How can you tell if couples are swingers?

extrafun extrafun
Is there anything that a man/woman/couple may where that says "yes we are open to the swing/open type life style, when you may be out in a "normal pubic setting".
06/19/2012
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KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
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Originally posted by extrafun
Is there anything that a man/woman/couple may where that says "yes we are open to the swing/open type life style, when you may be out in a "normal pubic setting".
Not to my knowledge, but there are poly groups in many cities that you can find online and attend events.
06/19/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by extrafun
Is there anything that a man/woman/couple may where that says "yes we are open to the swing/open type life style, when you may be out in a "normal pubic setting".
Well the best course of action is to politely ask or get to know the couple in question because swingers, generally, do not advertise in any specific way. There are places in this Country where being a swinger can cost you your job. It's like being blindfolded, in a dark room, searching for the swingers. When you find them, though, they will be warm and cuddly!
06/20/2012
Mistress Dragon Mistress Dragon
As for the open or swinging life style, no there is not anything that you can wear like the rainbow for gays. I wish there were something but I do not know of anything for you to know who they are. There is a website under link that you can join and see people around you and read their profile and see what they are open to.
My husband and I are in the swinging/open marrige type relationship and just have to get to know someone to see if they are open to it as well.
06/20/2012
MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Well the best course of action is to politely ask or get to know the couple in question because swingers, generally, do not advertise in any specific way. There are places in this Country where being a swinger can cost you your job. It's like ... More
Yes!

There are a few great national websites that have different groups/clubs/parties all over the country. I am not sure if we can post links here, but we ask people if they are with Kasidie or if they know Kasidie.
07/12/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I could not tell when I went to a swingers club that the couples would be swingers. I was shocked too see the environment and people there. I did not think some of them would be into it, they sure did not look it.
07/12/2012
Mistress Dragon Mistress Dragon
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Originally posted by PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I could not tell when I went to a swingers club that the couples would be swingers. I was shocked too see the environment and people there. I did not think some of them would be into it, they sure did not look it.
How are swingers to look? LOL I did not think there was a way that we should look, but yes you would not think that some of the people you see at the partys or clubs would ever even think of being open or a swinger.
There are all lifestyles as well as age groups and incomes in the lifestyles of open, swingers, and poly. It does not make us any diffrent than the next person just like being gay or bi makes someone diffrent. We all bleed red no matter how or where it is from. More people need to open their minds and life to other ways of life, we would be a better world if they did.
07/19/2012
Lioncub Lioncub
Here we mostly go to Swinger House Parties so you know everyone is there for the same reason.
07/22/2012
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