What is most difficult about your relationship?

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What is most difficult about your relationship?

lalapetitee lalapetitee
Most days I wanna pull my hair out cuz my partner doesn't communicate with .e. what is the thing that bugs you the most?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
lack of communication
Ice1 , LoveDove , BlackxxxRose , britk , - Kira -
5  (19%)
lack of a sex life
WhoopieDoo , darthkitt3n , CAKES
3  (12%)
physical appearance changed
nothing in common
bayosgirl , aliceinthehole , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
3  (12%)
other
T&A1987 , jedent , Coralbell , AndroAngel , Peggi , pixxie87 , Ghost , Chilipepper , mistressg , cheetahpita , sexyintexas , Art & Sensation , Sinfully , LavenderSkies , kinky girlfriend
15  (58%)
Total votes: 26
Poll is closed
11/23/2011
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T&A1987 T&A1987
distance,distance distance. The good news is she might know when she's coming back.
11/23/2011
jedent jedent
our rather difficult upbringings.
11/24/2011
WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Three or four times a week is enough for him.....I'd be happy with more like twice a day.
11/24/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
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Originally posted by WhoopieDoo
Three or four times a week is enough for him.....I'd be happy with more like twice a day.
Same here! I'm LUCKY if I get 3-4x a week. In his case, though, he works 70+ hours a week...so he kind of has an excuse (I still don't like it, though.)
11/24/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
Our respective families. Otherwise, our relationship is fairly healthy.
11/24/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
We are actually doing really good lately. For a while I felt like we kept having the same 2 fights over and over again, but we got those things resoved. Our biggest issue right now is not seeing each other as much as we would like. I haven't seen him since Monday since we've both been really busy with school this week, and he's going away for the weekend so it will be a whole week apart.
11/24/2011
pixxie87 pixxie87
that we arent having sex yet. but u should really work on ur issue. its not healthy.
11/24/2011
Ghost Ghost
My husband seems unable to get a better job no matter what.
11/24/2011
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Distance, which leads into lack of sex and not very clear communication at times.

Means to an end, though. I can wait (though not happily at times).
11/24/2011
Peggi Peggi
I chose other, because we don't have the typical issues couples tend to face. They aren't huge fights, but it's the little things like I have a pet peeve of not appreciating when you take something and don't replace it. For us, the only time this happens is with a cold soda. We have the boxes right next to the fridge, and when you take one out of the fridge you replace it with another. But he forgets this all the time, and I've had to drink warm soda at work many, many a time!

But all in all, we don't HAVE any problems. We'll get into little disagreements, but nothing earth shattering, and we keep each other happy
11/24/2011
sexyintexas sexyintexas
He is gone for work 20+ days a month. That is the hardest thing, slepping alone, knowing it will be 4 or 5 more days before he gets home again.
11/24/2011
Sinfully Sinfully
Its not really lack of a sex life as it is so much lack of quality of the sex.
11/24/2011
lalapetitee lalapetitee
My problem is mainly with too much sex. its too time consumming and im always tired. then my partner woeks and i dont so there is financial problems. hoping to return to work and some fade.
11/24/2011
BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
When we don't communicate is when there are issues. Usually they're about sex and can be resolved by a quick conversation or by having sex. We're pretty simple and hold most of the same ideals so we get along really easy.
11/25/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by lalapetitee
Most days I wanna pull my hair out cuz my partner doesn't communicate with .e. what is the thing that bugs you the most?
We really don't have issues.
11/26/2011
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by lalapetitee
Most days I wanna pull my hair out cuz my partner doesn't communicate with .e. what is the thing that bugs you the most?
incurable illness can barely leave the house. oops should have voted for all of them. my illness is what causes allof it.
11/26/2011
- Kira - - Kira -
My husband is not a talker. I, on the other hand, can talk for hours. If he has an issue with something I'm doing he won't tell me until it has boiled inside of him and then he blows. I wish he were better at telling me right away instead of storing it up.
11/27/2011
lalapetitee lalapetitee
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
My husband is not a talker. I, on the other hand, can talk for hours. If he has an issue with something I'm doing he won't tell me until it has boiled inside of him and then he blows. I wish he were better at telling me right away instead ...
So like my relationship!
12/06/2011
lalapetitee lalapetitee
Quote:
Originally posted by jedent
our rather difficult upbringings.
This also puts a damper on things.
12/06/2011
Tripod95 Tripod95
Quote:
Originally posted by lalapetitee
Most days I wanna pull my hair out cuz my partner doesn't communicate with .e. what is the thing that bugs you the most?
Monogamy.
12/06/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
We just moved in together, and he's always tired from working, and I'm always tired from going to school. There's never much sexy time anymore. We get through it though. And when we do have sex, it's always amazing.
12/10/2011
(k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I like things to be relatively neat. Clutter makes me feel anxious and cranky.
His family could afford to have a maid, so he tends to be messy, because he's used to someone else cleaning up for him.
He doesn't understand why his workboots in the middle of the floor bother me. He doesn't understand why the dishes can't wait. It drives me up a wall!
12/10/2011
Total posts: 23
Unique posters: 20