Is it going too fast?

Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
I met a guy about 2 months ago and fell madly in love with him. Like...I want to have his babies kind of in love. I know that it's different for everyone but is it too soon to be falling that hard?
12/10/2012
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- Kira - - Kira -
I think it depends on the people. Have you known this person for a long time before getting in the relationship? If not, it's more likely strong lust. Not to say it couldn't be love, but I think it's hard to truly love someone until you know more about them. A lot of people see the great things when you're first together and don't know the bad things about someone. I would call that more being in love with the idea of the person rather than the actual person.

I fell in love with my husband before we even officially got together. We had been best friends for about five years before we started dating, so I knew him very well and knew I loved him. We said "I love you" early in the relationship. Both of us were scared to say it in fear of rushing things, but knowing each other so long beforehand gave us a better idea of how we felt about each other.
12/10/2012
Sera26 Sera26
I also think that it depends. I'm now engaged to a wonderful man that I met this past summer. I felt like I just knew things were right very early on in the relationship. This was in stark contrast to other people that I had dated.
12/10/2012
nova2014 nova2014
I think it's different for everyone but make sure it's the real deal and don't jump into anything you can't undo
01/17/2013
novanilla novanilla
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Originally posted by - Kira -
I think it depends on the people. Have you known this person for a long time before getting in the relationship? If not, it's more likely strong lust. Not to say it couldn't be love, but I think it's hard to truly love someone until ... More
This.

I feel like I've really needed time, and even though I might have had those overwhelming spark feelings, sometimes they fade. I've had to take time to truly know people for those feelings to develop.

However, one of my friends' parents met on a cruise and were engaged by the end of the week, got married, and have been together for 20-something years, so there's always exceptions.
01/17/2013
cowgirl1130 cowgirl1130
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Originally posted by Lickable Lollie
I met a guy about 2 months ago and fell madly in love with him. Like...I want to have his babies kind of in love. I know that it's different for everyone but is it too soon to be falling that hard?
i did that once. and the guy ended up just up and leaving me. i would try to keep my feelings in a little. the more you fall the harder it is to pick up the pieces if it dont work out.
01/18/2013
marriedlady123 marriedlady123
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Originally posted by cowgirl1130
i did that once. and the guy ended up just up and leaving me. i would try to keep my feelings in a little. the more you fall the harder it is to pick up the pieces if it dont work out.
No problems feeling strongly..just don't invest too much of yourself 9or get pregnant by him) for a bit!
01/18/2013
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