Your first three(or more)some

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For those folks here who've had threesomes or other numerical values of group sex, what was your first time trying it like? Was it fun, awkward, mindblowing, so-so? How did it happen? Who was it with? Have you been with that same group of people since then?

My first time was with my primary partner and a new friend we'd made, after we all attended our college's Queer Prom together. It was a lot of fun, and I'm now in relationships with both of them. Share your stories!
06/30/2012
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Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by thisisadeletedaccount
For those folks here who've had threesomes or other numerical values of group sex, what was your first time trying it like? Was it fun, awkward, mindblowing, so-so? How did it happen? Who was it with? Have you been with that same group of people ... More
My first was with my best friend in college and it was nice. It was also awkward, scary, made me feel sorta dirty, and it wasn't fun afterwards. It took a long time to get to the point where threesomes were fun and hawt.
06/30/2012
Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by thisisadeletedaccount
For those folks here who've had threesomes or other numerical values of group sex, what was your first time trying it like? Was it fun, awkward, mindblowing, so-so? How did it happen? Who was it with? Have you been with that same group of people ... More
My friend and I went out (we are both female) and were drinking of course..We met these two brothers and one of their friends. They were all so YUMMIE!! We were partying for a few hours, really having a blast. There was A LOT of sexual tension in the air, so I pretty much knew we were gonna all hook up in some way. We all decided to go back to my place (I lived alone) and drink more. We got there and one guy started kissing me, and one was kissing my friend, which left the odd man out. So...Rather than leave him sitting there, I grabbed his hand and put it on my boob. It was nothing but naked, hard, animal sex after that. My friend and I stayed on opposite sides of the room, but YEAH we had one hell of a night that we only shared with each other. Besides the guys (who lived out of town and we never saw again) YOU are the only one who knows that story..Well, You and the rest of EF community now. Specifics upon request!! LOL!!!
06/30/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
In my first threesome, we weren't at all sure if our date was going to feel interested in/ready to have sex with us, but we took a chance and invited her back home with us. She took most of her clothes off almost immediately, announcing that she didn't really like wearing clothes when she didn't have to, and things pretty much progressed from there. We didn't leave the room until 4 pm the next day, except for a couple bathroom breaks and one occasion when my primary partner got up and made us mac n' cheese. It was fantastic.
07/04/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by thisisadeletedaccount
In my first threesome, we weren't at all sure if our date was going to feel interested in/ready to have sex with us, but we took a chance and invited her back home with us. She took most of her clothes off almost immediately, announcing that she ... More
Now THAT'S an intro Sigel has never tried...I'm gonna have to try that next play party. Just get naked and insist I hate wearing clothes. BRILLIANT!!
07/07/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Now THAT'S an intro Sigel has never tried...I'm gonna have to try that next play party. Just get naked and insist I hate wearing clothes. BRILLIANT!!
The months since then have made it clear that she is really just not a clothes fan in general, but I have to say that it made for an amazing flirtatious opening line as well. I want to hear how that party goes, haha!
07/08/2012
LadyRelentless LadyRelentless
My partner at the time had a friends-since-childhoo d that he'd been playing with on and off for years. He'd told me she was perpetually horny and bi. We'd talked about threesomes somewhat abstractly.

Then I met her,she was super cute and horny, and it all seemed pretty obvious.

It was fun, but not nearly as much fun as three/four/fivesomes I've had since then!
08/14/2012
MimiPhryxus MimiPhryxus
First time was awkward, scary, uncomfortable and the relationship with the girl ended very badly.

Since then we've learned more about multiple relationships and threesomes are now a lot more fun.
08/15/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
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First time was awkward, scary, uncomfortable and the relationship with the girl ended very badly.

Since then we've learned more about multiple relationships and threesomes are now a lot more fun.
Aww, I'm sorry your first time went so uncomfortably, but I'm glad that you've gotten the chance to be in happier, funner situations since then! =D
08/21/2012
smlove smlove
My gf at the time had told me she was poly, and I was interested in trying it out. I'd read about it and dreamed about it, but never thought it was possible or workable in the real world. But then we got together with a friend, and it was magical and amazing and fantastic. And ever since, as long as it's with people we know and care about, not just random strangers, then we always have an amazing lovely time.
The most we've had is 5 total in our bed, including us.
We had a group of 9 where most people were interacting with each other in some way, but that wasn't entirely what I'd call group sex. It was group love, though. The room was soooooo full of love I love sharing the love!
08/22/2012
geekkink geekkink
I've had several, and they honestly get pretty boring for me pretty quick. MMF, MFF, and whatever else MMM and so on I get bored quick, and often times just want to have sex with the person I always have sex with.
08/25/2012
blackbunny blackbunny
My first threesome went down in flames, I was just so uncomfortable with the situation. The second time wasn't so bad though we didn't go all the way. The third time was a lot better but again we didn't go all the way. So I guess I haven't been in an official threesome.
08/28/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
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My first threesome went down in flames, I was just so uncomfortable with the situation. The second time wasn't so bad though we didn't go all the way. The third time was a lot better but again we didn't go all the way. So I guess I ... More
Define a threesome however you want to, I tend to shy away from sex definitions that prioritize one specific type of sex as real above all others. If you feel like it was an official enough threesome for you, it counts. Your sex life, your rules.
09/04/2012
PlasticScythe PlasticScythe
My first threeway was really awkward, it was mostly us just getting naked and staring at each other in a "Now what?" way.
10/12/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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My first threeway was really awkward, it was mostly us just getting naked and staring at each other in a "Now what?" way.
Been there, done that! Tres awkward but after a few years go by it's a cute memory.
10/13/2012
DoneWithAlltheLies DoneWithAlltheLies
My first threesome story says a lot about me as a geek... I brought home my hook up from the night before so that he could meet my roommate and possibly have sex with zir because they seemed like they'd get along. Ten minutes after the introduction, they're making out on the kitchen floor and for some reason end up retreating to MY bedroom (probably 'cause my roommate's bed was too messy!). I followed, both because I'm a perv and because they invited me. I got pulled into the middle of their fooling around, but I left them to get better acquainted and... wait for it... went to finish the volume of Sandman I'd been reading before everything started. They had to literally pull me back into the threesome; I got so distracted!
12/21/2012
smlove smlove
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Originally posted by thisisadeletedaccount
For those folks here who've had threesomes or other numerical values of group sex, what was your first time trying it like? Was it fun, awkward, mindblowing, so-so? How did it happen? Who was it with? Have you been with that same group of people ... More
My wife and I had met this awesome girl. We decided to meet again at a party, and then spend the night at her place.
What was hilarious was, partway through the sexy times, I had strapped it on and was giving it to our friend, and the song playing in the background was Bon Jovi "OOOOOh, We're halfway there!!! Ohhhh living on a prayer!". It was great because she was almost to orgasm, but not quite.
01/12/2013
CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
My first threesome was a little awkward, but my boyfriend (now husband), was very good at directing and getting us all comfortable. We hooked up a few more times and we have had numerous threesomes and 1 foursome since.
01/23/2013
Kirsten A Kirsten A
I think a threesome is really exciting when it’s in the context of a new person coming into an existing long-term relationship that may have grown a bit stagnant. When you are having pretty routine sex with the same person for several years, an injection of someone new is really, really hot. My first threesome was with my ex-husband, who I’d been with for quite awhile, and his girlfriend, who became my girlfriend. It was really fun, not awkward. My girlfriend was really experienced in both poly and in threesomes so I’m sure that helped.

Being the third person coming into an existing relationship doesn’t have the same *kapow* of excitement. It’s still awesome – sex with two people who you really want to sleep with, yay! And it does still have the element of exhibitionism/voyeuris m that can be a big turn-on, if that’s your thing.

I’m in an MFF triad now, and have been for over a year, although it’s long distance. At this point threesomes are a regular part of our sex life. When I’m visiting them, we have threesomes roughly as often as we have partnered sex. So it’s become a lot more ordinary.
01/26/2013
Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
Awkward. Uncomfortable. We were drunk. The next morning I was really upset and uncomfortable. I think for me it needs to be discussed and planned out ahead of time instead of a spontaneous drunken hook up. I just don't think spontaneous threesomes work for me.
02/26/2013
CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
My first threesome was a little awkward, but turned out to be fun and it was something we did a few times with that friend of mine. Since then we've had some more interesting/fun situations.
03/06/2013
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I have had one. It was boring, and I would rather have just had sex with my partner. I think it was the person we brought in, not threesomes in general. We'd only gone out on a few dates with her, and we hadn't established good chemistry.
03/06/2013
Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
yet to have one but excited for it!
03/06/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by smlove
My wife and I had met this awesome girl. We decided to meet again at a party, and then spend the night at her place.
What was hilarious was, partway through the sexy times, I had strapped it on and was giving it to our friend, and the song playing ... More
What an amazing story! Thanks for sharing...we all three have had similar experiences.
03/09/2013
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