First time swinging

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First time swinging

jc123 jc123
We met a couple online, have been talking for a few weeks, and now we're going to take the plunge. We're meeting for dinner next week and are going to a hotel afterward if everybody agrees upon meeting face to face.

They have experience, and have been very reassuring but I wanted another perspective. Anything I need to know going into my first time? Any final questions to ask, any final information to provide? How was your first time? As expected, or...?

Thanks for any input/help!
12/06/2011
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LittleA LittleA
Quote:
Originally posted by jc123
We met a couple online, have been talking for a few weeks, and now we're going to take the plunge. We're meeting for dinner next week and are going to a hotel afterward if everybody agrees upon meeting face to face.

They have ...
I don't know if it helps now, but the nice thing is that everything is on the table and you know why you are all there. No one is going to force anyone into a situation they don't want to be in, and if they are, then they don't respect the lifestyle. If you don't feel comfortable the first time reschedule. Its got to be right for everyone or it won't be enjoyable.
12/09/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Come back with an update!
12/10/2011
Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
know your boundaries, don't feel bad about them, stick to the plan, and say so if your not comfortable. and have fun
03/09/2012
Ansley Ansley
No matter what boundaries you've set, it would be a great service to yourself and your relationship to realize that threesomes and moresomes rarely play out like you've fantasized and there may be lulls or feelings of anxiety and at least one act will happen impulsively and is not meant as a knock to you, it's just a natural movement for the person while having sex and sometimes it can be difficult to think before you act.
03/09/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
Good luck!
03/11/2012
badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by jc123
We met a couple online, have been talking for a few weeks, and now we're going to take the plunge. We're meeting for dinner next week and are going to a hotel afterward if everybody agrees upon meeting face to face.

They have ...
Updates, yay!
04/22/2012
Nice to Eat you Nice to Eat you
good advice here, know what you want, stick to it, start slow, talk a lot, reconfirm it's what you want, and try and relax
04/27/2012
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