DP

Toys!! Hehe, my boyfriend and I have both had some pretty crazy fantasies about me getting dped, but the reality sounds so dangerous! Even if we did find someone to bring in recent test results and wear a condom, you never know what the guy might have!

So, to stay on the safe side (and ensure nothing gets weird between us), we stick with toys. Dildos and anal plugs make for some hot, kinky times.. without the fears! I'm also drooling over a few double-ended dildos, so that I can show off for my boyfriend and fulfill the fantasies when I'm alone!

I haven't fufulled them, but there are ways to do thrusting DP.

For M/F couples, most 2-strap dildo harnesses can be worn by a man with the dildo mounted above the penis. Insertion takes a bit of care, but this seems to work pretty well from what I've heard. Ther's even a harness that has a cutout to make it more comfortable for men (the Ulti-Mate harness link ). You can also use a handheld toy or a hand harness (link). I have seen pictures of special harnesses for women that mount two dildos for DP by F/F couples, but I can't remember exactly where.

If your partner is OK with anal play and has a strong sphincter you can try a double dildo such as the Feeldoe, Share or Tango with the pony end held in the anus and the dildo projecting through the legs (the Nexus doesn't work for this because there's not enough of a bulge for the giver's anus to grab onto, so it falls out). For the other penetrator you can use his penis (if applicable) or a second dildo in a harness (or second strapless double).

I'm not sure about the double erection keeper type of idea. When a dildo is mounted below the penis there isn't much for it to bear against during thrusting, which means it's more likely to slip out and/or be difficult to control.

The methods above have dual thrusting objects, but don't discount non-thrusting toys. A buttplug or stationary dildo inserted in the anus will be bumped and move around during sex, will feel pretty darn good, and is probably the best way to start.

I hope nobody minds a bit of blatant self promotion here; after all it *is* blatant, but Leatherbeaten have a very sweet little DP harness, which we have named (imaginatively, I think) DP Harness.

It's essentially a cock ring (infinitely adjustable) attached to a replaceable O ring, on a webbing belt, so it's secured at two points round the waist (at the points where the belt attaches to the O ring) as well as around the gentleman's manly attribute.

If I were to review it, I would tell you that it is light and unobtrusive to wear, and the sneaky design keeps both thrusty bits moving smoothly in perfect harmony toward an inevitably delightful conclusion for all involved.

Obviously, I'm biased, but it would still be true. There may well be a review pending out there, so there should be a second opinion shortly!

I hope nobody minds a bit of blatant self promotion here; after all it *is* blatant, but Leatherbeaten have a very sweet little DP harness, which we have named (imaginatively, I think) DP Harness.

It's essentially a cock ring (infinitely adjustable) attached to a replaceable O ring, on a webbing belt, so it's secured at two points round the waist (at the points where the belt attaches to the O ring) as well as around the gentleman's manly attribute.

If I were to review it, I would tell you that it is light and unobtrusive to wear, and the sneaky design keeps both thrusty bits moving smoothly in perfect harmony toward an inevitably delightful conclusion for all involved.

Obviously, I'm biased, but it would still be true. There may well be a review pending out there, so there should be a second opinion shortly!

I hope nobody minds a bit of blatant self promotion here; after all it *is* blatant, but Leatherbeaten have a very sweet little DP harness, which we have named (imaginatively, I think) DP Harness.

It's essentially a cock ring (infinitely adjustable) attached to a replaceable O ring, on a webbing belt, so it's secured at two points round the waist (at the points where the belt attaches to the O ring) as well as around the gentleman's manly attribute.

If I were to review it, I would tell you that it is light and unobtrusive to wear, and the sneaky design keeps both thrusty bits moving smoothly in perfect harmony toward an inevitably delightful conclusion for all involved.

Obviously, I'm biased, but it would still be true. There may well be a review pending out there, so there should be a second opinion shortly!