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He claims he "wasn't that drunk".
I've just kind of been hanging back on this thread, even though I've been reading all of the answers.
It was a moment of indiscretion, but I don' tthink it would be something I would let ruin my relationship. If that's the worst thing he did that night, then we're good. You know?
Ultimately, your relationship and the emotions and nature of the relationship between the two of you is the only thing that should be factored in at this point.
I do want to add one thing here that I don't recall anyone else addressing...you said he didn't tell you. But, did you ever consider why he didn't tell you? Maybe he was afraid of your reaction and he just didn't want the argument? If that's the case, there's probably some other stuff he hasn't told you and it might be time to do a "relationship check up" and ask if your communications styles are working for each other and if they aren't, then come to an agreement on how to resolve that.