I often have sex dreams and most are pretty fun and exciting. However, every few months I'll have a dream that my husband is cheating on me! They are just awful and wake me out of a dead sleep. I do not expect my husband of cheating in real life. Last night I had one of these dreams. Normally I would tell my husband about this as soon as I woke up but he was working. I believe it may be because we have both been busy and stressed lately and haven't had much time for each other. I was just wondering how many other people have cheating dreams? Are you the cheater in the dream or is your partner? I myself can not recall ever being the cheater in a dream. I've read that these dreams can cause problems in relationships because the dreamer can take it out of the spouse even if they haven't cheated in real life. So far these dreams have not caused any real problems except maybe to my sleep schedule!