What kind of relationship do you have with your ex?

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What kind of relationship do you have with your ex?

sexfairy sexfairy
What kind of relationship do you usually have with your Ex (Exes)? Do you believe in friendship after a relationship?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Me and my Ex are best buddies
3  (6%)
Yes, but it depends, with some of my Exes more than others
9  (17%)
In general no, only one or a few exceptions
11  (20%)
No, I didn't develop any frindship with any of my Exes, but we left in good terms
9  (17%)
No, and it's WAR!
8  (15%)
Other (eplain)
14  (26%)
Total votes: 54
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07/29/2012
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MnK MnK
Since my current girlfriend is my first girlfriend, I don't have any previous EXes. We've been together for over 3 years now. The wait was worth it
07/29/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
I don't speak with any exes. I generally think it's a bad idea. There may be a few exceptions.
07/29/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I have 1 ex and we're not friends but if we ever run into each other (which has happened maybe 2 times in 10 years) we're nice enough to each other.
07/29/2012
Mwar Mwar
I have 1 ex and we'll probably never run into each other, so it doesn't matter. I'd be nice, but I don't know how he'd be.
07/29/2012
Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by sexfairy
What kind of relationship do you usually have with your Ex (Exes)? Do you believe in friendship after a relationship?
Ex husband is more like a brother to me. We have a son together though too. The ex bf of 12 yrs, we don't speak anymore and I moved 3 hrs away. It was an mental toxic relationship, and he is the father of my daughter, but he denys it. SO....He's history.
07/29/2012
FallFire FallFire
As much as I want to stay friends with exes (or have a friendship after some time following the breakup), it just never turns out that way. It makes me sad, since most of them are good guys.
07/29/2012
JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
I don't have any communication with any of my exes.
07/29/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by sexfairy
What kind of relationship do you usually have with your Ex (Exes)? Do you believe in friendship after a relationship?
Yes, but it depends, with some of my Exes more than others
07/29/2012
Undecided Undecided
I have 2 exes I have kept in contact with even though one I went a few years without talking to I spoke with him a few weeks ago and the other its been a year since we spoke. Either way I have no problems being friends with those two the others on the other hand if I never heard from them again I wouldn't care.
07/29/2012
PeachCandy PeachCandy
HATE my exes!
07/29/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
I had to flee the state to get away from my abusive ex, I don't talk to him. My other ex just stopped communicating with me all together, though I was perfectly willing to have a friendship.
07/29/2012
princessss princessss
I have 3 ex boyfriends. my first ex were not speaking because hes an asshole. My 2nd ex were on speaking terms and will text once in awhile to give updates on our lives. Then my 3rd ex is just damn crazy. He looks nice from the outside but on the inside hes bipolar and just did a whole 360. Were not on speaking terms at all.
07/29/2012
Badass Badass
Some of my ex's are my closest friends now..
07/29/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
I'm not friends with my exes. But I'm not enemies with them either.
07/29/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I only have one ex and we are friends, but not super intense best buddies. He mostly tends to talk to me when he needs help/advice about something.
07/29/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I haven't seen or heard from my ex since 1980!
07/29/2012
Rossie Rossie
I cut all ties with my exes.
07/29/2012
Vii Vii
I maintain pretty casual friendships with some of my exes, but I never let it get too close.
07/29/2012
vegweg vegweg
I have a few who I'm still casual friends with. There's another I'd be perfectly willing to be friends with but she avoids talking to me as much as possible despite the fact that she's currently dating an old friend of mine and living a mere 20 minutes away. And there's another who is a very close friend and I talk to at least a few times a week even though we now live 3 hours away from each other.
07/29/2012
RonLee RonLee
I recently read some pretty darn good relationship advice: "Make sure you're the crazy one". I wish I'd heard that advice a very long time ago, my life would've been way easier. From my own experience, when a romance is over, crazy Ex's don't make very good friends.
07/29/2012
Itsnotabanana Itsnotabanana
I don't speak with my exes. when one "door" closes, a much better on opens
07/29/2012
quantumspork quantumspork
Stayed good friends with one of my ex-boyfriends (funnily enough, he was the one I had the worst relationship with), and have a tenuous friendship with my other ex-boyfriend and ex-girlfriend.
07/29/2012
Rawr4483 Rawr4483
I don't talk to any of my exes, but if we came across each other again, at least we left in good terms (for the most part)
07/30/2012
Itsnotabanana Itsnotabanana
I haven't spoken to mine in almost 7 years, I think it's probably better that way.
07/30/2012
Ganconagh Ganconagh
We were married for 17 years...we rarely speak, which is fine. I don't hate her, just don't care about her at all. Have seen some people who get along better as exes.
07/30/2012
giftdgecko giftdgecko
It's not worth the friendship to me because it can make future relationships uncomfortable
07/31/2012
Vaginas Vaginas
I cut all ties with exes because I stupidly dated crazy people whom are still insanely obsessed with me. I've been stalked and tormented and it's not fun.
08/04/2012
sexfairy sexfairy
I have good feelings about my Exes in general, stayed in touch with most of them, and developed a really good friendship with at least one of them. I found out over time that when I truly care for someone, the type of relationship we are in doesn't affect this fact. And as I tend to be also"friends" with my lovers, so when/if the intimate relationship changes, the friendship still remains...
08/04/2012
Phantom2291 Phantom2291
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Originally posted by sexfairy
What kind of relationship do you usually have with your Ex (Exes)? Do you believe in friendship after a relationship?
I've never closed the door on any ex, and one of my exes WAS my best friend before we started dating. (She still is my best friend) Some exes have gone off and I've never heard from them again, but most stay in good contact.
08/04/2012
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