Do you have fantasies that you are afraid to tell your partner?

spineyogurt spineyogurt
Or are you open about everything?
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Yes
32  (51%)
No
31  (49%)
Total votes: 63
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02/19/2012
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Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Not anymore...up until a few nights ago I was afraid to tell my guys some of my more out there fantasies but Sigel and I had an amazing talk and all the walls FINALLY came tumbling down for both of us. We learned that we are freaky people (ok we knew that already) but we also learned that we share some particularly edgy fantasies that we can roleplay but wouldn't want to act out. It was an amazing experience to be laid so naked before someone who I have been with for over half my life and have him admit that I am one kinky bitch but that he loved that about me.

I am waiting for an appropriate time to tell Arch the same things but I think he has guessed most of what I would say to him already
02/20/2012
bsgs bsgs
were starting to be more open with each other, but some of mine are still too out there and i dont want her to freak out...were both pretty shy...the last one we shared with each other, she had been wanting to try it for over 2 years. i just happened to randomly bring it up and we had a good talk about doing it.
02/20/2012
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm too open, so I wouldn't be able to deal with a partner I knew was more closed off and who I couldn't just tell everything to.

Although, before hitting my peak I was more closed, but I was also vanilla back then...hehe.
02/20/2012
ladychristie ladychristie
I am more open with my boyfriend then I ever was in the past, I think it's a trust thing. And he's very open with me so it really helps.
02/20/2012
sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
I voted "no"
meaning I'm not afraid to tell my partner about my fantasies, it turns him on and since they are all about him its a good self-esteem booster too.
02/20/2012
Lavender420 Lavender420
Must admit, there is..lol
02/20/2012
Sir Sir
You asked two opposing questions and only put yes or no as the poll answers. That's going to skew the results.

Regardless, I voted no, to answer the original question. I'm open about all of my interests.
02/21/2012
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
No he knows me pretty well
02/21/2012
All His All His
we used to but we are now opening up to each other to explore together
02/21/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
Or are you open about everything?
Neither. I have some fantasies that are simply private. I don't have to tell him, nor do I feel "afraid" to tell him. Even in a good long term relationship (we've been together more than 20 years) one is entitled to some privacy.

Some fantasies are shared, but some, usually the weird ones that get me to climax, are mine alone.

There's nothing wrong with that.
02/21/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
Not really.
02/21/2012
Allstars316 Allstars316
I do have a few. But I tend to write them out in story form.
02/21/2012
Kush Kush
Yes I do.
02/21/2012
married with children married with children
no, I have nothing to hide from my wife. She might have some she does not want to share.
02/22/2012
Apirka Apirka
No, not at all. Though if I feel a little embarassed about one, I'll write it down instead of telling him.
02/26/2012
ellejay ellejay
Nope. I'm blessed to have a very open-minded bf.
02/26/2012
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
Or are you open about everything?
id say we r very open there isnt anything sexually i wouldnt share with my better half
02/26/2012
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
Or are you open about everything?
Yes, I have a few fantasies I'm not comfortable telling my partner, but over time I've become more willing and less shy about sharing.
02/26/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
Seems like I phrased this wrong. Sorry for that
02/27/2012
MasonM MasonM
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
Or are you open about everything?
Yeah, I have some things that I know wouldn't be understood.
03/05/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
My partner already knows all my fantasies. I always share, and if he isn't willingly to try one (which is rare), he'll kindly tell me so without judgement. :]
03/07/2012
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Yeah, I have a few that I would feel really uncomfortable sharing with my hubby. I just don't think that it would go over real well if I told him.
03/07/2012
klyte klyte
Just about anything.
03/07/2012
Ciao. Ciao.
At this point we're pretty much open with each other (at least as far as I know!). It took a little while, but now anything is pretty fair game to talk about.
03/07/2012
Azule Azule
Not yet really, I have some weird stuff going on back there that even I'm a little hesitant about sometimes. SO not gonna try that out til I'm certain I'm ready to talk about it.
03/07/2012
leelee leelee
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
Or are you open about everything?
yes very open
03/08/2012
sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
Or are you open about everything?
We're pretty open about that sort of thing.
03/26/2012
Marcianpro Marcianpro
Not really, we're pretty open
03/27/2012
jmex83 jmex83
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
Or are you open about everything?
for the most part, that i know of, we're both pretty open with each other.
04/04/2012
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