When did you realize you were poly?

marshmallow marshmallow
I'm thinking I might be, but I'm nervous and doubting myself.
06/09/2013
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Why are you nervous and doubting yourself?

I didn't identify as poly until I got into a relationship with a poly person. I don't know if it'll last forever, but for now it suits my lifestyle. I tend to still be a single girl other than my partner (he lives an hour and a half away and we don't see each other often, so I still feel single)
06/09/2013
Boyfriend Boyfriend
My girlfriend and I are actually considering looking for a girlfriend at the moment. There are definitely a lot of things to consider if you decide to go down this road.
06/09/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
I realized it when I fell in love with another man but didn't fall out of love with my husband. I loved them both passionately and completely, though differently. That's when I realized I was polyamorous and quite capable of balancing the needs of both men. The guys have differing views on their "polyness" but they both love me and care deeply for each other.
06/11/2013
Opportune Opportune
I keep having dreams that we both are attend sex party and go off separately. I'll tour the individual rooms and when I come back, she's kneeling on all fours in a dimly lit room with about 4 or 5 guys licking their chops. In another dream we are screwing separately side by side a member of the opposite sex. In yet another one I tie her to the four posts in the bed, blindfold her, and warm her up while either another man or woman enters the room and starts toying or screwing her. It's a turn on to think of that, definitely a fantasy I'd like to live out once.
06/12/2013
marmouse marmouse
I think I always have been... The idea of having one partner never really clicked or made sense to me and it seemed unfair to try when I invariably feel for other people at the same time.
06/13/2013
Hipposterous Hipposterous
I realized I was poly about a year ago. I had tried a few poly relationships in my early dating years, and then I was in an open relationship for 2 years. After that ended and I started dating again, I tried a poly relationship and it worked for me. But now I am currently in an open relationship again.
06/14/2013
balletwhip balletwhip
Quote:
Originally posted by marshmallow
I'm thinking I might be, but I'm nervous and doubting myself.
Doubt is normal. It's human.

Finding a good meet up will help you feel more at ease about your feelings. I know it helped me a great deal.
06/21/2013
ICEE ICEE
about a 1 1/2 yrs ago i started to think that maybe i dont want to be tied down to 1 person. yes i have someone else in mind
06/22/2013
Tiffany Pollard Tiffany Pollard
Quote:
Originally posted by marshmallow
I'm thinking I might be, but I'm nervous and doubting myself.
My grandma was French Polynesian. I always knew it but maybe if ur adopted you wouldn't know. You should deff check out your family tree! ancestry.com is really good! good luck
06/22/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Tiffany Pollard
My grandma was French Polynesian. I always knew it but maybe if ur adopted you wouldn't know. You should deff check out your family tree! ancestry.com is really good! good luck
Well, I never expected this sort of reply! I think someone doesn't understand what being polyamorous (poly) is. In this case it means loving more than one partner at a time in every sense of the word not whether you are Polynesian.
06/25/2013
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