Fetish and age

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Fetish and age

0letitgrow 0letitgrow
Do you guys find you are getting more and more adventurous and kinky with age or is it the other way around, things that turned you on as a youth have faded?
01/08/2011
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Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Do you guys find you are getting more and more adventurous and kinky with age or is it the other way around, things that turned you on as a youth have faded?
I do things now that 18 years ago I was saying 'there's no way I would do that!!' I think a lot of that response was knee jerk reactions based upon society and my upbringing. Once I moved out of my folks house and spent some time figuring myself out I opened up a little. I met my first kinky partner a few years later, once I had started to think that there were some things really missing in my life, and it was like an explosion went off! I had tasted kink somewhere besides my imagination and there was no going back. I progressed at a moderate pace (with the occasional rapid burst )until I started dating the man who is now my husband. He was new to kink so we went slow initially, but it built up a lot of steam very quickly and shows up in our day to day lives. We are not a 24/7 couple, that's too rigid for us and with both of us being Switches we would feel something was missing, but kink shows up on a nearly day to day basis in our life in one form or another.

I have learned that limits change and that's okay as long as there's discussion and agreement. I've also come to know that if there is someone you trust implicitly and who accepts you fully for who you are you are comfortable experiencing things you previously hadn't even considered because you can let yourself go and just be in the moment, no worries.
01/08/2011
Sir Sir
I've always been open-minded about trying out new things, so I do not think that age has anything to do with it. I think that what it really depends on is the person's values and how they view things.
01/08/2011
The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
I am only 22 at this time, but I defiantly have gotten into different and more fetishes as I learn about different things
01/08/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Angel deSanguine
I do things now that 18 years ago I was saying 'there's no way I would do that!!' I think a lot of that response was knee jerk reactions based upon society and my upbringing. Once I moved out of my folks house and spent some time figuring ...
Angel - right on target, this pretty much describes my experience as well.
01/08/2011
Illusional Illusional
I'm only 23, but at 18, 19.. I was like..
GIVING ORAL? NOOO.
ANAL SEX? NOOOO.
WEARING LINGERIE OR ROLEPLAY? NOOOO.


lol. Damn my strict sheltered upbringing. lol
01/08/2011
Lucidity Lucidity
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
I'm only 23, but at 18, 19.. I was like..
GIVING ORAL? NOOO.
ANAL SEX? NOOOO.
WEARING LINGERIE OR ROLEPLAY? NOOOO.


lol. Damn my strict sheltered upbringing. lol
I'm glad you've learned to open up and have some fun
01/08/2011
hive83 hive83
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Do you guys find you are getting more and more adventurous and kinky with age or is it the other way around, things that turned you on as a youth have faded?
There is no way even a few years ago we would do the things we do today.
01/08/2011
Alicia Alicia
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Do you guys find you are getting more and more adventurous and kinky with age or is it the other way around, things that turned you on as a youth have faded?
Well, there's a difference between being adventurous and a fetish. I don't have any fetishes now and I never did, but I am more adventurous in bed now than I used to be.
01/08/2011
Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
I'm only 23, but at 18, 19.. I was like..
GIVING ORAL? NOOO.
ANAL SEX? NOOOO.
WEARING LINGERIE OR ROLEPLAY? NOOOO.


lol. Damn my strict sheltered upbringing. lol
I also thought masturbation was disgusting. lol
01/09/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Absolutely, more adventurous with age and time with the same partner! I do things now that I would have NEVER done 5, 10, and 20 years ago. Most of that comes strictly from being able to open up to my husband about fantasies and desires I have because I completely 100% trust him. Really for me it is all about trust. I tell him that if (God forbid) something ever happened to him, I would be alone for the rest of my life. He has ruined me for all other men! I don't think I could be this open with anyone else. It took me this long to feel like I could totally let down my guard.
01/09/2011
Chevylady37 Chevylady37
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Do you guys find you are getting more and more adventurous and kinky with age or is it the other way around, things that turned you on as a youth have faded?
i think you grow more curious with age, learn new things and new ideas come to mind the older you get.
01/10/2011
liilii080 liilii080
Yes, the more comfortable and intimate I get with my partner and the better I know my body, the more I want to push the envelope. I joke with him that when we're old in the nursing home I'm going to be wheeling around after him pinching his butt and I hope I continue to stay young at heart and adventurous in the sack no matter how old I get!
01/10/2011
NuMe NuMe
I really believe age, or at least time, helps us to let go of our inhibitions and try things we never would have when we were young.

I know for me it really has. My, or should I say our, sex life has only gotten better and more creative with time. And I think that's a good thing. If you hit the pinnacle of your sex life, and try everything when you're young, then what is left to learn? You'd be bored by the time you were 30.
01/10/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
I've definitely gotten more "fun" over the years.
01/12/2011
slynch slynch
I've learned about more things as I get older. I wish I knew then...
02/23/2011
CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
I have always been really open to just about anything sexually, but I have been getting slightly less kinky with age, but I think most of that is out of respect for my wife. If I were single their is no telling the kind of stuff I would be getting into.
02/23/2011
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
We are getting kinkier with age. Maybe it is the internet knowing that we aren't the only ones into a certain fetish. But I think it is more being comfortable with who we are as a couple & really want to please the other person in many ways.
06/02/2011
leatherlover leatherlover
Definitely had some things in mind while I was younger, but I have been expanding my fetishes over the years. I still feel like my wife and I are just getting started, and we just need a push in a certain direction. Eden has been helping a lot with that push.
06/02/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
I think I have expanded, but a lot of it is just evolving from "I fantasize about this" to "I'd actually do this"
06/02/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Do you guys find you are getting more and more adventurous and kinky with age or is it the other way around, things that turned you on as a youth have faded?
I think that I've gotten kinkier with age. I'm more comfortable with my sexuality and am still having a really great sex life even after almost 15 years with my Master.
06/02/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Do you guys find you are getting more and more adventurous and kinky with age or is it the other way around, things that turned you on as a youth have faded?
Definitely getting more kinky and adventurous for both of us. We are in our late 40's, been married for almost 24, and only in the past 2 years have we truly opened up with each other. We are having quite a fun adventure that keeps getting better.
06/02/2011
newlady newlady
We too, are more kinky and adventurous now... Kids are grown and moved out, I've gone off of all birth control (hormone kind anyway) and things are more awesome now than they have EVER been!

(married 26 years June 15)
06/02/2011
Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
We have definitely got more adventurous with age. But then again, we have also been with each other for 16 years. While we are totally satisfied with "normal" / "vanilla" sex, mixing it up a bit keeps it exciting and fun too.
06/03/2011
ac0313 ac0313
I have definitely become more adventurous and kinky recently. I ended a very long relationship and my SO now, who was into kink for a few years, has shown me a great new area that I really enjoy. If someone told me just 3 years ago that I would be interested in some of the things that we have actually done, I would have said you are crazy!
06/03/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm definitely becoming more and more kinky the older I get.
Then again, the people we meet as we age could play a big part on it - sure did for me.
06/03/2011
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