What was the first thing that you noticed and drew you to your current partner?

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What was the first thing that you noticed and drew you to your current partner?

guard083 guard083
When you met your current guy/girl what was trhe first thing that drew you to them?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
eyes
Alan & Michele , Illusional , potstickers , Xavier7 , Lucidity , Not here , idunshire , darthkitt3n , lamira , Liz2 , Jul!a , Selective Sensualist , sbon , Miss T , Lady Marmelade , Carolinagirl08 , married with children , mariedoll , tffnyandrs , MN58 , daniel and frances , dudemeister , Howells , Kitty Grub , Lily Night , Lady Nina , js250 , NaturalWoman , Miss Nessa , rockym690 , LavenderSkies , jenn g , LowFreqFreak , LilLostLenore
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smile
Bunnyidol , NuMe , Illusional , potstickers , Redboxbaby , Lucidity , Not here , darthkitt3n , Jobthingy , Selective Sensualist , sbon , Miss T , Carolinagirl08 , married with children , mariedoll , Ansley , cburger , lovemuscle n cookie , DTV88 , bayosgirl , Ryuson , Kitty Grub , Lily Night , anonymouse58 , Miss Nessa , IslandGoddess , toxie m , LavenderSkies , LowFreqFreak , TwistedTruth , SaMiKaY
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body
Liz2 , ud328 , Gunsmoke , DONOTSHOPHERETHEOWNERISPSYCHO , married with children , mariedoll , DCorrelle , js250 , Miss Nessa , toxie m , LavenderSkies , LowFreqFreak , TameTemptress , Stephanie Majors , LilLostLenore
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personality
Beaners , Purpleladybug , Waterfall , UnknownGirl , Airekah , That Guy , Coralbell , Illusional , potstickers , Lucidity , Morganna , the bedroom blogger , RemusHalifax , idunshire , Shellz31 , darthkitt3n , lamira , Kindred , Vaccinium , Liz2 , Envy , Sweet-Justice , Pleasure Piratess , Jul!a , LilBigMa , Destri , sbon , Gunsmoke , VieuxCarre , pfoof , Orion , jankit , Valentinka , PussyGalore , Miss T , A Good Girl , Lummox , DONOTSHOPHERETHEOWNERISPSYCHO , Kitt Katt , Lady Marmelade , Lilbee , MaryExy , joja , Carolinagirl08 , married with children , cherie2188 , MrRainybowbow , mariedoll , GravyCakes , CAKES , Dawn (Lilac Distraction) , Jazz , MN58 , padmeamidala , angel142stx , dudemeister , dezzydezire , Kitty Grub , The Curious Couple , anonomous , Misfit Momma , Kdlips , qwertypop , eggiweg , ily , Noira Celestia , Crichton , EJ , anonymouse58 , Lucky21 , melbellex3 , EdenG , NaturalWoman , I'mNotYourToy , Miss Nessa , emiliaa , jeangel246 , sausagelover , Cherrylane , unfulfilled , Kynky Kytty , toxie m , MeliPixie , Vanille , LavenderSkies , LowFreqFreak , AndroAngel , PrettyPurple , TwistedTruth , Stephanie Majors , NarcissisticLust , RTC , angiogenesis , SaMiKaY
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other..please explain
Angel deSanguine , ZenaidaMacroura , BadassFatass , UnknownGirl , ~LaUr3n~ , deletedacct , potstickers , Lucidity , liilii080 , Morganna , Sweet-Justice , Airen Wolf , D&&JForever , clp , Persephone's Addiction , Kaltir , Lady Marmelade , BadgersRose , teeny <3 , married with children , tickle me pink , (Re)tired Stripper , kendra30752 , mariedoll , ThoughtsAblaze , jesseftm , Linga , Chilipepper , Sex'и'Violence , ac0313 , ily , Noira Celestia , Miss Voluptuous , js250 , emiliaa , Woman China , Beck , IslandGoddess , MeliPixie , Mike Honcho , Stinkytofu10 , LilLostLenore
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Total votes: 216 (148 voters)
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Beaners Beaners
I loved how chill my boyfriend was, and still is. And how hot he looked playing a guitar. Rowr.
01/11/2011
Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
I was introduced to him on my first day at our then office as 'Hey, Angel likes computers and that technological stuff. You should talk.' Well, we got a big but slightly awkward laugh out of that. It became a bit of a joke over time and we were friends for years. He had a long time girlfriend, I had been dating a guy for a few years as well so it never really came up to be anything more until we both found ourselves single at the same time.

We share the same sense of humor (that would be dry, snarky and smartass) and he's got an amazing, caring soul. Add to that an ass like his and I don't know how I could NOT have fallen in love with him!
01/11/2011
Vaccinium Vaccinium
I met my wife in an anatomy lab, which is why we can tell people honestly that we met over a dead cat. I was actually attracted to another woman in the class initially, but as I was seeing someone else at the time, never made the move. Eventually, my now-wife's personality really grew on me, and we became friends. When the class ended, I figured I wouldn't see her again, but lo and behold, the next semester she was in another one of my classes (at one of the largest universities in the country, so it fairly surprising). After a couple days, she figured out she didn't need the class, but stayed in it just to be with me (I tell people she stalked me, but she bristles at that). As the weeks passed, she grew on me even more, and I ended up breaking up with my girlfriend to go out with her. Nearly 16 years later, it was still the right choice.
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BadassFatass BadassFatass
Well, we met online so I'd have to say his sense of humor. He's strange and it totally does it for me, haha.
01/11/2011
Bunnyidol Bunnyidol
My guy has an amazing smile and a great sense of humor. We work for the same company so I met him at work. I noticed he was good looking of course, but it was his easy smile that won me over.
01/11/2011
Crystal1 Crystal1
Some other indescribable quality of just being hyper-aware of him when he was around.
01/11/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
His personality and his intellect. I had always dated guys that kind of fit into the "meat head" category. I couldn't really have deep meaningful conversations with them. When I met my husband we talked for like two hours non-stop about politics and religion and all kinds of cool stuff. It was a chance meeting. I was with a group of people and so was he, but during the time that we spent talking, we might as well have been the only people on the planet.
01/11/2011
NuMe NuMe
I don't know what it is, but the first thing I always notice is when someone has a great smile.
01/11/2011
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Well when I first met my boyfriend I actually was not drawn to him much at all. I was still swearing off all boys and was not looking. But I want to say that first it might have been his voice since we became friends first and talked A LOT. Then it was his ability to surprise me...
01/12/2011
Airekah Airekah
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Well when I first met my boyfriend I actually was not drawn to him much at all. I was still swearing off all boys and was not looking. But I want to say that first it might have been his voice since we became friends first and talked A LOT. Then it ...
me too. he ended up chasing me for 6 months.
01/12/2011
That Guy That Guy
I got to know my girl while I was dating one of her friends. She was the only girl I knew who was quick witted enough to keep up with me and my friends, and she liked dirty jokes. But hey, at that age, most women look great, so it's easy to say it was her personality that drew me. The boobs certainly didn't hurt.
01/12/2011
Illusional Illusional
His ability to make me laugh and comfort me with some of the oddest sweet things.
01/12/2011
deletedacct deletedacct
Not only his eyes, but his hair. He had shoulder length golden blonde locks, i wanted to run my hands through his hair so bad. Nowadays, its cut short but thinking about still makes me hot. His personality also had something to do with it because we're still together after 5 years.
01/12/2011
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Well damn, I didn't know we could pick more than one thing. For me it was his eyes and the laid-back personality. He tells me it was my smile, my intelligence, and my butt in that order. I suspect he may have thrown in 'intelligence' just to be nice though .
01/12/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I was sacked out on the couch when he arrived on our blind date. I guess he thought it was cool that I was that relaxed. When I woke up, he looked at me and introduced himself and smiled at me. It was all over from that moment (the voices in my head screamed, "He's the one! That's him. Don't screw this up!") Good thing he thought that the "rack-face" look was sexy on me. Just glad I didn't have drool all over me and mascara running down my cheeks.
01/12/2011
Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by guard083
When you met your current guy/girl what was trhe first thing that drew you to them?
I noticed her eyes.
01/12/2011
liilii080 liilii080
His presence. He made me feel so at ease. It was like I'd known him forever even though we had just met. And he was cute!
01/12/2011
Not here Not here
I met him when we both worked at a deli in a local grocery store. He was the new guy and I couldn't help but notice his greenish blue eyes and cute smile. We both had to wear big, bulky chef coats and hats, so it's amazing that we were attracted to each other looking like goofballs. His personality was the next thing that hooked me, followed by his body- once I finally saw him out of his deli jacket!
01/12/2011
Morganna Morganna
The first thing I noticed about my boyfriend was his hair. He looked like a rocker/hippie. I love it!! Then after we started talking, he was very mysterious, I'm a nosy person so that just kept me coming back for more.
01/12/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I don't have a partner but it was his personality/character that caught me in my Master.
01/13/2011
lamira lamira
My partner's eyes are gorgeous, they're usually blue, but they change depending on what he is wearing. But mainly, it was his personality. He is so nice and generous and caring and completely the opposite of all other men I've ever encountered. That's what mainly drew me to him.
01/13/2011
ud328 ud328
Her legs actually. As cliche as it sounds I met her in a bar. From where I was sitting I saw her walk in and the first thing that I noticed where her long, perfect legs. One thing led to another and now we're entering that long-term relationship territory. I guess by luck we're into the same things with the same sense of humor. We're not exactly the same but where it counts, we click. And my god, those legs...
01/13/2011
Envy Envy
Personality, since we met online.
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Jobthingy Jobthingy
His smile.. I saw a picture of him online before we spoke and that smile sucked me in.
01/13/2011
Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Personalty and other.
Believe it or not my fiance and I met over YouTube. I was one of those dorks that posted videos of myself singing and she made a really lovely and intellectual comment on it and we became IM buddies. Then pen pals/email and then we finally met of and officially got together a little over a year later. We've been together almost 5 years now.
01/13/2011
Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
My husband grew up just down to road... I don't ever remember not knowing him... so i would have to say his personality made me look at him that special way.
01/13/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by guard083
When you met your current guy/girl what was trhe first thing that drew you to them?
When I met Sigel it was his expressive face and gorgeous eyes that drew me. With Arch is was his hands, I love a man with either strong blunt hands or large sensitive long fingers.
01/13/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
When I met Sigel it was his expressive face and gorgeous eyes that drew me. With Arch is was his hands, I love a man with either strong blunt hands or large sensitive long fingers.
One of the first things I asked my husband was if he was good with his hands! His hands are quite large! I love them.
01/13/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
I remember thinking how gorgeous his eyes were, and trying to get him to walk me home from school, lol.
01/13/2011
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