Adult websites are the only places that we've had luck. However, it never is started with the intention of swinging. We feel like being friends with people and ensuring that everyone is comfortable and sane, is more important. So we choose to play with friends (many of whom we have met through a couple we've met online).
We're not swingers, we seek out relationships individually. I mostly rely on sites like OKCupid (really poly friendly!), because I never know when in the meeting/flirting process to tell someone that I'm poly and in a serious relationship. A lot of people get confused and assume I'm either cheating or we're swingers. Online I can put it right up front and only get contacted by people who don't mind.
We're planning a trip to Vegas this spring. We want to go to the Green Door. Has anybody ever been there? How was it?
I use to live in Vagas...And yes I went there once...the place is nice..but the night I went only one other couple went there. There is another place. The Red Rooster is another one. Have not been to that one.
My boyfriend and I were just talking about this recently! I'd have no idea how to go about swapping if we ever wanted to--though to be honest, I think it'd be hard for us to find a couple that makes us BOTH happy, although he disagrees.
I haven't been able to swap yet. One of my partners isn't really into it (unless we're all having sex together) and the other, well, I don't know we just haven't tried it (been pretty close though). But I'm open to it and think that meeting people in person would be how we did it.