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Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Do you ever fantasize about someone else during sex and your partner doesnt know it?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
yes-they know
7
yes-they dont know
22
no
21
i do about a celebrity
4
i do about a ex
2
i do about a random person
2
i do about a made up person
8
i do about the opposite sex
2
other
10
Total votes: 78 (54 voters)
Poll is closed
03/07/2013
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Contributor: hotinpink hotinpink
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
Do you ever fantasize about someone else during sex and your partner doesnt know it?
Yes, and my partner knows. Also the person is made up, faceless, and of the same sex.
03/07/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
I dont. My concentration is all on pleasing my wife.
03/07/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by married with children
I dont. My concentration is all on pleasing my wife.
I'm with you - but occasionally I will fantasize that a 3rd person has joined us.
03/08/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
Do you ever fantasize about someone else during sex and your partner doesnt know it?
No. My fantasies all revolve around him.. and me! Lol. He does know this, but I do not fantasize about other people (pretend or real people.)
03/08/2013
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
Personally, I don't but I don't think that it is a big deal if people do
03/08/2013
Contributor: Alyona Alyona
yes-they dont know
03/08/2013
Contributor: ChubbyNerd ChubbyNerd
I don't.
03/08/2013
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Haven't recently but have in the past
03/08/2013
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
Do you ever fantasize about someone else during sex and your partner doesnt know it?
No, I don't have to.
03/16/2013
Contributor: Mr. John Mr. John
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
Do you ever fantasize about someone else during sex and your partner doesnt know it?
I think that is a pretty common theme. At least I hope so.

I think many people visulize previous lovers, or imagine being with someone you encountered, or other.
04/16/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I often fantasize but not about anyone in particular.
06/12/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
i don't know about fantasized...
06/12/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I have fantasized about someone else.. & no.. the person didn't know. .. I wouldn't tell someone that.. lol
06/12/2013
Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
I used to fantasize about my friend, im sure she knew i was obviously attracted to her.
06/12/2013
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I don't.
06/12/2013
Contributor: sexymomma4 sexymomma4
Every once in a blue moon it happens.My fantasy would be Jensen Ackles and Jared Padelecki ( from Supernatural). Pure eye candy they are. And yes, my husband knows. He pried it out of me one day.

But 99% of the time my mind is with my husband. A girl's got to dream. LOL
06/13/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I'm totally in the moment.
09/21/2013
Contributor: Happy Kupple Happy Kupple
I fantasize, yes, but hubby knows who it is, and usually "assists" me in my fantasy. We both enjoy and have incredible orgasms with it. It's a fantasy that we are moving towards reality.
09/27/2013
Contributor: ben12 ben12
I fantasize about a couple of previous partners and fantasize about a unknown made up couple joining us in everyway(the wife doesn't need to no the first part as that could cause hurt
09/30/2013
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
Do you ever fantasize about someone else during sex and your partner doesnt know it?
Maybe when jerking off, but never when I'm with my wife. I don't need to!
10/09/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
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I only think about my husband when were having sex and even when we aren't.
10/19/2013
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
I only think about the one I love and want to be with all the time.
10/21/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
I don't fantasize about other people during sex, but when doing the one man handshake I will occasionally fantasize about made up people of the opposite sex just cuz.
10/22/2013
Contributor: friendswithfangs friendswithfangs
nah. masturbation is one thing, but actually being with them, i'm far too distracted from being able to think about other people.
11/13/2013