so it is pretty basic, great relationship, but want to try it... best way to start the convo???
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How to bring it up???
06/11/2012
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would this be good for my friend?
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penis rings
would this be good for my friend?
For those who bring food into the bedroom: what do you use?
I want to try something different with my partner and incorporate edible items into our play time. If you have used any food items, what have they...
Ever wear a c-string?
A c-string is like a bikini bottom without the straps. It functions kind of like a pasty but instead of for your nipples it is for your cooter and it.
How to get him to wear a ring?
My partner has been having some issues as of late. He says that he has never had this before, that he has always been able to be rock hard for hours,...
Fantasies about a partner other than your own...
for those of you with fantasys about other partners than your own, would you allow your partner to get some elsewhere if they would allow you to do...
06/11/2012
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Honesty. But before even having that conversation you need to think about the answer to probably the most common question. "If I say no are you going to leave me" because no one wants to be put in that situation. If you know the answer to that then say its something you have wanted to try. But let me tell you this is not something you try for a week decided its not for you and leave the lifestyle, because it is a lifestyle and you need to make sure that you are both ready for that before you jump in.
Originally posted by
rbruning
so it is pretty basic, great relationship, but want to try it... best way to start the convo???
06/11/2012
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Exactly, I couldn't have said this better myself!
Originally posted by
indiechick
Honesty. But before even having that conversation you need to think about the answer to probably the most common question. "If I say no are you going to leave me" because no one wants to be put in that situation. If you know the answer to
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Honesty. But before even having that conversation you need to think about the answer to probably the most common question. "If I say no are you going to leave me" because no one wants to be put in that situation. If you know the answer to that then say its something you have wanted to try. But let me tell you this is not something you try for a week decided its not for you and leave the lifestyle, because it is a lifestyle and you need to make sure that you are both ready for that before you jump in.
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If this is something that is an entirely new lifestyle to you, and you've never done this in previous relationships, you'll also want to at least START a list of boundaries. For example, in the past when I was in poly relationships, we had a rule of thumb. Before you could add a new partner, they had to meet and get to know ALL of the other partners, and if the other partners were okay with it, it was okay. But everyone had to be included so there was no jealousy. SOME couples prefer to make sure that they do NOT meet your partner so there are rules set about where you can go to eat, stay, etc.
You'll want to consider all of this first, before bringing it up. Having a "game plan" is very important
06/12/2012
thanks for all the things to consider, we actually talked about it and he is open as well, so now we just have to set those lines out.
06/16/2012
What great response comments! I hope everything works out well as you try new things and potentially new partners. =)
06/20/2012
I hope everything works out well!
Best thing I can tell you, /communication is key/! Between my fiance and I, there was a big lack of communication, and we almost fell apart. Just be honest and talk!
Best thing I can tell you, /communication is key/! Between my fiance and I, there was a big lack of communication, and we almost fell apart. Just be honest and talk!
06/24/2012
gavind
I'd say go for it. You might even be amazed by her answer. 
07/20/2012
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