Using Her Toys On Her

Kilgorescowboy Kilgorescowboy
My girlfriend has many many toys, she doesnt let me watch her use em and wont let me play with her using them. How Many of yall allow the guys to use toys on you. What are your thoughts on this?
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Yes Ill Let Him Play
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75  (77%)
No Thats Something For Me
Lady Marmelade , DTV88 , ily , mama2007
4  (4%)
I Love It
Redboxbaby , ToyGurl , uu , newlady , Gunsmoke , Rossie , indiglo , kendra30752 , chidoll , ss143 , Miss Nessa , SexyLilPixi , iveversxe , Dawn (Lilac Distraction) , virgomama616 , Pandwhora , mjtheprincess
17  (17%)
He Can Play But Im Not That Into It
big b , link82
2  (2%)
Total votes: 98
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05/04/2011
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barrettbn2 barrettbn2
I let him use them on me
05/04/2011
nicole07 nicole07
I dont mind if he uses them on me
05/04/2011
zizfaye zizfaye
Totally! I don't have that many toys but I do have one that a previous partner loved to use on me. It also helped turn
me on to see how much he was enjoying himself.
05/04/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
As long as its not too textured, I love him using my toys on me.
05/04/2011
Sammi Sammi
There's a few I prefer to use myself, but otherwise I like when he uses them on me.
05/04/2011
married with children married with children
I use her toys on her all the time.
05/05/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I never use my toys alone! They are for him to use on me!
05/05/2011
Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
I really love when my husband uses them on me. It's fun!!
05/05/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
I rather him be the one using them on me.
05/05/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
It's a little confusing how things work in my bedroom. We try to keep it simple and make love using only... our bodies, so to speak. But he enjoys anal plugs on occasion, and I love my dildos, anal plugs, mini vibes, nipple toys, etc.

I really find that playing with his toys on him during sex turns me on, but it doesn't always turn him on. Sometimes it's distracting for him, and me as well. Then you get less sex and more massage. P-spot has the tendency to make a male cum, and if he is tired that day and cums before me - sex is over.

Same goes for me. If I had a long day with school, cleaning and work and he plays with my toys on me, and I cum first... I may not want to keep going. I usually force myself to because I want to please my fiance, but he knows it isn't so much fun.

IF we both have tons of energy, and tons of time alone, we both enjoy playing with toys on each other.

There have been a few times when my fiance has worried that I like my toys more than him. Mostly with my two rabbit vibes. I think they intimidate him. i don't know why, because i rarely ever used them... and his dick is big enough to make me want to throw all my toys away for good. I really just own them for the nights when he is gone for work.

So I guess it's all about body language. Him and I have gotten to the point where we know what nights to take out the toys, and what nights to leave them in the toy box.
05/05/2011
toxie m toxie m
I love when my guy uses toys on me, but there are certain ones that are just better off in my hands than in his, the best example being glass toys. With such an unforgiving material it's really easy for him to angle it funny and end up hurting me, but I definitely enjoy when he uses softer toys on me.
05/05/2011
Kdlips Kdlips
yes he can use them on me
05/05/2011
newlady newlady
Ah, sharing is soooo much more fun! But like txymxy said, I like to be the one in control of the not-so-soft toys too.
I use my toys solo (hubby has had health probs recently and I don't want to put undo pressure on him, so I will sneak 'em in shower with me! If he knows what I am doing then he wants to participate, which always isn't the best idea for him lately, so I just take a toy in the shower) as well as we use them together.
05/05/2011
newlady newlady
Ah, sharing is soooo much more fun! But like txymxy said, I like to be the one in control of the not-so-soft toys too.

I use my toys solo (hubby has had health probs recently and I don't want to put undo pressure on him, so I will sneak 'em in shower with me! If he knows what I am doing then he wants to participate, which always isn't the best idea for him lately, so I just take a toy in the shower) as well as we use them together.


please disregard this second identical post.
Clearly I spazzed and hit the post button twice and I don't know how to delete it!
:p
05/05/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
"Her" toys were all purchased to incorporate into our couples play - they rarely get used for anything else. We've become 'toy addicts' and rarely have sex without them.
05/05/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Kilgorescowboy
My girlfriend has many many toys, she doesnt let me watch her use em and wont let me play with her using them. How Many of yall allow the guys to use toys on you. What are your thoughts on this?
My wife enjoys both using them on herself and knowing that she is also getting me hot watching her, she also enjoys having me use them on her as well.
05/05/2011
liilii080 liilii080
I wish my guy was as enthusiastic as you were. He wants to try to outdo the toy rather than seeing that it makes his job easier.
05/05/2011
maebey maebey
I love including toys in sex! Makes for a fun new element and some toys are mutually benificial!
05/05/2011
indiglo indiglo
I love it! I also think it's a great way for him to learn exactly what works for me - then he can use that knowledge. He loves it too, and thinks of the toys as his allies.
05/05/2011
Liz2 Liz2
I love using toys during sex but I like to be the "driver", seems that although he wants to use toys on me, he doesn't get the right spot or I feel my cervix is being impaled by some rigid toys such as the Pure Wand, the Eleven and others.
We accommodate each other and he never complains about watching.
05/05/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
He uses them on me. That's the only reason I like them. I don't care to do it alone really at all. I'm thinking she's probably just shy and needs a little encrouagement or try to bring it up and let her explain. I was and still can be an extremely shy person. I'll talk your ears off, but I've always been extremely weird about people watching me or looking at my body. I never let any of my EX's see me naked unless it was dark and that was once. It took me a very long time to get comfortable with my BF because I was always afraid he would think badly of me if he saw I enjoyed something. Even normal things and I always wanted to try everything he brought up, but he would have to kind of keep telling me he wanted to see this or that or do something specific because I needed to be sure that it was OK for some reason. I'm actually still like that in some areas. I think you just need to cheer her on and help her out of her shell. Now, if somethign else is going on and it's not shyness she'll make it clear. If she seems to get upset or angry when you bring it up, then I don't know if that's simple shyness. I think most females do prefer their partner doing it for them. It's really a turn on for most and the only thing I can think of is she's just shy or afraid you'll not approve in some way or another.
05/07/2011
Howells Howells
We always do it the way I'm using them on her, rarely only watch her. It's part of the experience you get here
05/07/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
I dont see why she wouldnt let you enjoy it to
05/07/2011
Rossie Rossie
Having my husband using toys on me (while giving me oral) is the most important part of our foreplay.
05/07/2011
Mr. E Mr. E
We love to play together.
05/07/2011
GravyCakes GravyCakes
Quote:
Originally posted by Kilgorescowboy
My girlfriend has many many toys, she doesnt let me watch her use em and wont let me play with her using them. How Many of yall allow the guys to use toys on you. What are your thoughts on this?
i think it's hot when he wants to use my toys on me. sometimes, he just likes to sit back & watch.
05/07/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Kilgorescowboy
My girlfriend has many many toys, she doesnt let me watch her use em and wont let me play with her using them. How Many of yall allow the guys to use toys on you. What are your thoughts on this?
This is the husband answering. My likes both, she enjoys using them while I watch and she likes me using them on her. Depends on our mood. We love toy play together both ways.
05/21/2011
big b big b
for forplay.but for the big O she takes over.
05/22/2011
IrishLassie IrishLassie
I let him play. He loves to use toys on me and I like it. If he's done and I still want more, he will use toys. We will also use them for scene play. I dont see anything wrong with toys and I think they make a great addition. We have even used his fleshlight while Im out of service.
05/22/2011
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