My relationship is sexually open. Its hard to handle sometimes. He isn't a very jealous person. I'm a somewhat jealous person but I think it comes from a place of insecurity and not being rational. I often have to remind myself
1) Just because a girl is hotter or better in bed than me doesn't mean he'll want to be with her. If the person I'm with would leave me for someone for a reason like that then he isn't someone I should be with (luckily he isn't)
2) Monogamy has never worked for me in the past. And as much as I love my boyfriend and as great as the sex we have is, he is NOT the last person I ever want to screw and he feels the same way.
3) possessiveness and jealousy are ugly ugly ugly.
As for dating, I could never share my boyfriend in that sense. I am very prone to needing to feel special, as while my boyfriend putting his dick in someone doesn't affect that but knowing he wants to come home and curl up with me after (after a shower plz haha) is something I need.