide to just be friends and support them from a distance. When something happens to change a person, they cannot usually control who they will become. It is an ongoing learning process for both people involved. I am still me, but different. There are similarities in my learned actions, the instinctual actions are the same. My personality is more fragile in some areas and stronger in others, there are many things I do not remember. The trauma is different for everyone, but without a scenario it is hard to advise someone. Hope this gives an insight, but I need more details to actually try to help or advise you. Good luck and hope it works out!!
12/03/2011
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