There are a lot of things in every relationship that is the same, no matter what kind it is. I do not mind talking openly with anyone who wants to ask me anything. My husband and I are in a swinging/open relationship. We tell eachother everything no matter what. We always know if the other has plans with someone or if we may have plans to play with someone else together or apart. Open with eachother no matter what is the key to how happy we both are with our life and how much we love eachother. Ask away and I will try to help if not I will see if I can find it out for you.