So nice to see a place for discussions about my lifestyle! I'll start by saying I am currently in a triad "V" style with my husband and lover. The guys aren't involved with each other, other than doing stuff for me > and my lover and I are fluid bonded and monogamous. My husband is more of a swinger though he admits if he found someone who "fit" he'd probably settle...my lover and I just nod and mention that stranger things have happened.
We have always been very open about our life and love styles (without any sexual details of course) with our children and I am wondering if some of the others in the forums have had problems with their kids accepting their choices. I ask because of an odd situation in our family, it seems our kids have no problem with me calling my lover, my boyfriend but they strenuously object to my husband mentioning any of his lovers as "girlfriend". Apparently my boyfriend has been around for so long he's family but none of my husband's women last long enough to make it to girlfriend status...LOL
~Airen
We have always been very open about our life and love styles (without any sexual details of course) with our children and I am wondering if some of the others in the forums have had problems with their kids accepting their choices. I ask because of an odd situation in our family, it seems our kids have no problem with me calling my lover, my boyfriend but they strenuously object to my husband mentioning any of his lovers as "girlfriend". Apparently my boyfriend has been around for so long he's family but none of my husband's women last long enough to make it to girlfriend status...LOL
~Airen