Looking for opinions on being engaged and poly.

XzombehxbearzX XzombehxbearzX
Me and my fiance are engaged. Been together a year today engaged like 6 months.Was wondering if anyone else is engaged yet poly.
09/14/2011
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Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by XzombehxbearzX
Me and my fiance are engaged. Been together a year today engaged like 6 months.Was wondering if anyone else is engaged yet poly.
I can't think that this would be any different than being in a committed relationship (which you undoubtedly are) an being poly. Nothing wrong with wanting to marry a partner! Personally, I'd love to be able to marry both my partners but things being what they are I don't see tht happening any time soon.
09/15/2011
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I'm not engaged and poly, but I am *Married* and poly, and see nothing at all wrong with it.
09/15/2011
SaraBroughman SaraBroughman
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I can't think that this would be any different than being in a committed relationship (which you undoubtedly are) an being poly. Nothing wrong with wanting to marry a partner! Personally, I'd love to be able to marry both my partners but ... More
Do you mean legally? Because I would marry both if I could, but I do prefer to marry one over the other.
04/19/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by SaraBroughman
Do you mean legally? Because I would marry both if I could, but I do prefer to marry one over the other.
I would prefer to be married to them both.
04/19/2012
badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by XzombehxbearzX
Me and my fiance are engaged. Been together a year today engaged like 6 months.Was wondering if anyone else is engaged yet poly.
I don't see how being poly somehow affects your engagement, unless your fiance isn't poly, also
04/20/2012
Mitzuki Mitzuki
I'm engaged and poly. I see nothing wrong with it. He'll always be my 'primary' partner, and if anything were to happen with other partners we'd always go back to each other.
09/11/2012
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I am engaged and poly... I can see how others may find it uncomfortable because our culture says that it is a time of change, but my fiance and I have been together for 6 years... we are very stable.
09/13/2012
DoneWithAlltheLies DoneWithAlltheLies
I'm engaged and poly as well. It's no big deal, although the boy and I get a lot of "oh, so you guys aren't poly anymore!" or "why do you have another boyfriend if you're getting married?" sort of reactions.
11/01/2012
TransGuy14 TransGuy14
I have the same experience as a lot of people. I'm engaged and poly, and all of the time people are like "but you're engaged now..." and when we tell them yes, but we're still poly, they say "What about when you get married?" as if that act/label will change everything.
11/21/2012
SaraBroughman SaraBroughman
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I can't think that this would be any different than being in a committed relationship (which you undoubtedly are) an being poly. Nothing wrong with wanting to marry a partner! Personally, I'd love to be able to marry both my partners but ... More
I wish I could marry both partners too.
02/10/2013
SaraBroughman SaraBroughman
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Originally posted by SaraBroughman
I wish I could marry both partners too.
Ooops. I didn't realize I'd already posted basicallly the same thing months ago! Sorry.
02/10/2013
woodsdragon woodsdragon
I'm recently married and were are not poly although we never were. I would assume it would need to be something that you discuss with everyone involved before making the commitment.
02/10/2013
IvyFayette IvyFayette
as long as all parties involved are ok with it, I see nothing wrong with it.
02/10/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by SaraBroughman
Ooops. I didn't realize I'd already posted basicallly the same thing months ago! Sorry.
Just means that you still feel the same!
02/11/2013
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