Would you be ok with your partner having sex with another person while you stayed faithful?

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Would you be ok with your partner having sex with another person while you stayed faithful?

pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
I know its often part of the cuckold experience but i was just wondering how many would be ok with their partners having fun with others while they remained monogamous.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes
XYCopperheadSly , Peggi , Ciao. , Airen Wolf , Kayla , Sex'и'Violence , Mister CreamySweet , LavenderSkies , Seventeen , MidnightStorm , WetJenn , mastersonv , cupcakeman , xxjoel , catsin , 12345678 , Ms. N , thekindthorn , Llahsram , Phosphorous Tick , John E W , SubmissiveFeminist , animepanda89 , Strider
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No
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Total votes: 151 (148 voters)
Poll is closed
09/24/2011
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emilia emilia
The thing is both need to stay faithful or both need other partners
09/24/2011
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
I think that "faithful" is whatever a couple agrees that it is. If I'm okay with my husband sleeping with other women, then he isn't being unfaithful when he does it.
09/24/2011
Peggi Peggi
I had to give an answer to both because I think it depends on a lot of factors. First of all are they fooling around with or without permission? If it is with permission, why are you considering yourself monogamous? Wouldn't most couples consider it an open relationship? If they are doing so without consent from their partner why are you allowing it to go on, and why are you still with them? There are a lot of factors involved in this.

If my guy were to ask for us to have other people...BOTH of us, sure I would be ok. But if he says "ok I'm going to have sex with other people but you can't" then sorry, that won't fly.
09/24/2011
Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
I've never been in an open relationship, but I'd like to think I'd be ok with it. I know I'm not a jealous person, but I would be concerned about the third party wanting a relationship with my partner. All depends on what we agree on.
09/24/2011
mcl272 mcl272
why would anyone be okay with this unless they gave the other person permission? if it isn't the case of permission, then i would NEVER stay with that person, clearly they weren't satisfied or anything to have to go to someone else. i would never ever be with someone that didn't want me 100%!
09/24/2011
Rossie Rossie
No way, I'm not into open relationships!!!
09/24/2011
sktb0007 sktb0007
Quote:
Originally posted by emilia
The thing is both need to stay faithful or both need other partners
This is how I would feel as well
09/25/2011
KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
Personally for me I would not let him do that.
09/25/2011
WierdAl WierdAl
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
I know its often part of the cuckold experience but i was just wondering how many would be ok with their partners having fun with others while they remained monogamous.
I would be rather upset.
09/25/2011
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Quote:
Originally posted by emilia
The thing is both need to stay faithful or both need other partners
I agree whole-heartedly.

I'm not an open-relationship type person and that's not something I would be okay with.
09/25/2011
married with children married with children
nope, not into open relationships. In my mind, that is not a healthy relationship that will work
09/26/2011
Ciao. Ciao.
As long as we both communicated with each other and agreed upon it, yes, I would have no problem with it (and both of us have been with others when we were partnered but not yet married).
09/26/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
I know its often part of the cuckold experience but i was just wondering how many would be ok with their partners having fun with others while they remained monogamous.
I had to answer both yes and no to this question. If I were inclined to be monogamous while my partner plays the field then ok, sure! AM I content to do this? No. Now having said that, my partner Arch is content to remain monogamous with me while knowing that I am fully sexual with Sigel and I am polyfidelitous with Arch and Sigel, though Sigel has many playmates. This would be why I say both yes and no. I can see how that would work though I wouldn't be happy if it were forced on me.
09/29/2011
Illumin8 Illumin8
No, not into open relationships at all.
09/29/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
No, I'm not cool with sharing unless I get a piece of his pie. I'd want a three way relationship or nothing.
09/29/2011
big b big b
not realy
09/29/2011
fifi fifi
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
I know its often part of the cuckold experience but i was just wondering how many would be ok with their partners having fun with others while they remained monogamous.
I replied "no" because you worded this as "while they remained monogamous". That implies that they are not supposed to be having fun with others, that it goes against what the couple found to be acceptable. Especially with your header differing from the question, stating "while you stayed faithful"
, it implies that outside play is a breech of trust, and that's not acceptable.
If the couple ~is~ monogamous, but are open to outside play, together as a couple, to experiment so long as it only stays play, than that is a different story.
09/29/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
My hubby is actually- in a round about way the one who brought it up to me (it was part of an alt porn he showed me when we were discussing what we were into) I brought up that I found the idea of me humiliating him while I'm with other men to be a turn on. About a year later after having talked about it a few times we agreed that we would both be ok with that sort of arrangement- me allowed to be with other men, while he stays monogamous.
10/02/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
NO - if he is getting some action, then I want in too.
10/05/2011
Ash1141 Ash1141
Definitely not.
10/22/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I don't think I would be able to handle an open relationship, especially if it was only one sided.
10/22/2011
Mister CreamySweet Mister CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
I know its often part of the cuckold experience but i was just wondering how many would be ok with their partners having fun with others while they remained monogamous.
My wife ( creamysweet) and I have a sexually open relationship that allows either of us to have casual sex with others provided that we both agree on the who, where and when before it happens. We also each have right of refusal in the sense that if one wants someone but the other isnt comfortable with whoever that is for whatever reason all the other has to say is no and there is no discussion or arguement about it. That being said I encourage, support and will do anything I can to help for her to have sex with others. We have had many mfm encounters which she really likes (Im totally straight - not that it bears on this in any way but just so those who might be curious will know) and she can have sex with guys or gals on her own if she chooses to. For my part in all of this though I have the same permission I have only acted on it was when we did a mfmf same room (same bed) swap. I really enjoy watching her though especially when shes super into it and really enjoying herself. Odd?.... probably. Fun?... absolutely. Will I ever use my stack of hall passes? Maybe but only if the right person comes along.
10/22/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
I know its often part of the cuckold experience but i was just wondering how many would be ok with their partners having fun with others while they remained monogamous.
Yes I would.
10/23/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
ummmm, NO!
10/29/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee and I aren't interesting in an open relationship in any form.
10/29/2011
badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by XYCopperheadSly
I think that "faithful" is whatever a couple agrees that it is. If I'm okay with my husband sleeping with other women, then he isn't being unfaithful when he does it.
This is very well said, and I do believe it depends on each relationship, and each person's feelings about what "faithful" is.

That being said, I do not play nice in the sandbox, and I don't care if it's phone, cyber, text, or physical - I don't share, and neither does he.
10/29/2011
tidalwave tidalwave
never, because i did not sign up for that kind of relationship. if he wanted an open relationship, i would leave. expecting me to just go along with that because he was 'just being honest about wanting that' would actually be dishonesty about respecting why i agreed to a relationship with him in the first place.
10/31/2011
jenn g jenn g
No way
10/31/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by badk1tty
This is very well said, and I do believe it depends on each relationship, and each person's feelings about what "faithful" is.

That being said, I do not play nice in the sandbox, and I don't care if it's phone, cyber, ...
Heh I have problems in the sandbox as well....I am an alpha female and my guys have to rein me in at times. I have lots of trouble sharing...problem is I LIKE seeing my guys with other women I just want to be the main focus of their attention. I work on it cause that's not fair to other lovers who deserve to be the center of attention too....it's not all roses and rainbows by any means LOL
Oddly enough I am more territorial about Arch than about Sigel....though I will still snarl unattractively if ignored regardless of the guy.
11/05/2011
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