My boyfriend and I are very interested in finding another woman to share our bed with...any tips from those who are more experienced on how to find a threesome partner? And are there any "threesome etiquette" tips you can give me? Thanks
Any tips on how to find someone for a threesome?
06/08/2011
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First of all you need to understand that you are looking for a Unicorn...and they are mythical creatures for a reason!
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soulrain
My boyfriend and I are very interested in finding another woman to share our bed with...any tips from those who are more experienced on how to find a threesome partner? And are there any "threesome etiquette" tips you can give me? Thanks
Very few women will agree to be the third wheel to spice up a couple's sex life...mainly because they don't like the feeling of being someone's sex toy. Now some women adore doing this, don't get me wrong, but these ladies are few and far between.
My advice would be to really decide what you are actually looking for. If you want someone to build a lasting relationship with who will share your goals as a couple and work toward a peaceful and harmonius homelife then you find those women the same places you two found each other...
If, however, you are looking for a woman to have just sexual fun with then I would suggest you look for a local swing club near you. Most Unicorns seem to gravitate toward these groups.
Good luck in your search but realize that this is a person you are inviting into your bedroom, not a sex toy. There will be problems, strong feelings and discussions both before (if you are smart) and afterwards.
06/08/2011
To address your question, you may want to see if there's a sex/swingers club in your area.
As the previous person mentioned, this is something you have to really really talk through to ensure you and your partner are really prepared for this new level. Also, the 3rd person you invite needs to understand and be strong enough to take rejection should it be decided during the "event" that someone has changed their mind. Have a "safe word" so everyone knows if any person uses that word, it means "no more" and no questions as to why have to be answered. Just be respectful.
As the previous person mentioned, this is something you have to really really talk through to ensure you and your partner are really prepared for this new level. Also, the 3rd person you invite needs to understand and be strong enough to take rejection should it be decided during the "event" that someone has changed their mind. Have a "safe word" so everyone knows if any person uses that word, it means "no more" and no questions as to why have to be answered. Just be respectful.
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