Do you have a list?

Contributor: Gary Gary
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Originally posted by Victoria
Ew, Gary. I pity the fool who believes that I'd sleep with him. His beard is weak.
Aw... you say the sweetest things! His beard is weak!
05/20/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
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Originally posted by Gary
Aw... you say the sweetest things! His beard is weak!
You are a strange one, Gary!
05/22/2010
Contributor: Persephone's Addiction Persephone's Addiction
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Originally posted by *Ashley*
I do have a list and Johnny Depp has been number one on my list from the start! Others are Paul Walker.. Orlando Bloom.. I could go on, but I guess those would be my top 3.

I’m sure my man has a list too, he's named a few but I cant recall ... more
I'm with you - there isn't a person I would forgive my partner for sleeping with. Ugh.
05/24/2010
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Nope, would not be okay with it and I would not be okay with having a list. When you are with someone, it is my feeling that if you are truly committed to them, you don't fantasize about other things. My partner has the same feeling. Fantasies ... more
I could not agree more.
05/31/2010
Contributor: kck kck
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Nope, would not be okay with it and I would not be okay with having a list. When you are with someone, it is my feeling that if you are truly committed to them, you don't fantasize about other things. My partner has the same feeling. Fantasies ... more
100% agree.

I've been cheated on before. I don't find joking about having extraneous relations funny in the slightest.
05/31/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I doubt I'll ever get a chance to sleep with Johnny Depp, nor will My Man get Marissa Tomei.

Would I actually do it? I have no idea? Johnny's at the top of my freebie list, along with Hugh Laurie (who looks just like My Man anyway) Will Smith, Paulie Konerko (he's the 1st baseman for the Sox, HOT! Fantastic ass....) and George Clooney.

My Man and I both have fantasies, I don't think it detracts from our relationship, but enhances it, but everybody has a different mind set. So, you have to go with what works for you. Most fantasies never materialize, so I see them as harmless.

Funny thing is, I DON'T fantasize sexually about Johnny Depp, or any of the guys on my "Freebie List." It's just a funny thing we do. My fantasies tend to involve rather faceless, anonymous men. Whatever.....
08/13/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
We don't have a list, but would probably be okay with it, or at least talk about it.
08/13/2010
Contributor: NightNight NightNight
There is no formal list but if he slept with someone that was on his "informal" list I'd just have to give him a high-five. I'd probably be proud of him... as long as he stayed down-to-earth about it
08/13/2010
Contributor: Andromeda Andromeda
We have a joke that if he ever got the chance, he can sleep with Katee Sackhoff so long as I got the same leeway with Gaspard Ulliel. However, if it actually happened....
08/13/2010
Contributor: Latsyrc728 Latsyrc728
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
We don't really have a list but we both joke about Pauley Perette
She is pretty hot! If I was to go girl on girl...it would be her
08/15/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
We don't have a list, just an open relationship. He'd tell me anyhow if there were someone and I'd tell him.
08/15/2010
Contributor: oohlookasquirrel oohlookasquirrel
I have a hard time fantasizing about things that just plain aren't going to happen. I spend a lot of time thinking about the set-up and seduction when I'm making a new fantasy (how would we meet, how would things get sexual, etc.). I just can't convince myself that I'm ever going to meet these people and fuck them, even if I'd like to. I don't know anything about what these celebrities are like!

Anyway, usually I am fantasizing about a character the actor is playing instead of the actor himself. It's usually easier for me to fantasize about the character, with the scene happening within the context of the show, than it is for me to fantasize about the actor. I don't really want to sleep with the actor. They're strangers, after all, and I prefer to get to know a person before we get naked.

That being said, if my partner wanted to sleep with someone he had a crush on, I would give him the "go ahead", but with a lot of caveats. Provided that they were protecting against pregnancy and STIs and there was no chance of him leaving me for the person and I could be there to watch/participate, I'd be cool with it. We are monogamous at the moment, but he knows I'm open to more and we'll probably get there in the future.
08/15/2010
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
My boyfriend and I started in an open relationship so maybe not a list but whatever he is doing when we're apart is something I don't really want to know about.
08/17/2010
Contributor: Tisbury Tisbury
I have a list - in my mind. Hahaha.
I tried discussing it with my partner once and she got mad.
09/09/2010
Contributor: EmberPetals EmberPetals
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Originally posted by Two Loves
So, we love to watch Entourage and during on episode Vince sleeps with a girl who is engaged but she said it's okay because he was on her list of celebrities that should could sleep with and it be okay. So this question is for those of you in ... more
His list - Sandra Bullock, Tyra Banks, Jennifer Anistan, and Cameron Diaz

My list - Johnny Depp, Miyavi, Ziyi Zhang, and Jude Law
10/07/2010
Contributor: EmberPetals EmberPetals
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Originally posted by oohlookasquirrel
I have a hard time fantasizing about things that just plain aren't going to happen. I spend a lot of time thinking about the set-up and seduction when I'm making a new fantasy (how would we meet, how would things get sexual, etc.). I just ... more
Yes I do that too (fantasize about characters actors play)... although I do have a list of some favorites.
10/07/2010
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
We do not have a list, but we both would be okay with the other one banging any celebrity they wished (well okay, we have a few limitations) but generally we're an open relationship...

Actually we do have a list of people the other person is not allowed to sleep with "tom cruise" is on that list for both of us because... ew.
10/10/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
I have a list of actors who I find incredibly hot and my husband and joke together about it. But I'd never be interested in sleeping with them, even if I ever had the chance.

I have always enjoyed having fantasy crushes. I realize that my mental image of the person is not who they really are and I would hate to ruin my fun little crush by interjecting reality by having a real-life encounter anyway!

My list of fantasy crushes:

Eric Bana (ESPECIALLY in Troy)
Christian Bale
Robert Downy, Jr.
Colin Farrell
James Purefoy
Gerard Butler
Johnny Depp
Jonathan Rhys Meyers
Jude Law (especially in Cold Mountain)

There are others, but they are not coming to mind right now . . .
10/10/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
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Originally posted by oohlookasquirrel
I have a hard time fantasizing about things that just plain aren't going to happen. I spend a lot of time thinking about the set-up and seduction when I'm making a new fantasy (how would we meet, how would things get sexual, etc.). I just ... more
I do that, too . . . (fantasizing about the character -- so it is more like I am playing a character myself, only in my head!).
10/10/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
we have a person. not a list. and the person is impossible for use both. carmen electra and josh hartnet. both gorgeous ppl.
10/10/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
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Originally posted by Two Loves
So, we love to watch Entourage and during on episode Vince sleeps with a girl who is engaged but she said it's okay because he was on her list of celebrities that should could sleep with and it be okay. So this question is for those of you in ... more
It wouldn't be monogamous if he slept with someone else!
10/19/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
We do not have a list but I'm thinking of starting one...
10/19/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
There's no list, but I'll still sleep with whoever I damn well please
10/19/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
Me: Christopher Nolan.
Boyfriend: Christina Ricci.

If we actually had the chance, we wouldn't actually do them (that's what we say anyway), but we both have insurmountable crushes on these folks and we each get jealous of each other's picks. It's cute, really.
10/19/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
Couldn't sleep with anyone else and live with myself and I'm fairly certain he feels the same way. Marriage is special and bonding to one another. Lots of stars are sexy and 'doable' but neither of us would ever consider anyone else.
10/20/2010
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
No list. I haven't even seen this show haha. I don't really watch tv. He doesn't have a list either, but he does watch the show.
10/20/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Victoria
Ew, Gary. I pity the fool who believes that I'd sleep with him. His beard is weak.
"LIKE"

But what about Isaac Hayes.... although I suppose he's dead now, so I guess thats besides the point. I would hope your answer would be no because necrophilia.. yuck.


There is no list and never will there be one. I think that if you are with a person, it is fine to fantasize but to actually make a point of saying, if the opportunity came up, I hope you wouldn't mind me fucking somebody else, because being monogamous isn't THAT important to me.

Unless it was an agreed upon situation that applied to regular activity within the relationship. NO. HELL NO.
11/21/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Two Loves
So, we love to watch Entourage and during on episode Vince sleeps with a girl who is engaged but she said it's okay because he was on her list of celebrities that should could sleep with and it be okay. So this question is for those of you in ... more
I have a running list of celebs (male and female) that I think are beautiful and hot and sexy. My Mister and I joke around about how hot an actress is, but we both know it's in good fun.

Two reasons why this is OK with us is:

1) We NEVER, EVER, EVER, bring it into our fantasy life. We never create scenarios in our minds of what we'd do with them.
2) It would never actually happen in real life, so we don't see the harm in joking around about it. I seriously doubt that either one of us is a celebrity's type and we live in the center of the Midwest. No one on my list ever comes here!

My Mister's List:

Katherine Heigl
Jayma Mays
Alicia Silverstone (from Clueless and the Aerosmith videos only)
Liv Tyler
Rachel McAdams
Sara Ramirez

My List:

Edward Norton (never leaves the top)
Seth Green
Jensen Ackles
Taylor Lautner (no crap, I know I'm a cougar and he is CUT!)
Anthony Stewart Head
Seth McFarland
Steven R. McQueen
Ian Somerhalder
Matthew Morrison
Taye Diggs (unh)
Katherine Moennig
Rachel McAdams
Jayma Mays
Eliza Dushku

I could go on.....
11/21/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
I have a running list of celebs (male and female) that I think are beautiful and hot and sexy. My Mister and I joke around about how hot an actress is, but we both know it's in good fun.

Two reasons why this is OK with us is:

1) ... more
I forgot:

Gerard Butler
Hugh Laurie
Daniel Radcliffe
Rupert Grint
Gwyneth Paltrow
Nicholas Brendan
Eric Dane
Chyler Leigh
Kate Walsh
Kevin McKidd

Like I said, I could go on.....
11/21/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Nope, would not be okay with it and I would not be okay with having a list. When you are with someone, it is my feeling that if you are truly committed to them, you don't fantasize about other things. My partner has the same feeling. Fantasies ... more
I completely agree.
11/21/2010