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Are you married to one of your partners, neither, or something else?
I am married to Sigel and would love to be able to also be married to Arch. The marriage equation used to be of paramount importance to us a few years ago but we are confident and comfortable that we would still remain together even if there wasn't the legal marriage. We are married in our hearts but still Arch would like to be the husband.
Right now Sigel has the MUCH better insurance and earning potential, but we all know in a few years this will not be the case. When the equation flips we will probably flip the equation and I'll hyphenate my last name so that I have both last names.