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Contributor: JMTPG JMTPG
What constitutes a "deal-breaker" in a relationship for you?
12/23/2012
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Contributor: MrWill MrWill
Lying. Straight up, lying kills a relationship for me. The truth may suck but it's better to be honest.
12/23/2012
Contributor: Intrepid Niddering Intrepid Niddering
Alcoholism. Doing drugs. I've witnessed enough of that in my life. I don't want a relationship with it, too.
12/24/2012
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Trying to convert me to their religion.
Lying is a big one.
Trying to change me.
Ultimatums.
12/24/2012
Contributor: nikki0668 nikki0668
Lying, cheating, abuse, alcoholism and drugs. I won't stand for any of these!
12/24/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
Being anti-choice or anti-birth control or abortion in any capacity, religious extremism or trying to convert me, drug addiction, manipulation, jealousy, possession, being bad in bed or not being into bdsm, won't help out/expects me to do all the work in the relationship or around the house. I expect respect.
12/24/2012
Contributor: MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
Lying, cheating, abuse, disrespect, selfishness, a huge ego, douchebaggery, illogic, stupidity, no motivation, and being narrow minded.
Funny enough, there are very few people whom I have met that I would want to have a relationship with.
12/28/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
Jealous paranoia. I would never be able to deal with that.
12/28/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
Agree with everything said!

Broken trust is what ends it for me. I can forgive, I just can't forget and it consumes me that someone would blatantly lie and hurt me on purpose and still claim to love me.
12/28/2012
Contributor: IvyFayette IvyFayette
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Originally posted by mjtheprincess
Agree with everything said!

Broken trust is what ends it for me. I can forgive, I just can't forget and it consumes me that someone would blatantly lie and hurt me on purpose and still claim to love me.
Exactly. I forgive all the time but have trouble forgetting the pain that they caused.
01/04/2013
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
Cheating or abuse
01/04/2013
Contributor: nickymarchetta nickymarchetta
weds of lies and abuse even emotional abuse is a deal breaker,anything can be worked out any relationship can be fixed if your willing to try both has to be willing but abuse and lies its something that once it happens it dont stop
01/04/2013
Contributor: LittleA LittleA
Dishonesty- absolute worst.
01/05/2013
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
Lying and abuse are both absolutes. I've been there, and I won't take that crap anymore.
Cheating, possibly, depending on the situation. If He cheated and told me everything immediately, showing remorse, I would forgive him... eventually. But if He cheated again or didn't seem to think it was a big deal, it'd be over in a flash.
01/05/2013
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
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Originally posted by MrWill
Lying. Straight up, lying kills a relationship for me. The truth may suck but it's better to be honest.
Well put!
01/05/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
Dishonesty, abuse, and incompatible or non-existant morals.
01/05/2013
Contributor: nova2014 nova2014
If they aren't faithful to me and don't take my emotions into consideration
01/22/2013