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Is Your Partner Okay With The Use Of Sex Toys In The Bedroom Or Not
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, My Partner Is Completely Okay With The Use Of Toys In The Bedroom...
182  (91%)
My Partner And I Have Never Discussed The Use Of Toys In The Bedroom...
6  (3%)
My Partner And I Have Discussed The Use Of Toys In The Bedroom, But Haven't Taken The Steps Toward Purchasing...
9  (4%)
My Partner Is Absolutely NOT Okay With The Use Of Toys In The Bedroom...
4  (2%)
Total votes: 201
Poll is closed
11/02/2010
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Coralbell Coralbell
My partner knows I have toys, but we've never really talked about it and I haven't used them with him. I'm sure he would be fine with it, it just hasn't happened yet.
11/02/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
We have both enjoyed toy's in the bedroom, for about the last 9 months. Before that I traveled a lot so I had a couple of strokers, she did not care as long as they did not have a pulse.

Toys have brought much pleasure to our bedroom.
11/02/2010
Raggedy Andie Raggedy Andie
I have been using toys for years but my hubby was kind of new to the whole thing. He had never been in an adult toy shop before me. It was really fun to watch his reaction to me pulling out really different toys like fists and extra large butt plugs...LMAO. Now that we have been together for a while, he has his own collection too!
11/02/2010
Alicia Alicia
There are some that we use together, but we don't use them every time. The Mystic Wand gets used just about every time, but the other toys aren't an all the time type of thing.
11/02/2010
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Originally posted by deletedd
Is Your Partner Okay With The Use Of Sex Toys In The Bedroom Or Not
Thanks For Your FeedBack Everyone...So Does Anyone Have Any Advice For Me On How I Can Get My Partner To Open Up To The Use Of Toys In The Bedroom.??
11/02/2010
Waterfall Waterfall
My partner knows that I have toys and is fine with it, but we have not yet discussed using them together.
11/02/2010
lamira lamira
My partner loves toys. He loves when I play with toys, when he plays with toys on me, and when we play together. It's a lot of fun.
11/02/2010
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
We both love toys... but my favorite toy will always be him... lol... I'm the one who introduced him to the wonderful world of toys, lol... When we started seeing each other I was a distributor for a fun party company... It was a blast... He used to LOVE coming with me to couple's parties, lol... And I actually rather us play with toys together than me play with them alone...
11/03/2010
4everHorny 4everHorny
It's a rarity for use not to use toys during or leading up to sex. I say just bust one out and tell your partner to see what happens while you use it. Once they see how hot you are using it and how worked up you'll be there's no way they could not be into the idea.
11/03/2010
Phoenix713 Phoenix713
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Originally posted by deletedd
Is Your Partner Okay With The Use Of Sex Toys In The Bedroom Or Not
I'm okay with my wife using sex toys if I came before she got to and then she wants her satisfaction, but I get jealous because most of her toys are larger than me.
11/03/2010
Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
My partner and I both do not mind using toys in the bedroom, it brings some excitement to our sex life.
11/05/2010
Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Sometimes we need a little extra "Umph" some times we don't. Its nice to have them if we do need them or feel like changing up the situation once in awhile.
11/05/2010
deletedd deletedd
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Originally posted by Phoenix713
I'm okay with my wife using sex toys if I came before she got to and then she wants her satisfaction, but I get jealous because most of her toys are larger than me.
thats the problem i fear my boyfriend and i will have.?
-any advice??
11/07/2010
CS2012 CS2012
My husband is more than fine with me using sex toys he is just not interested in toys for himself. But he does like using toys on me.
11/07/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I wouldn't say he is COMPLETELY ok but he is in general. If the toy is used to help me orgasm as we have sex he's all for it. Otherwise, he doesn't like toys all that much.
11/08/2010
minny minny
never tried it with my man
11/08/2010
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Originally posted by minny
never tried it with my man
Neither Have I, Im Not Sure Of His Reaction But iDont Think He's Into It
11/10/2010
deletedd deletedd
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Originally posted by deletedd
Is Your Partner Okay With The Use Of Sex Toys In The Bedroom Or Not
Thanks For All The Feedback Guys
11/10/2010
Destri Destri
my hubby and I play with the toys together!
11/10/2010
Persephone's Addiction Persephone's Addiction
I didn't answer the poll. My boyfriend has said (repeatedly) that he wants to "see" my toys - and I know that he wants to use them in the bedroom (I feel silly saying "in the bedroom", like using them in the garage or the living room would be a different story) Anyway - I am not sure that I want to involve the toys in sex.
I have a difficult time reaching orgasm with toys - probably because so much of my arousal is mental and I don't fantasize, so that makes masturbation a bit harder.
I've always had much better, stronger orgasms from sex than from masturbation, and stronger, better orgasms from penetrative sex than from clitoral stimulation. I just don't think involving toys is going to make things better but I can easily see how they can make things worse. And I know that this makes me weird.
11/12/2010
Liz2 Liz2
Guys can be intimidated by sex toys thinking that perhaps they are inadequate. I stared incorporating toys slowly with my current b/f (almost together three yrs now), I respected his preferences, initially he didn't like realistic dils and some other limitations. He now loves toys in that he will frequently choose a dil or vibe, wash it, lube it and put it on the night stand so ready to go.
He now enjoys watching me as well. Toys are very much incorporated into our sex life.
11/12/2010
Andyman25 Andyman25
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Originally posted by deletedd
Is Your Partner Okay With The Use Of Sex Toys In The Bedroom Or Not
he just as exicted about them as me
11/18/2010
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
He knows how much I like them- he's even encouraged it many a time
11/19/2010
PussyGalore PussyGalore
He who has the most toys, WINS!
11/22/2010
Shumway Shumway
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Originally posted by Raggedy Andie
I have been using toys for years but my hubby was kind of new to the whole thing. He had never been in an adult toy shop before me. It was really fun to watch his reaction to me pulling out really different toys like fists and extra large butt ...
heheh.. and apparently he just started making toy reviews I never would have pictured myself using toys let alone REVIEWING THEM a few years ago!
11/23/2010
Shumway Shumway
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Originally posted by CS2012
My husband is more than fine with me using sex toys he is just not interested in toys for himself. But he does like using toys on me.
That's too bad though.. he's really missing out! There are so many cool toys out there now for guys. Maybe he'll change his mind someday. I find it really spices up our sex life and makes it more interesting
11/23/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by deletedd
Is Your Partner Okay With The Use Of Sex Toys In The Bedroom Or Not
Neither of my partners cares about my using toys so long as they get my attention when it's appropriate.
11/23/2010
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
We both use toys a lot and use a lot of toys I don't see toys as any more threatening to my sexual pride as using a calculator is threatening to my intellectual pride...
11/23/2010
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
He doesn't mind at all. We have a few things that I have bought to review that I let him pick out, so he could get an idea of what he would like to try.
11/24/2010
Total posts: 100
Unique posters: 93