Clubs? Sites? Both?

Jobthingy Jobthingy
Just out of curiosity, what is your favorite way to meet new swap couples?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Swing Club
2  (7%)
Adult Website
12  (41%)
Both
10  (34%)
Go to a bar and hope for a miracle
5  (17%)
Total votes: 29
Poll is closed
09/19/2010
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Jobthingy Jobthingy
We do both. I often find the clubs to be very cliquey. I do enjoy our nights there but sometimes trying to get 'in' can be difficult.

We truly enjoy the websites because we can get to know people a bit better. Join Groups, attend meet and greets and actually have time to see if there is actual chemistry there.
09/19/2010
TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
Adult websites are the only places that we've had luck. However, it never is started with the intention of swinging. We feel like being friends with people and ensuring that everyone is comfortable and sane, is more important. So we choose to play with friends (many of whom we have met through a couple we've met online).
09/19/2010
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
So far, it's just the sites... we haven't been to the club yet, but we're planning to go this weekend...
10/27/2010
Jobthingy Jobthingy
Quote:
Originally posted by Brandi Rouxxx
So far, it's just the sites... we haven't been to the club yet, but we're planning to go this weekend...
Have a blast!
10/27/2010
Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
usually, i just swap with friends.
12/11/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Jobthingy
Just out of curiosity, what is your favorite way to meet new swap couples?
None of the above. We tend to meet our playmates in our everyday life. We aren't swap focused though so it's a bit of a different dynamic.
12/11/2010
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
We're planning a trip to Vegas this spring. We want to go to the Green Door. Has anybody ever been there? How was it?
12/19/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
internet is probably the easier way
12/19/2010
Danielle915 Danielle915
website!
12/29/2010
callsignhusker callsignhusker
we use okcupid
03/21/2011
joja joja
We're not swingers, we seek out relationships individually. I mostly rely on sites like OKCupid (really poly friendly!), because I never know when in the meeting/flirting process to tell someone that I'm poly and in a serious relationship. A lot of people get confused and assume I'm either cheating or we're swingers. Online I can put it right up front and only get contacted by people who don't mind.
04/21/2011
tammyandy69 tammyandy69
We have not had much luck on web sites..mostly unreal people on them, so if we want to add another person it's a party. That way we no they are for real..also can see them in action before hand.
04/24/2011
tammyandy69 tammyandy69
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
We're planning a trip to Vegas this spring. We want to go to the Green Door. Has anybody ever been there? How was it?
I use to live in Vagas...And yes I went there once...the place is nice..but the night I went only one other couple went there. There is another place. The Red Rooster is another one. Have not been to that one.
04/24/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
I'm in a monogamous relationship so I've no interest in any of those things. Already have what I need
06/12/2011
MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
My boyfriend and I were just talking about this recently! I'd have no idea how to go about swapping if we ever wanted to--though to be honest, I think it'd be hard for us to find a couple that makes us BOTH happy, although he disagrees.
11/10/2011
badk1tty badk1tty
Yay miracles!
11/19/2011
WierdAl WierdAl
Quote:
Originally posted by Jobthingy
Just out of curiosity, what is your favorite way to meet new swap couples?
I don't have the courage to go to a club and I really have a trust issue with a website.
11/19/2011
jdFtM jdFtM
I haven't been able to swap yet. One of my partners isn't really into it (unless we're all having sex together) and the other, well, I don't know we just haven't tried it (been pretty close though). But I'm open to it and think that meeting people in person would be how we did it.
12/13/2011
Total posts: 19
Unique posters: 16