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In the whole aspect of it all you never see a woman do the same with men.. is she allowed too or is it only the man?
Gawd I hope so because if not my guys will be pissed....I have two male partners. The great thing about Polyliving is it's totally equal opportunity.
We have the same problems and issues as MFF triplings but it's all totally "legit" so to speak.
I know of threesomes who are completely poly in that they are all three intimate and involved and they can be FFF, MMM, MFF,or MMF. In our case we share some interesting sexual desires that sometimes intersect but Sigel and Arch are not interested in each other sexually...just me. Am I lucky or what?
The guys are very good friends and are working on becoming even better partners working together to the benefit of our children that we all co-parent. We have two daughters and a son.
Sigel is also a bit of a player and will occassionally take on a playmate or even something a bit more permanent though he has stated he has no interest in a full poly relationship ourside the one he shares with Arch and I. I stick with the guys I have though I have on occassion joined Sigel and his playmate, generally I simply get to know them. I am not especially bi-sexual but I do like to watch my man 'in action'. Arch is uninterested at this point in looking outside our arrangement though he admits that when we are all living at least closer if not in the same household he may change his mind. The guys do like to go 'girl watching' and share similar tastes in women. For now it works and we are working to build a firm foundation before inviting anyone else into the mix.
We are very family centric right now as our son is only 15 months old. We protect our kids above all else and carefully screen ANYONE who may come into contact with them. You know like all good parents.