I didn't answer the poll. My boyfriend has said (repeatedly) that he wants to "see" my toys - and I know that he wants to use them in the bedroom (I feel silly saying "in the bedroom", like using them in the garage or the living room would be a different story) Anyway - I am not sure that I want to involve the toys in sex.
I have a difficult time reaching orgasm with toys - probably because so much of my arousal is mental and I don't fantasize, so that makes masturbation a bit harder.
I've always had much better, stronger orgasms from sex than from masturbation, and stronger, better orgasms from penetrative sex than from clitoral stimulation. I just don't think involving toys is going to make things better but I can easily see how they can make things worse. And I know that this makes me weird.