Do you have any sexual fantasies you're afraid to try?

lecanis lecanis
In talking with people a lot about sexuality, one of the interesting things I've found is that many have sexual fantasies they are afraid to try. I'm curious how many of you folks out there have them, and if so, what are the main reasons?
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Yes, fear of taboo.
19
Yes, fear of injury.
17
Yes, fear of being disappointed.
31
No, I try everything that interests me!
7
I haven't gotten around to them yet, but I'm determined to try them!
16
Total votes: 90 (69 voters)
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Taylor Taylor
Yes. I have wanted to try a fake "rape" roleplay, but I am afraid that it might be to emotionally difficult for me. So it's not really any of the options you listed, but rather it's a rear of not being able to emotionally handle it.
12/07/2011
toxie m toxie m
Other: I have a number of fantasies that I just do not want to try because they are much, much better as fantasy. Not everything that turns me on needs to happen in the real world.
12/07/2011
Sublime Sublime
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Originally posted by toxie m
Other: I have a number of fantasies that I just do not want to try because they are much, much better as fantasy. Not everything that turns me on needs to happen in the real world.
Took the words out of my mouth!
12/07/2011
Trishcuit629 Trishcuit629
Anything that I am physically able to try, I try, with the exception of anything illegal. My mom did agree to bail me out though, one time, if I got arrested for indecent exposure.
12/07/2011
eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by lecanis
In talking with people a lot about sexuality, one of the interesting things I've found is that many have sexual fantasies they are afraid to try. I'm curious how many of you folks out there have them, and if so, what are the main reasons?
Yeah, I have tried all of my taboo fantasies (because I really don't care what society thinks of my sexual practices since those are private and not meant to be known anyway) but I do have some more dangerous fantasies I have thought about occasionally, or not dangerous but risky in general that I don't think I would ever try.
12/08/2011
Cherry21 Cherry21
Quote:
Originally posted by lecanis
In talking with people a lot about sexuality, one of the interesting things I've found is that many have sexual fantasies they are afraid to try. I'm curious how many of you folks out there have them, and if so, what are the main reasons?
not necessarily mine, but i wanna do FFM for my husband, cause hes done MMF with me. think i'd get too jealous though, plus i dont want to feel left out while hes doing her, cause i dont know what i'd do during that time ,lol.
12/08/2011
Cherry21 Cherry21
Quote:
Originally posted by toxie m
Other: I have a number of fantasies that I just do not want to try because they are much, much better as fantasy. Not everything that turns me on needs to happen in the real world.
thats so true!!
12/08/2011
voenne voenne
Yeah, but I haven't really met the person I want to share them with yet.
12/08/2011
swaggsohott12 swaggsohott12
yeah but i doubt i will ever do them
12/08/2011
null null
Yes, I fear injury and disappointment.
12/08/2011
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I fear injury and disappointment as well. I wouldn't want something that was planned to be a fun time to turn out emotionally painful.
12/08/2011
bsgs bsgs
i want to try all of my fantasies, but it would kinda suck to be disappointed by them if you build it up too much
02/15/2012
Lizzy Lizzy
Not yet.
03/02/2012
Beck Beck
Other: because I don't have willing participants and a husband who will allow it.
03/02/2012
scaredlittleboy scaredlittleboy
Some of them are impossible...but the ones that are possible, I'm determined to try!
03/08/2012
tigertiger tigertiger
Quote:
Originally posted by lecanis
In talking with people a lot about sexuality, one of the interesting things I've found is that many have sexual fantasies they are afraid to try. I'm curious how many of you folks out there have them, and if so, what are the main reasons?
i have fantasies i just don't really WANT to try irl
03/08/2012
sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
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Originally posted by Cherry21
not necessarily mine, but i wanna do FFM for my husband, cause hes done MMF with me. think i'd get too jealous though, plus i dont want to feel left out while hes doing her, cause i dont know what i'd do during that time ,lol.
you shouldn't do anything that you are worried about doing.

Jealousy can ruin a person and a relationship, don't do anything because someone did something for you.

I've still not repaired from doing something that made me jealous a long time ago(a few years) and I know I will never be the same, and I know I will never be as confident as I was.
03/20/2012
sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
No, I try everything that interests me!
I haven't gotten around to them yet, but I'm determined to try them!


Is a mix of the two
03/20/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
Some fantasies are better left as fantasies...for me at least.
03/20/2012
funluvinmama funluvinmama
other than wanting to have sex in a public place or out under the stars, I really don't have any fantasies. my husband wont have sex in public or outside so it will never happen.
03/20/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by SilverMinxxx
Some fantasies are better left as fantasies...for me at least.
I have to agree with this. Some of my fantasies involve 3-somes (or more), neither I or my partner are willing to go down that road - we could never handle the complications.
03/20/2012
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I agree with some others that emotionally, I wouldn't be able to handle them.
03/20/2012
Kate D Kate D
Quote:
Originally posted by lecanis
In talking with people a lot about sexuality, one of the interesting things I've found is that many have sexual fantasies they are afraid to try. I'm curious how many of you folks out there have them, and if so, what are the main reasons?
I am not afraid of trying anything. I may fear the results of trying it, like if I choose to do something and hubby found out.

I wont do sexting for him, but recently started engaging in sexting with a male on facebook. I'm sure dear hubby would not be happy if he knew that some guy showed me his cock via MMS, and even less to know I showed the guy my bare breasts in reply. Getting his next picture showing himself stroking to my breasts made me extremely horny and got me pleasuring myself and ending up sending him a few more pictures of me masturbating and another of the wet results and rock hard nipples.

Now,I dont THINK I want to go further with the facebook guy, but it was so intense letting a guy I barely know see me topless and nude like that. He has not pushed things too far, but its obvious he would like to see more. I cant believe that I sent him such detailed images of me and didnt even make sure my face was hidden. I'm worried the guy will pass the pics around.

Things I might try in the future, if hubby was OK with it or we were divorced would be pretty much anything sexual with a person who could consent to it legally. Being female, I think sex with animals is strange, but would not suggest than an animal can not consent as the animal is typically actively seeking it. I have seen a woman with a dog and found nothing wrong with it because the dog certainly did not seem to be minding it at all.

If it were legal, I might consider having sex with someone under 18. I don't have some fetish for people under 18, but wouldn't immediately reject someone because of their age if it were legal. I know my one friend has a son that got in trouble for taking a picture of me by his mother. Apparently he timed it out to when I bent over to get something and shot a pic of my bare breasts down my dress, and another time got an up skirt shot of me. When she told me about it I told her I didn't care if he had the pics personally and found it a bit exciting thinking of what he was going with the pictures.
03/20/2012
Tangles Tangles
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Originally posted by Trishcuit629
Anything that I am physically able to try, I try, with the exception of anything illegal. My mom did agree to bail me out though, one time, if I got arrested for indecent exposure.
That's a pretty awesome mom.

I do have some fantasies I am a little wary to bring up or attempt due to taboo and potentially illegal activity. There may come a day where I would be willing to fully act them out, though. They wouldn't harm anyone.
03/20/2012
plaidvulva plaidvulva
I didn't vote, mainly because none of them really fit me. But, I had various fantasies I was afraid to act on, primarily just afraid of being rejected once I revealed I had such fantasies and fetishes to my partner.

However, I conquered my fears, acted out my fantasies and am completely happy with how it all went.
03/20/2012
SparklyGlitter SparklyGlitter
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Originally posted by plaidvulva
I didn't vote, mainly because none of them really fit me. But, I had various fantasies I was afraid to act on, primarily just afraid of being rejected once I revealed I had such fantasies and fetishes to my partner.

However, I conquered my ... More
very good point!

rejection was mine too
03/20/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by lecanis
In talking with people a lot about sexuality, one of the interesting things I've found is that many have sexual fantasies they are afraid to try. I'm curious how many of you folks out there have them, and if so, what are the main reasons?
MMmmhmmmmm but I'm not afraid of taboo I'm afraid of going to jail! I have fairly violent fantasies which is why they stay fantasies! I know the difference between fantasy and reality and in my fantasies no one is actually hurt and I don't have to face their pain after the fact.
03/20/2012
Curiouscat Curiouscat
I do, but I wouldn't try them...
03/21/2012
Phosphorous Tick Phosphorous Tick
I think most of them I won't because of self consious issues
08/02/2012
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