WOW I am caught between a rock and a hard place!

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WOW I am caught between a rock and a hard place!

Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
OK so I am in a relationship and the guy I first fell in love with and still have feelings for came out of the blue and said "I did like you and still do like you a lot. I have been thinking about you a lot lately and would really love to see you again." I live in Hawaii and he still lives in NY. He is in the army and thought he was going to get stationed here. I told him that I was speechless and he old me I didn't have to say anything. What do I do?
07/26/2012
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Ansley Ansley
The grass is always greener, isn't it? You have an obligation to the person you are currently with and I think if you let this other guy just walk into your life, there's a chance he's going to walk out of it just as easily.

We always want what we can't have and no one but you can make this decision.
07/26/2012
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
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Originally posted by Ansley
The grass is always greener, isn't it? You have an obligation to the person you are currently with and I think if you let this other guy just walk into your life, there's a chance he's going to walk out of it just as easily.

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Wow. Beautifully said. I second this.
07/26/2012
edeneve edeneve
how do you feel about the person you're with? what kind of commitment do you have? if the old flame walked out of your life once, he can do it again...last, what are your motives for what you want to do?
07/26/2012
dirtythoughts:) dirtythoughts:)
Its going to sound cliche' but follow your heart. If you want to see what would happen, let your now bf down easy and go for it. Or stay with the current if you're truly happy

Agree with Stormy though
07/26/2012
Various Various
I agree with Stormy.
07/26/2012
LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
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Originally posted by Scrawberry78
OK so I am in a relationship and the guy I first fell in love with and still have feelings for came out of the blue and said "I did like you and still do like you a lot. I have been thinking about you a lot lately and would really love to see ...
If he wants you make him work hard to get you
07/26/2012
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
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Originally posted by Scrawberry78
OK so I am in a relationship and the guy I first fell in love with and still have feelings for came out of the blue and said "I did like you and still do like you a lot. I have been thinking about you a lot lately and would really love to see ...
Thengrass only looks greener, once you walk through that door it usually closes and regret sets in.
07/27/2012
Eliza Eliza
I agree with Stormy, too. It's not worth losing what you have for something that "could be."
07/27/2012
nova2014 nova2014
If it's going well with the guy you're already with why destroy that? I mean, the NY guy was kind of out of line saying that if he knew you were already in a relationship
01/31/2013
MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
I agree with stormy.
Though you should seriously consider the relationship you are currently in. This old flame aside, are you happy with him?
If the old flame hadn't stepped in would you still be considering leaving the guy you're currently with?
Be careful not to destroy a relationship to get to false promises and "what ifs"
01/31/2013
LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
You're so wise, Stormy. <3
01/31/2013
Genderfree Genderfree
There's a quote... something to do with a butterfly and love and I have no idea so I'm just going to say it.

If he really loves you, he'll be back! And if you really love him, then you'll be drawn back to him, too. Relationships can survive distance, but if you're with a guy already, then maybe time will show.
02/02/2013
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