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ME DEFINATELY!! My hubby is 52 and libido is getting lower. Really sucks for me.
I'm 11 years older than my wife. I've always had a higher sex drive - but lately it has been curtailed due to low T and ED (I'm 58+). Getting on HRT (testosterone) helped, but I still take cialis frequently.
We're now at a point where my sex drive and hers are more in line.
For you it may be a question of performance anxiety - make sure the health issues are resolved, then maybe things will get better.
The toys help as well. I sue them to make sure my wife has a couple of orgasms before I try. If I can it's great, if not at least she's not frustrated.