For those of you with more than one person...
I am currently only with one person but in the past I have dated up to 10 people at once. Not everyone lived together but for the most part we lived in close proximity and no one was ever jealous or unhappy about the decision. We had "rules" like if one of us wanted to date someone new everyone else had to agree that it was okay, and we always maintained levels of friendship so of course that way no one would feel like they weren't a part of the group especially since dating so many people and their dating other people meant lots of large get togethers when we weren't spending "alone time".
10/02/2011
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I couldn't find a good match for the vote but thought I would write an answer... I am married (first and only husband I plan to have for nearly 15 years) So thats guy number 1... We have a closed marriage that is sexually open -meaning I can have sex with others provided we both agree on the who, when, where - same for my husband - and if either say no then the answer is no without arguement...sex only but no dating. As such I am currently banging my super hot gym trainer on a weekly basis (guy number 2) I also have a friend from long ago who I use to want to fuck who I recently did - and probably will again this week (guy 3) I also have another guy who wants to get busy but so far has only tongue kissed me and felt me up... probably guy 4??? And another who only wants bj's from time to time so... guy 5 i guess??? And yes my husband knows about all of them
Originally posted by
ToyGurl
I have a few questions, just out of curiousity. Private voting.
10/03/2011
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Ok... so I had another blast from the past hook up day with someone I didnt expect. So I guess we are up to 6.
Originally posted by
CreamySweet
I couldn't find a good match for the vote but thought I would write an answer... I am married (first and only husband I plan to have for nearly 15 years) So thats guy number 1... We have a closed marriage that is sexually open -meaning I can have sex
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I couldn't find a good match for the vote but thought I would write an answer... I am married (first and only husband I plan to have for nearly 15 years) So thats guy number 1... We have a closed marriage that is sexually open -meaning I can have sex with others provided we both agree on the who, when, where - same for my husband - and if either say no then the answer is no without arguement...sex only but no dating. As such I am currently banging my super hot gym trainer on a weekly basis (guy number 2) I also have a friend from long ago who I use to want to fuck who I recently did - and probably will again this week (guy 3) I also have another guy who wants to get busy but so far has only tongue kissed me and felt me up... probably guy 4??? And another who only wants bj's from time to time so... guy 5 i guess??? And yes my husband knows about all of them
10/03/2011
We are only open to allowing women to join or sex life. I am ok with him sleeping with another women as he is also with me. Only things is I have to say it is ok and I have to be present. (Not involved but watching or involved!) Also same goes for me with another women. Neither one of us want another man involved.
10/03/2011
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I don't think I was ever not poly minded. Sigel and I have been together since 11th grade but we've always been open to sexual encounters with other people....him more than me unfortunately. I tried to be monogamous and could have probably been reasonably happy that way but he was miserable. Since we have opened our hearts and marriage to Arch we have been so much more than we ever were before. There are so many benefits that it's hard to list them!
Originally posted by
ToyGurl
I have a few questions, just out of curiousity. Private voting.
One of the major ones we are seeing now is we actually have had to learn how to disagree like aduts because the third party won't accept the bickering and childish behavior. This is the one point where we are all equal as it doesn't matter which two are arguing the third will not be drawn into the fight but will call out the abusive one is necessary. (Not surprisingly it's usually me being called on the carpet!)
I honestly don't think being poly makes you more evolved or a better person (read less likely to cheat ect.) because I think that the skills necessary to make poly work are the same ones that are necessary to make monogamy work. A cheater is gonna cheat until he/she solves the underlying issues making cheating so appealing...or they meet someone who doesn't see sexual encounters as cheating. I like knowing who my partners are with and celebrating the special bond they build with this other person but neither of my partners are inclined to do this. Sigel prefers to keep it non-emotional and Arch is happy the way things are...still one can hope...
10/04/2011
Right.
So I was first introduced to cuckolding about 3 years ago (inadvertently) by my husband. We were exploring and talking about what each other were into and he put on a cuckolding porn to show me an example of small penis humiliation because I had never been with someone who fit that description before, let alone who actually wanted to be made fun of for it. When it was my turn to say what I liked I brought up that I was really turned on by the idea of me having sex with other men while he watched/listened but couldn't do it if he was able to see other women as well.
Anyway, we toyed with the idea and discussed it back and forth for a couple of years and finally decided it would be something that we want to try. Currently we live pretty far away from my friends/ "friends" so I don't get to take full advantage of the arrangement but I want to move closer to home soon. So hopefully...
So I was first introduced to cuckolding about 3 years ago (inadvertently) by my husband. We were exploring and talking about what each other were into and he put on a cuckolding porn to show me an example of small penis humiliation because I had never been with someone who fit that description before, let alone who actually wanted to be made fun of for it. When it was my turn to say what I liked I brought up that I was really turned on by the idea of me having sex with other men while he watched/listened but couldn't do it if he was able to see other women as well.
Anyway, we toyed with the idea and discussed it back and forth for a couple of years and finally decided it would be something that we want to try. Currently we live pretty far away from my friends/ "friends" so I don't get to take full advantage of the arrangement but I want to move closer to home soon. So hopefully...
10/04/2011
How I got into a poly relationship is a bit confusing to explain but I'm really happy everything happened the way it did. I am female with a male and a female partner. They were engaged before we met and had dated other women before casually. I am the first to have a commitment with them and I love that they are my boyfriend and girlfriend. If there is any jealousy at all someone is hiding it very well. We are all considerate towards everyone else. They live together and I spend a considerable amount of time at their place and sleep over a few times a week. The sex is never boring or the same. We share fantasies and desires. I recently got them to open up to vibrators in bed, haha. I'm really happy with my decision to join their relationship but I don't know what the future holds. I'm also not sure if things will change when they get married.
11/14/2011
Lately my male partner and I have unfortunately drifted a bit away from our mutual female partner. She has another male partner besides the two of us and now considers him primary.(the mutual male partner and I don't see things in terms of rank) During this time him and I have moved in together. We'll see how it goes....
Apr 25, 5:37 pm
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