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Originally posted by
Chilipepper
You just described my ex-husband, right down to the promising he'll do acts but never does. (Hence part of the reason he's an ex after ten years of that bullshit.)
Good luck - I really hope it gets better for you.
Thank you, I've read some of your posts and I did relate as well! I just had a great chat with my boyfriend and we cleared out a lot of frustrations. I think the difference between my boyfriend and your ex is that my boyfriend has a lot of space for growth, I think he just needs to open up a little more and because we're in a long distance relationship and we have to wait a few months to see each other, he's not as interested in sex as I am since we're far away, that could be it too.
The hopeful good thing about our relationship is that our relationship has A LOT of space for growth and I definitely think things will get better. He had a strict religious upbringing which made him very conservative/afraid of sex, like an innocent naive Catholic school boy while I'm very emotionally open about sexuality and things can clash between us because I might seem like a kinky perverted girlfriend compared to his more conservative personality but I know he has some really kinky naughty fun desires and the hopeful thing is that he does want to let those sides of him blossom over time. I know that over time, our relationship will grow to have a more fun and naughty and happy sex life. I definitely think Eden Fantasys is helping with our relationship, since I found the website a month ago, it's like it's bringing a new spark of naughty sexy light into our relationship which I'm very happy about.
He's just told me that he wants to buy the entire Eden fantasys store, wants to buy all the handcuffs and kinky ropes and toys and everything lol. So he does have a kinky side of him, it's just that he rarely shows it but I'm sure over time we'll both be on a more equal level, being more open about our sexuality with each other. Anyway, thanks for the reply.
