Would you remarry?

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Would you remarry?

domsub1993 domsub1993
I know it's hard to say unless we're in that situation, but would you remarry if you lost your spouse? Personally, I don't think I would. I can't imagine finding anyone else who loved me like he does, and I can't imagine loving someone else like I love him. ?
09/29/2011
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Kkay Kkay
I don't know. I don't like thinking about it.
09/29/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
I wouldn't.
09/29/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I love My Man a lot.

But, I need regular male company and a lot of sex. I would certainly look for a spouse if I were to for any horrible reason, lose him. I pray that never happens. But, I do better with a good man in my life.
09/29/2011
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Having been married to a rotten partner and finally divorced him, I wouldn't mind marrying again - to someone MUCH better.
09/29/2011
PersonalAngel PersonalAngel
I wouldnt want to think about another man but if it was not meant to be then yes Id be open to it.
09/29/2011
Peggi Peggi
If I lost who I am with now, I couldn't even comprehend what it would take to meet someone new. I would be too emotionally broken to do something like date or marry.
09/29/2011
Taylor Taylor
I'm not married, so maybe after I do find a spouse my opinion will change but I think I would remarry. My mom died when I was a kid and I saw how it affected my dad and how he really had a hard time until he started dating again. I don't think he was ever looking for a replacement of my mom, but he got VERY lonely. He still misses my mom and it's been 16 years. Finding a new wife did not mean that he loves my mom any less, but he knew it wasn't good for him to be alone.
09/29/2011
indiglo indiglo
My man and I were talking about this a little while ago. He told me he'd want me to find someone new to make me happy and take care of me. I'm not sure if I'd want to though. Of course, I'd feel the same way about him - I'd want him to find someone new to make him happy and take care of him, but knowing him I really doubt he would want to.
09/29/2011
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Alan has told me repeatedly that if he dies he wants me to marry someone else, but I really don't think that would work for me. It would be a short-lived rocky marriage at best since there's no way I would be able to keep from comparing it to what Alan & I have. I think I'd just eventually adopt a "friend with benefits" and leave it at that.
09/30/2011
slynch slynch
I remarried last year.
09/30/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I don't plan to marry in the first place but if I did I doubt I'd marry again if I lost them.
09/30/2011
ScotchIrish ScotchIrish
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Originally posted by domsub1993
I know it's hard to say unless we're in that situation, but would you remarry if you lost your spouse? Personally, I don't think I would. I can't imagine finding anyone else who loved me like he does, and I can't imagine loving ...
The X2B and I grew apart. Never cheated. She is a good person, but the love has been gone for years. Soon the divorce will be final. I want to be loved, but marriage is not out of the question. Just not a focus. 21 years of marriage. Only two partners in my life. Commitment is not a problem and fidelity is Pinnacle and Paramount to this MAN. I know there are many great women out there. I just have to find; one.
09/30/2011
EJ EJ
I don't know if I'd go looking, but if I met a good match, I'd definitely consider it.
10/01/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
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Originally posted by EJ
I don't know if I'd go looking, but if I met a good match, I'd definitely consider it.
Agreed. I think that there would be a period before dating again, but in the end I think I would remarry if I found someone.
10/01/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Probably not, but one never knows, eh?
10/01/2011
oldhippy oldhippy
My wife and I have discussed this several times. We have been married now for 43 years, and still look at the possiblilty of one of us going first. By now, she has decided that she probably would not remarry. According to her, it would be too hard to find someone like me. (Her words - not mine.)
On the other hand, she wants me to remarry, and I probably would. I need a family around me, and someone in the house with me (other than animals). It would not be immediate, since it would take me a while to get over my wife, we have known each other longer than our parents knew us; or on the other hand; we have lived together longer than either one lived at home.
10/01/2011
married with children married with children
nope. Never again. Not that I dont love my wife, its just too much hard work to go through again.
10/02/2011
Beck Beck
No, because I am batting for the other team. If we split I am done with men.
10/02/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by domsub1993
I know it's hard to say unless we're in that situation, but would you remarry if you lost your spouse? Personally, I don't think I would. I can't imagine finding anyone else who loved me like he does, and I can't imagine loving ...
I can't imagine getting remarried. I've been married twice and never want to do it again. I don't think I could get past it if something happened to my Master. He's the love of my life and my true soulmate.
10/02/2011
mpfm mpfm
I don't think I would, but I tell dh he definitely should remarry if I was gone. He would not do well alone.
11/08/2011
InNeedOfABuzzzz InNeedOfABuzzzz
I didn't think I would.....I lost my husband of only 15 months a couple of summers ago. I didn't think I'd ever remarry or even consider it, the thought of giving up his name and being someone else's wife just seemed wrong and horrid. Unethical even.....

But then I thought about my husband...he hated me being alone and I'm still very young. He knew I wanted a family, a future, a life. I met a guy who's been wonderful and understanding of my feelings about my late husband. We are planning a wedding for next fall and I can't imagine not being his wife now. I mean the way I look at it, people aren't made to be alone. They function better with a partner and just because he left doesn't mean that I should go my whole life (I'm only 28) without someone to share the good times with.
11/08/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by InNeedOfABuzzzz
I didn't think I would.....I lost my husband of only 15 months a couple of summers ago. I didn't think I'd ever remarry or even consider it, the thought of giving up his name and being someone else's wife just seemed wrong and horrid. ...
I'm so sorry you lost your first husband.

I am very glad you found a good man to help move your life forward! Good luck to both of you. Love is meant to be shared.
11/08/2011
Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I'm so sorry you lost your first husband.

I am very glad you found a good man to help move your life forward! Good luck to both of you. Love is meant to be shared.
I have told my kids that if I were to die, I would expect their dad to remarry cause he needs someone in his life - and that they should be prepared to accept her because he has my blessings (in advance).

However, I don't think I'd want to remarry if my hubby died. I love being married and the sex is really great - but I've had a great marriage and just don't think I could be with someone else.

With that said - I never know - I could wind up falling in love with someone. But I'm not counting on it.
11/08/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by domsub1993
I know it's hard to say unless we're in that situation, but would you remarry if you lost your spouse? Personally, I don't think I would. I can't imagine finding anyone else who loved me like he does, and I can't imagine loving ...
I could and probably would. If I lost both guys I dunno if I would want to again.
11/08/2011
oldman oldman
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Originally posted by Taylor
I'm not married, so maybe after I do find a spouse my opinion will change but I think I would remarry. My mom died when I was a kid and I saw how it affected my dad and how he really had a hard time until he started dating again. I don't ...
You have a very positive and mature attitude. Many children have a difficult time seeing Dad (or Mom) with another person after the death of a parent. It is especially hard for children who don't realize the importance of intimacy in an adult's life. Your Mom did a good job while she was with you.
11/12/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I really don't think I would.
I can't really imagine myself ever feeling like that with anyone else. And I would always have that guilt feeling, I'm sure.
11/13/2011
TameTemptress TameTemptress
I'm not sure.
11/13/2011
Ansley Ansley
I don't think I could. He's the love of my life and I genuinely do not want to love anyone else the way that I love him. I know I would always compare the present to the past and that just wouldn't be fair to my new spouse.

If I had it my way and I could choose, we'd go together while in each other's arms. Peaceful and painless.
11/13/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
I probably would, not for lack of love for previous.
11/13/2011
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