Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship or wanted one?

callsignhusker callsignhusker
Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship or wanted one?
03/14/2011
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Originally posted by callsignhusker
Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship or wanted one?
Currently starting one. We met in a non-traditionsl setting; she has always desired a polyamorous relationship, but had always tried to fit within a monogomous one...an obvious mis-match. We have had many discussions about the importance of open and honest communication with EVERYTHING and have been able to do so since we first met about 3 months ago. With keen awareness of the stumbling blocks of a poly relationship, we plan to keep our communication open and check each other's feelings as we continue to grow our relationship.
03/17/2011
llorraine llorraine
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Originally posted by callsignhusker
Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship or wanted one?
I have always thought that it was wrong to be with more than one person at a time, but recently the idea of being in a polyamorous relationship is becoming hard to resist.
03/29/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I couldn't do it. If I did get myself into that situation, before long, I'd be hunting for just one person I want to be with.
I can't have feelings in that way for more than one at a time.
03/29/2011
joja joja
I dated two guys at once (they were also dating each other). It worked for a short while, but when they broke up things didn't last much longer with either of them. I don't regret it, it was a great experience and I hope to be lucky enough to have it again. Currently dating a straight guy who is okay with me dating others, but not particularly interested in doing so himself.
03/29/2011
miamortis miamortis
my husband and i are currently in a poly group. its difficult but we love it.
04/04/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by callsignhusker
Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship or wanted one?
Nope never! Am currently in one and I am happy.
04/12/2011
kelaaa33wish kelaaa33wish
It would be interesting to try, I wouldnt mind trying it out too see how it was.
04/13/2011
Belleuma Slle Belleuma Slle
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Originally posted by callsignhusker
Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship or wanted one?
oh yes. I just started having one. I never wanted to have serious relationships, and there were two guys that wanted to have sexual relationships with me. I pretty much thought, why not? and gave it a go. so far, it's working out ok
04/25/2011
ashaxmarie ashaxmarie
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Originally posted by callsignhusker
Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship or wanted one?
first off, LOVE your username bsg ftw!

i've been in a poly relationship for over four years now, very happily
05/05/2011
Dizzykakes Dizzykakes
I guess I am old fashion. I must rather just be with one person. Too many people seem to get in the way of true love. Plus, I am a pretty jealous person. I don't really like to share.
05/09/2011
LilDebi LilDebi
My husband and I did it back home once. And we are looking for something like that again. Its a nice change and we are both very understanding and communicate our feelings. We also agree that if one of us is not happy with the partner the other has chosen... we pick a new one. Our relationship comes first before anything else.
05/12/2011
kimscucky kimscucky
I found out my wife had cuckolded me with a man 10 years younger than her about 3 years ago and she continues the relationship telling me she will not stop. She actually told me my little dick does nothing for her and she deserves a real man's cock. Its my decision if I want to stay or leave. I love her so much I am staying. My new purpose in our marriage is no sex with her but i am allowed to clean her and him after they have sex. I've grown to accept my inadequecies and take my place as her cuckold. Has any women here decided this is what she wants?
05/13/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by callsignhusker
Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship or wanted one?
About 5 or 6 years ago my husband and I were in an adult toy shop in Reno. The girl at the counter said that if we were looking for something fun to do that we should go check out a local bar that turns into a swingers club a couple nights a week. Having never been to anything like that we decided to go and see what it was all about. It was both shocking and amazing to say the least. We were sitting at a table, visiting with a couple we had just met. The wife was a hot tall blond about 40. As we were talking she reached over and undid her husbands pants and began giving him a blow job right in front of us and the conversation never missed a beat except when she went fully under the table and her now bare butt was extending out between my husband and I because her dress had hiked up.
We decided we would come back again and maybe try to have a little fun with other folks watching. We had a great time and actually I rode my man off in front of a bunch of total stranger s. We still didnt open up and swap or include others though. After a year or so of my husband sugesting that maybe i should try a threesome with a friend of ours i finaly said what the heck and did. This was a mfm by the way and it was one of the best experiences i ever had. Having two guys at the same time giving you total and undivided attention is an awesome experience. Since then I have had several threesomes with my husband and other guys. He says he really enjoys watching me getting it on and getting totally serviced in every way possible. We have also opened that up for me to have fun on my own. I have had a couple of super hot pool boys now and no... I dont have a pool darn it -but you can get way naughty in a hottub or the back of a ford excursion. My husband has even limo driven me around now a couple times while I am playing in the back with a friend. Also a huge thrill! I have never had feelings beyond friendship and just sex between any of the guys ( or the couple gals) i have played with. I love my husband and our understanding is we both have to know and agree if its someone I want to play with. It lets me have a little fun on the side while giving my husband the pleasure of knowing, watching or playing too. It also has brought a great level of trust between us and made our sex life off the hook. I know its not for veryone but for us it works.
05/20/2011
Pixel Pixel
I've been in a few poly relationships before, and am in one now. I have an amazing girlfriend, and my Master. My girlfriend is also dating my Master, as well as having other lovers. (our various relationships require a diagram!)
05/25/2011
SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
No & no. I'm very old fashioned in this regard, as is the one I love.
05/25/2011
SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
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Originally posted by kimscucky
I found out my wife had cuckolded me with a man 10 years younger than her about 3 years ago and she continues the relationship telling me she will not stop. She actually told me my little dick does nothing for her and she deserves a real man's ... More
Please do yourself a favor & find someone you deserve who will love the way everyone should be loved.
05/25/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by SexyLilPixi
Please do yourself a favor & find someone you deserve who will love the way everyone should be loved.
I know that reading Kimscucky's post is hard for those of us who cannot understand how humiliation could be exciting, for some folks it is what spins their heads around and makes them feel alive! His partner may love him to absolute pieces but their dynamic is strange to those of us who have partners who delight in making us feel special. I know that my relationships seem strange and wrong but both of my guys are deeply loved, appreciated and while my life partner likes me to talk rough to him it doesn't mean that I don't think the sun rises and sets just for him!
If Kimscucky is hurting and wanting to escape then I do hope he finds it within himself to get help...but if he's truly happy then I'm glad he felt secure enough to share his situation with us.
05/25/2011
Kassi Kassi
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Originally posted by callsignhusker
Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship or wanted one?
Yes. My husband and I have an open marriage. In the past I have found I am happiest in a triad, Im at my best when I have both a wife and a husband. For now we are both persuing individual interests until we find the woman that will be our hopefully long-term wife.
05/25/2011
callsignhusker callsignhusker
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I know that reading Kimscucky's post is hard for those of us who cannot understand how humiliation could be exciting, for some folks it is what spins their heads around and makes them feel alive! His partner may love him to absolute pieces but ... More
indeed, to each their own
05/26/2011
CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
My husband and I have been dating a woderful girl for almost a year. At first I think it was just supposed to be about a three way, but we all hang out and date outside of just having sex and really care about each other.
I do know that at some point she wants to "settle down and get married", kids the whole thing and I hope she'll find someone that treats her as well as we do!

This relationship has gone so well, that I would have never considered myself poly in the past, easing into bisexuality was a bit of a struggle for me, but I really like having a third female and hope that this remains part of our married lifestyle.
05/30/2011
STIX STIX
Not yet, but I find myself curious. I have always had various fantasies about being involved with multiple people at once. However I had always felt “dirty” because that isn’t what “good girls” do. Luckily I found a wonderful book called The Ethical Slut here on Eden Fantasys that is helping me shed this guilt and embrace my sexual uniqueness. I finally got up the courage to confess some of my desires to my partner of three years. Luckily he is open to experimenting. I have always been strictly monogamous, so I intend to start very slowly… Perhaps with someone just watching or maybe having someone touch my partner and I while we are intimate. I can honestly say I have no idea whether dabbling in some “tamer” experimenting would satisfy my curiosity or whether this would open the door to bolder possibilities. However I do know that I am free to (safely!) find out!
05/31/2011
G.L. Morrison G.L. Morrison
I am rabidly polyamorous. It's interesting that some people see these are "not serious" relationships. I am a commitment junkie. I have deeply emotionally, financially, and time-consuming relationships with multiple lovers in which we do all the things that are staples of other relationships: child-raising, family picnics, illness, holidays, in-laws, etc.

Time is the most difficult resource to share. Particularly if your partners have no other partners.
06/22/2011
viridian3701 viridian3701
i just get too jealous
06/25/2011
briluminary briluminary
never never
07/30/2011
thebest thebest
never/never
just not for me
08/01/2011
Peggi Peggi
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Originally posted by callsignhusker
Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship or wanted one?
I was in relationships like this for many years, up until recently, where my partner and I have decided that because he is a bit of a jealous person, and my other relations were making a decision to move across country, which I had opted out of, and we split on mutual and friendly terms, that it would just bet the two of us, which it has now been for 10 months.

To be honest there are things I miss about such types of relationships, however, I am incredibly happy with the way things are and plan to keep them this way. The biggest bonus to being in such a relationship was that what one individual may lack in general or for the time being, another may make up for, it helps prevent some of the little fights couples may get into, but if you are dating someone who may have jealousy issues, or if you are not able to spread your time wisely among everyone, it can become very difficult.
08/16/2011
XzombehxbearzX XzombehxbearzX
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Originally posted by callsignhusker
Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship or wanted one?
I am currently in a poly relationship. I love it. Ive been poly for years and my gf is starting to explore it herself.
08/16/2011
acessorie acessorie
If i could be the only one I would but I'm too jealous for my man to be doing anybody but me.
08/21/2011
melsmith0626 melsmith0626
No Have never been able to share
08/27/2011
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