Do You Ever Opposite Gender Role Play With Your S.O.?

TexasBrat TexasBrat
For example, if you're a woman, and you're with your boyfriend/spouse, do you ever switch roles, where you're the man, and he's the woman?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, we've done this and liked it.
4
Yes, we've done this and didn't like it.
No, we haven't done that, but would like too.
4
No way in hell do we want to try that.
16
We haven't really discussed it.
12
I would like to, but I don't think my significant other would.
9
Other, please explain.
2
Total votes: 47 (42 voters)
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04/02/2012
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I got my wife to try pegging once - she just said she's not into it.
04/02/2012
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
I would love to, and I think he might be open to it in the near future
04/02/2012
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
No way, W/we would never do such a thing!
04/02/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
No way, W/we would never do such a thing!
Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeexactly, no way I would ever want such a thing!!! ^^
04/02/2012
Do emu Do emu
I think we'd both be interested.
Gender and sexuality are fluid things, so in my opinion there's no reason not to want to test out the waters. You never know what an amazing experience you might be missing out on because of your preconceived notions about something.
04/02/2012
Annemarie Annemarie
My significant other is straight up vanilla and very traditional. I've always wanted to try pegging, but he would no way in hell acquiesce to that. So, no.
04/03/2012
dks210 dks210
Nah, not really. I like being a girl, and he likes being a guy.
04/07/2012
lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by TexasBrat
For example, if you're a woman, and you're with your boyfriend/spouse, do you ever switch roles, where you're the man, and he's the woman?
no but i would like to just to see if he liked it
04/07/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by TexasBrat
For example, if you're a woman, and you're with your boyfriend/spouse, do you ever switch roles, where you're the man, and he's the woman?
I have role played a male for one of my partners but in the form of a shared verbal fantasy.
04/07/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
Nope...
04/07/2012
closed account closed account
I'm all for pegging, to me it has nothing to do with gender. it's me, a chic, with a strap-on.

to roleplay being opposite genders...i can see how that could be a turn on for some. i can maybe see me playing male, more then i could picture a guy to roleplay that he is female. ironic since i am bisexual. i just wouldn't be into it. at least i don't think so.
04/07/2012
Teaser Teaser
Nope. She's kind of a girly girl, and I like that. And I don't "think" she wants to play the man role? HMmmm...
04/07/2012
Hibangel Hibangel
Damn I wish he went for that kind of thing!
07/09/2012
SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
I have been the dominant one, on many occasions in the past ( couldn't keep my sex-drive nor desire to serve tamed), and even though I've never had sex that wasn't incredible, I was in reality unhappy with, and not fine in this situation....and that was the most manly man I've ever known in so many other ways that are the most crucial to me.

Honestly, I held so much over him (sense of self-superiority, wit, self-confidence, intelligence, basically you name it), that I intimidated the SH*T out of him & we lost those roles. My dominating personality & his submissive BS'ing ruined the relationship.

Then he started cooking & cleaning, and I started supporting us & found myself yelling all the time in confused unhappiness & my. junk. died!!

Granted, with the right person in the right situation, that IS a lot of fun in the bedroom. But honestly.....gender roles (and EVERYTHING that goes with them), dominance & submissiveness being in all the right places for ME is what really excites & gets me fired up. Different things tweak different people's melons. Personally, I will never go there again.
09/17/2012
AnotherPrettyFace AnotherPrettyFace
done softcore play only, but I have a strap-on on my wishlist for easing into pegging.
09/17/2012
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Nope, not my thing. Actually hadn't thought about it before.
09/17/2012
Artishok Artishok
No way in hell do we want to try that.
09/17/2012
AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by TexasBrat
For example, if you're a woman, and you're with your boyfriend/spouse, do you ever switch roles, where you're the man, and he's the woman?
We haven't talked about it. It depends on the details. I don't really get turned on by the thought of him in my clothes or anything, but using a strapon or something might be fun.
09/17/2012
Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
Quote:
Originally posted by TexasBrat
For example, if you're a woman, and you're with your boyfriend/spouse, do you ever switch roles, where you're the man, and he's the woman?
My partner and I are definitely thinking about trying this. We're definitely interested in pegging, and he's said he's interested in some gender play. We'll see!
11/01/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
No...I did it once with an ex and it was very awkward and unsatisfying. I like playing my female role, and I love for him to be the man. I have no interest in, but hey, I didn't knock it until I tried it, right?
11/01/2012
Andrew1992 Andrew1992
Quote:
Originally posted by TexasBrat
For example, if you're a woman, and you're with your boyfriend/spouse, do you ever switch roles, where you're the man, and he's the woman?
It could be fun to try.
11/02/2012
Deeder Deeder
No thanks. We like things the way they are.
11/02/2012
Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
Quote:
Originally posted by TexasBrat
For example, if you're a woman, and you're with your boyfriend/spouse, do you ever switch roles, where you're the man, and he's the woman?
We haven't tried it yet- but we're really hoping to.
11/07/2012
LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
I don't think I would enjoy being a man. lol

And how would I play the role so as not to offend someone with gender stereotypes?!
11/07/2012
zipbro zipbro
Quote:
Originally posted by TexasBrat
For example, if you're a woman, and you're with your boyfriend/spouse, do you ever switch roles, where you're the man, and he's the woman?
Yes my wife like to pretend she is a guy with a big cock and I am a girl sucking her off. she loves this when I am sucking on her clit.
06/07/2013
requiem dreams requiem dreams
yes we have done it
06/07/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We enjoy pegging, but I'm still the woman and he's the man...even if I'm riding his ass with a strap-on.
06/09/2013
Total posts: 28
Unique posters: 27