So...you and your partner are getting frisky. Off to the bedroom. WHO is in bed first waiting on the other?

In our house...assuming we are taking the love making into the bed (It happens all over now...empty nest and all), but when we DO use the bed (still MOST of the time), it is ALWAYS me...Mrs. Bignuf, there first, waiting on HIM. He is like a hummingbird, flitting around the room, gathering JUST the right Liberator pillow from the closet, adding some fresh batteries to a vibe he pulls from the dresser (even though there are TEN charged ones in the nightstand) and opening a package or two of new lube, or some other toy or toy accessory (last minute thought) and OF COURSE, cleaning it off in the sink and using TOY WASH on it before coming to bed...FINALLY (ten minutes later), even though I have been laying there, maybe one leg hiked up, or with knees wide spread, putting on a "show" to speed him up!!! Sometimes I get soaked down there, just watching him, knowing all that prep is just to make ME insanely happy and to drive ME wild in but a few minutes...and other times, honestly, I am thinking "These light yellow walls would look really good in a sea foam green, but then I need to get new drapes, and of course, will the bedspread match?.......". Ha, Ha.

Anyway, SO, who at YOUR house is IN THE BED FIRST???? less

In our house...assuming we are taking the love making into the bed (It happens all over now...empty nest and all), but when we DO use the bed (still MOST of the time), it is ALWAYS me...Mrs. Bignuf, there first, waiting on HIM. He is like a hummingbird, flitting around the room, gathering JUST the right Liberator pillow from the closet, adding some fresh batteries to a vibe he pulls from the dresser (even though there are TEN charged ones in the nightstand) and opening a package or two of new lube, or some other toy or toy accessory (last minute thought) and OF COURSE, cleaning it off in the sink and using TOY WASH on it before coming to bed...FINALLY (ten minutes later), even though I have been laying there, maybe one leg hiked up, or with knees wide spread, putting on a "show" to speed him up!!! Sometimes I get soaked down there, just watching him, knowing all that prep is just to make ME insanely happy and to drive ME wild in but a few minutes...and other times, honestly, I am thinking "These light yellow walls would look really good in a sea foam green, but then I need to get new drapes, and of course, will the bedspread match?.......". Ha, Ha.

Anyway, SO, who at YOUR house is IN THE BED FIRST???? less