Ways to fight for the one you love after screwing up!

cowboywill87 cowboywill87
Any advise will help, the topic explains it all!
05/19/2013
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marriedlady123 marriedlady123
It would help if you could explain what happened, or at least how serious the problem is.
05/19/2013
evie.amor evie.amor
I agree with marriedlady, you gotta tell us a bit more for us to be able to give you accurate advise. I guess in general the best thing you can do is just be there and be consistent. If you want to get back together show her you're only interested in her and you're willing to wait for her. If you broke your trust than the best you can do along with maintaining your feelings and waiting for her is to explain how you screwed up and how it must have made her feel. But you have to really be serious about changing things.
05/19/2013
cowboywill87 cowboywill87
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Originally posted by evie.amor
I agree with marriedlady, you gotta tell us a bit more for us to be able to give you accurate advise. I guess in general the best thing you can do is just be there and be consistent. If you want to get back together show her you're only ... More
I left her for another female, it was only to protect her in the end but she see it as I cheated and left for her. She have been hurt in the past and with my screwing up in her eyes, I'm just another person that hurt her.
05/19/2013
js250 js250
Sorry--I don't see how leaving her for another woman is protecting her....I see it as a betrayal of the trust she had formed in your relationship, and of her.
05/20/2013
edeneve edeneve
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Originally posted by js250
Sorry--I don't see how leaving her for another woman is protecting her....I see it as a betrayal of the trust she had formed in your relationship, and of her.
I agree. also, once trust is broken, it is difficult to rebuild if even possible.
05/20/2013
cowboywill87 cowboywill87
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Originally posted by js250
Sorry--I don't see how leaving her for another woman is protecting her....I see it as a betrayal of the trust she had formed in your relationship, and of her.
The system works in ways I can't explain. The State wouldn't drop the charges against her, they reduced it to withheld, I requested the charges to be dropped from an Injunction that was placed on her, not by me but rather the girl that wanted to be with me, she was just a room mate and too old! The state ordered a NO CONTACT order between us, her PO wouldn't request the contact order to be released. Even though, there was a no contact order I moved in with her, she knew the risk! She didn't care cause we loved each other and she said that was all that matter! During my stay, I was unaware my Licence was suspended from unpaid Ticket (Damn Camera Light)I was pulled over and arrested, she was unable to bail me out in her name due to the NO CONTACT ORDER she thought the girl I left her for family would help since I was friends with them, she had the funds just needed someone else to bail me out in there name! She explained WHY she couldn't since they asked... after I got out of jail, the family informed me there Cousin wanted to contact me! I made touch with her, and she made threats to report my former girlfriend that I love in for VOP (contact with me) I didn't want her to go jail, in the end she is suffering cause she think I cheated on her, which I had once in the past! This time isn't the same... I did have sex with this girl, but after I left and didn't want too either! I ADMIT I DONE WRONG IN THE PAST WE ALL MADE A MISTAKE IN OUR LIFE please understand that I didn't cheat on her this time and I do love her!
05/22/2013
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