What do you think about domestic discipline in your relationship?

paige09nicole paige09nicole
DD (Domestic Discipline) is when one or both partners are punished for their actions in a relationship. Sometimes, this can mean spankings, corner time, things that the person does not like to detour them from whatever that brought them to that punishment.
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Yes, we use DD in our relationship.
6
No, we dont use DD, but we have thought about it.
4
We tried and it didnt work.
No, I would never use DD in my relationship.
27
Total votes: 37 (37 voters)
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11/29/2011
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indiglo indiglo
We are not into the D/s dynamic, so would never use DD in our relationship.
11/29/2011
Rossie Rossie
Ditto what indiglo said.
11/29/2011
T&A1987 T&A1987
do you mean like role playing or a literal punishment for transgressions?
11/29/2011
Kkay Kkay
I've considered it. It's definitely a kink of mine, though I think I am more interested in reading it than in doing it.
11/29/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
We're not interested in DD.
11/29/2011
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
DD, to me, is something that requires female submission and that ain't my thang.
11/29/2011
mistre$$ mistre$$
Need an other option. Not sure how I feel about it.
11/30/2011
cheetahpita cheetahpita
Never thought about it. Not sure how I'd feel about disciplining my SO - I generally think of him as an adult on the same level as me.
11/30/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by paige09nicole
DD (Domestic Discipline) is when one or both partners are punished for their actions in a relationship. Sometimes, this can mean spankings, corner time, things that the person does not like to detour them from whatever that brought them to that ... More
In both my relationships discipline is assumed to be the responsibility of ourselves therefore DD would not be in keeping with this thought. Now we do have a minor D/s bent to our sex play so we might 'punish' behaviors in the moment but it's not seen as serious nor does it really deter us from doing as we please.
11/30/2011
Vanille Vanille
I'm in a 24/7 D/s relationship. DD is part of that. While I like spankings, there's a significant difference between fun spankings and not-so-fun spankings. One has warmup involved, I'll let you figure that one out. ;D
11/30/2011
paige09nicole paige09nicole
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
We are not into the D/s dynamic, so would never use DD in our relationship.
DD not DS. DD is not bondage and such.
12/01/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by paige09nicole
DD (Domestic Discipline) is when one or both partners are punished for their actions in a relationship. Sometimes, this can mean spankings, corner time, things that the person does not like to detour them from whatever that brought them to that ... More
I just wish some people could get a handle on Parental Discipline with their kids!!!!!!
12/01/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by paige09nicole
DD (Domestic Discipline) is when one or both partners are punished for their actions in a relationship. Sometimes, this can mean spankings, corner time, things that the person does not like to detour them from whatever that brought them to that ... More
We practice hard core, DR (Domestic Respect). We treat each other as ADULTS and value the fact that BOTH of us is married to, and in love with, another WHOLE mature adult. It SO works for us....as ODD as this "outside the norm" relationship may be.

It is why we are SO frigging freaky and have stayed HAPPILY MARRIED for 32 years now. Yes, we are walking on that edge of strange and we KNOW D.R. may not be everyone's cup of tea, but hey, don't judge us, please, for choosing that lifestyle, OKAY?!?
12/01/2011
Tangerine Tangerine
I didnt even know this existed. I live under a rock I guess.
12/02/2011
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by paige09nicole
DD (Domestic Discipline) is when one or both partners are punished for their actions in a relationship. Sometimes, this can mean spankings, corner time, things that the person does not like to detour them from whatever that brought them to that ... More
No, I would never use DD in my relationship.
10/28/2012
Nurse Katie Nurse Katie
I love discipline...but only in the bedroom!
10/29/2012
charleswifey charleswifey
What the hell?! You are husband and wife or boyfriend and girlfriend, not mother/father and kid. Spankings are for fourplay not dicipline. That's just plain wierd.
10/29/2012
RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Nope, but maybe
10/29/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
It's good, and it can help a lot. It does have to be done in moderation
10/29/2012
vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
As part of a roleplay BDSM thing, sure, I can see this working. As a non-sexual serious thing I think this is unhealthy.
11/10/2012
Bodhi Bodhi
No. It really creeps me out because what I've seen of it it's basically just white christian men spanking their wives as if they are children. also I think it's really creepy for people in an adult relationship to 'discipline'

That can't be healthy.

spank each other all you want, but if that's how you get your partner to do things your way in a relationship, that is pretty twisted.
11/10/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by paige09nicole
DD (Domestic Discipline) is when one or both partners are punished for their actions in a relationship. Sometimes, this can mean spankings, corner time, things that the person does not like to detour them from whatever that brought them to that ... More
I would never use DD.
01/07/2013
nova2014 nova2014
We're not children so I don't think DD is appropriate, in my personal relationship, that's just not how either of us are
03/20/2013
Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
Have not done it but would not be opposed to give it a try.
03/20/2013
Total posts: 25
Unique posters: 23