Have you gone to a Swingers'/Sex Club and if you did, how far did you take it? Answer each applicable response.

BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
I never thought I would ever consider going to a swingers'/sex club. Never. I'm a repeat customer now! We're not into swinging, but we thoroughly enjoy watching others have sex and having a little fun of our own while we are there, not to mention the build up all night that takes you back home for intense playing!

I would love to know if you've considered going yourself, or if you have, just what do you do while you're there? Please share!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Haven't gone and have no desire to do so.
20
Haven't gone and very curious to experience.
17
Can't wait to go back!
2
Tried it, but it's not for me/us.
Went and participated in one form or another (either swinging or just openly having sex with partner).
7
Went but too shy/intimidated to really participate in front of/with others.
2
Total votes: 48 (45 voters)
Poll is closed
11/29/2011
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SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by BuckeyeGal04
I never thought I would ever consider going to a swingers'/sex club. Never. I'm a repeat customer now! We're not into swinging, but we thoroughly enjoy watching others have sex and having a little fun of our own while we are there, not ... More
never thought about it but id like to try if i foudn one
11/30/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
Nope. My partner and I are happily monogamous.
11/30/2011
LittleA LittleA
We went the first time and did mostly watching and participated in some R rated ourselves that others watched. We had so much sex on our own that night, while there and after though, and it brought us a lot closer. I swear I was floating on a cloud for a week after we went. We just went to our second, and got to escalate a little more, where I was with another man and he watched. We are hoping to continue and be able to do a full swap where all of us can enjoy watching an participating. Even if you are Monogamous it is a really freeing environment, everyone is open and nice and having fun, and there are all degrees from the curious to the full on moresomes. The key is that you all know why you are there so it takes the awkwardness out of the wanting to meet people without judgement.

It took us about 6 months to finally go and take the time, and I wish we had gone sooner, and could go more often, but definitely do the research, not all clubs are good clubs, its nice to have some rules going in.
12/09/2011
jdFtM jdFtM
I moved and wish we had one close by!
12/13/2011
BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
Quote:
Originally posted by LittleA
We went the first time and did mostly watching and participated in some R rated ourselves that others watched. We had so much sex on our own that night, while there and after though, and it brought us a lot closer. I swear I was floating on a cloud ... More
From another monogamous woman, I have to say that's very eloquently stated. We very much enjoyed the experience and the sex afterwards when we got home. The place we went to also had private rooms with walls that went up to about a foot from the ceiling, so you could hear others. That was perfect for us to release some of the sexual excitement building up since we were not interested in displaying ourselves for others to see.

I really thought it was going to be a tacky meat market, but it wasn't at all! The first time we went, the owners require you go earlier so they can walk you around and tell you the rules. It also gives you an opportunity to ask questions and get some of the jitters out of the way. Everyone was very nice and there was absolutely no pressure from anyone. It was a surprisingly wonderful experience, and I really hope to go back soon!
12/13/2011
Nice to Eat you Nice to Eat you
you could be monogamous and still enjoy watching other enjoy each other. live porn! we have been just once, it was fun
04/27/2012
Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by BuckeyeGal04
I never thought I would ever consider going to a swingers'/sex club. Never. I'm a repeat customer now! We're not into swinging, but we thoroughly enjoy watching others have sex and having a little fun of our own while we are there, not ... More
Eh not really my thing. I'd be too shy anyways.
04/27/2012
Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
The thought is interesting, but I'm not sure if I'd really ever go or not.

At the risk of sounding ignorant, how do you even go about finding someplace like this in your area?
04/27/2012
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Very much want to go to one. We're taking a trip to Vegas later this year. I hear there are some good ones there.
05/01/2012
tammyandy69 tammyandy69
Quote:
Originally posted by Gone (LD29)
The thought is interesting, but I'm not sure if I'd really ever go or not.

At the risk of sounding ignorant, how do you even go about finding someplace like this in your area?
here in Seattle there are many clubs, so you could go almost every night of the week plus we have a big bdsm scene here and the do have stuff going on every night of the week.
05/04/2012
LittleA LittleA
Quote:
Originally posted by Gone (LD29)
The thought is interesting, but I'm not sure if I'd really ever go or not.

At the risk of sounding ignorant, how do you even go about finding someplace like this in your area?
We started looking online, I joined SLS and they have a list of clubs by state.
08/05/2012
Pinkshirt Pinkshirt
Not interested
08/05/2012
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by BuckeyeGal04
I never thought I would ever consider going to a swingers'/sex club. Never. I'm a repeat customer now! We're not into swinging, but we thoroughly enjoy watching others have sex and having a little fun of our own while we are there, not ... More
I've never gone nor am I a part of the swinger lifestyle, but I've always wanted to go out of curiosity, although I don't think I would participate.
09/15/2012
Undecided Undecided
Never gone not my lifestyle
09/15/2012
pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
Ive wanted to go and watch and see whats it about but im pretty shy, no idea if ill go
09/16/2012
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Unique posters: 14