What is your Number 01 Sexual Fantasy (Ladies)

Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
"Askmen.ca" ( link ) has made a list of what they have found to be the top ten female sexual fantasies. So I'm curious ladies, from the list, which is your biggest fantasy?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Domination (dominating)
SuperSarah116 , G.L. Morrison , CoffeeCup , indiglo , Owl Identified , hyacinthgirl , llellsee , Ms. N , Kdlips , shcoo , Graniteal , So Long Ya Doofuses! , Harpina is gone
13  (10%)
Domination (being dominated)
MaryExy , Poohbear5 , JessCee , Shorty32 , Wild Orchid , padmeamidala , bluekaren , P'Gell , Taylor , Noira Celestia , EnMH , lanky , jay28 , Beck , jessterinthebed , Dawn (Lilac Distraction) , emiliaa , TameTemptress , Callisto , cburger , Nothere , LadyDarknezz , mizzmilla , LaLaLouise , ellejay , RockMami , lilly555 , potstickers , bayosgirl , mudpie , tangleddreams , LavenderSkies , LoveDrunk , Daemonin , idunshire , sktb0007 , Gigi128 , sweetpea12 , pokefan15 , elli , Heatherbipoly , Geogeo , Crimson Vixen , Intrepid Niddering , vanillaSpice , Britt93 , Kittybit , MrsHouseWife , evie.amor , Jasco , Nova146 , SecretKinksters , JinxPinx , MrWood , Hallmar82 , Creepellah , sophia430 , mr115393 , HannahPanda
59  (46%)
Teacher/Student
XYCopperheadSly , SubmissiveFeminist
2  (2%)
Sex with a stranger
PurpleCat23 , PussyPurr , her angelness , Ckflicks
4  (3%)
Threesome with another woman
Cori , kjkitty , Triple X Moma , Nazaress
4  (3%)
Threesome with two men
Sex'и'Violence , Rossie , Waterfall , Ms. Spice , Midway through , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , ZenaidaMacroura , Pixel , kelaaa33wish , Kimmie1980ca , cocorochelle , PiratePrincess , wetone123 , Beaners , Gone (LD29) , ily , eeep , wrmbreze , samanthalynn , Moniqua , Nykatron , A Good Girl , GingerSpice , alliegator , LoveX , Crackpot
26  (20%)
Voyeurism
Force Fantasies (consensual non-consent/rape fantasy)
tickle me pink , l'amour , Rin (aka Nire) , biangel88 , Lyxdoodlebug , The scientist , ~*Damia*~ , eroticmutt , Sinfully , Cherry21 , (Re)tired Stripper , KyotoAngel , Love Perpetua , gypsymama , vanilla&chocolate , woodsdragon , BornInApril , lslsls92
18  (14%)
Exhibitionism
Ansley
1  (1%)
Private Dancer (Stripping/Erotic dancing for your partner)
Bignuf
1  (1%)
Total votes: 128
Poll is closed
07/08/2011
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Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
I refuse to believe that "private dancer" is the number one fantasy of women.
07/08/2011
Rossie Rossie
Threesome with two men is my biggest fantasy, and it will always be just a fantasy. My husband will never let another man fuck me, nor will I let him do it to another woman in my presence!!!
07/08/2011
Cori Cori
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Threesome with two men is my biggest fantasy, and it will always be just a fantasy. My husband will never let another man fuck me, nor will I let him do it to another woman in my presence!!!
I don't know if I'd even like having a threesome with two men, I'd prefer two women. But both could be fun. I like the teacher/student one too though..tough choice
07/08/2011
Poohbear5 Poohbear5
I did pick threesome with two men even tho it'll never happen. But I also like being dominated, rape fantasys and student/teacher.
07/09/2011
tickle me pink tickle me pink
My husband and I do a lot of Force Fantasies, and those are always really intense. In a similar vein, I also like it when he dominates me.
07/09/2011
salaciousrex salaciousrex
REALLY tough choice here. Really interesting though
07/09/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
good grief, you've named my favorites. three some with two guys is numero uno but i've always wanted to sleep with a teacher and exhibitionism is pretty awesome too... being a stripper would be pretty cool too
07/09/2011
Midway through Midway through
Quote:
Originally posted by Petite Valentine
I refuse to believe that "private dancer" is the number one fantasy of women.
This.

Anyway, I think being with two guys just totally does it for me. Flat out!
07/09/2011
Elnoa Elnoa
Two guys at once, but me dominating them.
07/09/2011
Wild Orchid Wild Orchid
I choose submission because in my wank fantasies there usually are two men in a D/s setting and I identify with the submissive one more often. But what is really necessary is my fetish. Threesome with two men was my favorite a couple of years ago.
07/10/2011
kjkitty kjkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Petite Valentine
I refuse to believe that "private dancer" is the number one fantasy of women.
I wouldn't say it is my number one because there are a lot of good ones on that list, but I have a pole in my living room and I love dancing for my boyfriend. It is so sexy and sensual to me. I think we enjoy it the exact same amount.
07/10/2011
bluekaren bluekaren
We have alot of these others covered (exhibitionism, voyeurism, sex with a stranger, sexy dancing, threesomes with both men and women)and get to fulfill them often since we are swingers. I think being dominated is something he needs to work on, if only he understood how much it turns me on...
Maybe I should work on flipping the script and dominating him!
07/10/2011
Ansley Ansley
I like watching and being watched. I don't have a desire to have sex with anyone other than my husband but I do enjoy watching him with other men and he wouldn't mind seeing me with another woman again, but PIV intercourse is outside of the boundaries we've set.
07/10/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Petite Valentine
I refuse to believe that "private dancer" is the number one fantasy of women.
I agree, but it's an article for men. I had this fantasy when I was 14 or 15 and had no idea what people really did in bed. It was easier than thinking that some guy was going to impale me on his huge member. LOL!

I've probably used most of these, with the exception of 2 chick-one guy fantasy and Teacher Student fantasy. My Man's no 1 fantasy is two chicks.....*sigh*

Two men and ravishment fantasies being most used, most of the time. Isn't "being dominated" and Ravishment fantasy the same thing? I refuse to call it "rape fantasy" because rape is NOT what women want. They want the fantasy (or the reality) of the man taking the lead, but no one wants the horror of real rape. I wish the term "Ravishment Fantasy" was used more. With Ravishment fantasies, a woman actually stays in control, but can fantasize she isn't. Being raised in a society that casts dispersions on women who "want sex" it makes sense that these are actually the most common fantasies.

I'd like to see the study that found the results this one did. "Private Dancing?" Who were these woman, how OLD were they and how many of them were studied or interviewed?
07/10/2011
SuperSarah116 SuperSarah116
I would love to dominate i think it's mostly because my boyfriend never lets me he feels like he has to be in control of everything all the time...ugh :-/
07/10/2011
Noira Celestia Noira Celestia
Being dominated/force fantasies definitely.
07/13/2011
Pixel Pixel
I've always wanted a MMF threesome! The closest I've got so far was co-topping a male sub with my Master, but it didn't end in sex.
07/13/2011
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I often have rape fantasies, though I don't know if I could go through with one with a partner. As I've said elsewhere, though, if anyone tried to actually force themselves on me, they're getting dick-whipped with a maglite! (or cunt-whipped, but that's not as much fun to say)

I wouldn't mind a MMF threesome. Not opposed to a FFM or FFF one, either, though they wouldn't be my first choice.
07/13/2011
Kimmie1980ca Kimmie1980ca
Quote:
Originally posted by Sex'и'Violence
"Askmen.ca" ( link ) has made a list of what they have found to be the top ten female sexual fantasies. So I'm curious ladies, from the list, which is your biggest fantasy?
Threesome with two men... yummy!
07/13/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
A threesome with two men is up there on the list, but it will never actually happen.
07/14/2011
Beck Beck
I really want to be dominated by my lover him grab me and make me do all those dirty little things almost makes me cream in my panties if i wore any!
07/16/2011
emiliaa emiliaa
Gotta say, this list is obviously created by a man. I don't really like anything on here except domination both ways.
08/06/2011
Nothere Nothere
Wow, that was hard! But, isn't the nonconsent one also part of domination? Teacher/student came so close for me!
08/23/2011
indiglo indiglo
I would prefer to dominate, rather than be dominated. I agree with nana.inuk though, this list seems like it was created by a man - none of those are my best fantasies.
08/23/2011
ijako9 ijako9
Interesting I wouldn't think some of those would've even made the list
08/24/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Sex'и'Violence
"Askmen.ca" ( link ) has made a list of what they have found to be the top ten female sexual fantasies. So I'm curious ladies, from the list, which is your biggest fantasy?
Well.... I have done sex with a total stranger... done the two guys at a time and even three... done rxhibitionism... done voyeurism... dominated and sort of been dominated... buying a pole for home but more for exercise though for the dancer thing we went to a local strip club seperate. I came in to "try out" for a job in some sexy outfits and danced on stage in front of my husband in the audiance... then got paid some shoe shopping money from him for giving him some reallllllly on the edge lap dances. I fucked guys... and also a chick once in a moving limo... and gotten screwed in an elevator from behind... so I have hit a lot of em. Guess the mile high club is still calling... and on a train... bridge over the freeway bent over holding the rail - oh wait! Did that... Boy! I think I have been a realllllllly bad girl! Wow.
09/20/2011
LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
My fantasy is to be dominated by a man that I love and have him love me back. I'm really big on the whole love thing.
09/20/2011
mizzmilla mizzmilla
domination
09/21/2011
LaLaLouise LaLaLouise
I voted for being dominated, but it's not so much a dom/sub thing I'm looking for, just for my boyfriend to be more aggressive and assertive.
09/22/2011
Total posts: 78
Unique posters: 75