My guy is really wanting some girl on girl action and I'm very iffy on it. I was wondering how many girls have done this to maybe make myself feel a little better about this.
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01/03/2011
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I'm a bisexual so I don't have a problem making out with other girls. My guy doesn't mind at all. It's one of those drunk at the bar kinda things. Like " Hey Emily! Make out with this hot chick" lol. We don't do threesomes though. I'm very open about my sex life, but the sex itself is very personal to me and it's only between him and I.
01/03/2011
I haven't yet but want to really bad
01/03/2011
When I was in HS I made out with girls at beer parties but not since!
01/03/2011
I used to make out with other girls a lot. One time when I was drunk and 17, my boyfriend asked me if he could watch me hook up with a female friend of ours. We started to get really into it and I was having fun until I realized it was a situation I felt pressured into and I was doing it for the wrong reasons.
Never do something you're not 100% comfortable with. I'm cool hooking up with other girls, but not comfortable hooking up with them for someone else.
Never do something you're not 100% comfortable with. I'm cool hooking up with other girls, but not comfortable hooking up with them for someone else.
01/03/2011
I've been in a menage-a-trois, not to mention a ton of other threesomes.
01/03/2011
I have dated both men and women and have had threesomes of all kinds - with two men, with two women and one with a guy and a girl. Of course, I actually WANTED to have these threesomes. If you are not into women and you don't want to do this, I would encourage you not to. It's not fair to the other girl involved (who will likely sense that you're not into her) and it's not fair to yourself.
01/03/2011
I'm mostly hetero, but I did give some drunken oral sex to a female friend of mine once about a year ago. My current boyfriend was dating her at the time. He was not too happy about the whole thing and felt like she had cheated. Needless to say, he's not exactly cool with me trying that again.
01/03/2011
I am bi and though I have had sex with women, I have not had a threesome involving a man and a woman. Threesomes are iffy to start with, so if you are not feeling 100% comfortable with it DON'T do it. Talk to your partner about your feelings and ask why it is that he is interested in it.
01/03/2011
I have officially made out and strap-on banged another girl. We did it for pay though, because we both are cam models. So we didn't feel anything, but I would do it with another girl regardless.
01/04/2011
I never done anything other than make out with another girl, but I'd be willing to try it.
01/04/2011
I would like to add a girl to the mix but my boyfriend isn't open to it.
01/04/2011
from a guys point of view. I believe that this is every guys fantasy. At least every guy i know.
01/04/2011
Your question isn't very detailed I chose makeout because I've kissed a girl but not for a boyfriend or in front of one. I wasn't dating anyone.
01/04/2011
I am involved in a threesome with my b/f and a g/f. At the beginning it just kinda happened but we all enjoyed it, it was edgy and we all seemed to benefit. Then reality; my g/f said she is in love with me, wants us to be a couple or just all live together. (Great cover, two couples saving money by all living together) Complicated in that she has a b/f who has never joined us. (Honestly, I feel sorry for the guy) My g/f doesn't want to "come out" as she believes it would kill her career in a very conservative industry.
I want to get married and have children, sooner then later and further more I could never see my life w/o a man.
Right now in addition to my job, I see this as a full time project that is tiring and emotionally draining.
Whatever you do, do it for yourself, not for someone else. And...be careful!
This is more difficult, for me, to conclude then any other relationship, I have ever been in!
I want to get married and have children, sooner then later and further more I could never see my life w/o a man.
Right now in addition to my job, I see this as a full time project that is tiring and emotionally draining.
Whatever you do, do it for yourself, not for someone else. And...be careful!
This is more difficult, for me, to conclude then any other relationship, I have ever been in!
01/04/2011
My partner has mentioned the idea, but I am not comfortable with it. I am bisexual, so that is not the problem. It is just that I am in a monogamous relationship and I do not feel right being involved intimately with another person that I do not love.
01/04/2011
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I agree with S&L here. This is the kind of thing that can have negative consequences for any relationship, especially if one party feels pressured into it for the purpose of pleasing the partner.
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I have dated both men and women and have had threesomes of all kinds - with two men, with two women and one with a guy and a girl. Of course, I actually WANTED to have these threesomes. If you are not into women and you don't want to do this, I
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I have dated both men and women and have had threesomes of all kinds - with two men, with two women and one with a guy and a girl. Of course, I actually WANTED to have these threesomes. If you are not into women and you don't want to do this, I would encourage you not to. It's not fair to the other girl involved (who will likely sense that you're not into her) and it's not fair to yourself.
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If you have to psych yourself up for this and really don't want to do it—don't.
01/04/2011
this is the thing about this situation..... it could be very touchy so just do what you feel comfortable with
01/04/2011
Not yet, but really keen to.
01/04/2011
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guard083
My guy is really wanting some girl on girl action and I'm very iffy on it. I was wondering how many girls have done this to maybe make myself feel a little better about this.
On to the topic- I have done a little of both, but I got insecure/jealous after having a threesome with my boyfriend and my best friend. I was a lot younger though- but I still don't think I would be able to do it with a serious man.
Just my preference. If you are trusting and open enough to do it then go for it!
But remember it is up to you whether or not you are comfortable with it and want to do it!
01/05/2011
So far I've only made-out, but I'd love to have a threesome, or at least get a girl to myself...boyfriend can watch...
01/05/2011
I agree with both Laurel and S&L.
There is absolutely no shame in not participating in Girl on Girl or Threesomes.
Personally, I know I've said it before, but I am completely heterosexual, and monogamous to boot. I honestly feel no attraction to my gender whatsoever*, not even the least little bit, and have no interest, nor want, to share myself or Synthetik with people outside of the two of us. Not only is the desire not present in me to do such, but I am not capable of trusting someone, *anyone* else enough to let them into our relationship. I'm just not capable of being romantically or intimately involved with someone I don't love. Since that is only Synthetik, it is literally impossible to be involved with someone else, much less someone of my own gender
(and please, don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that there's anything wrong if people do such things. I'm not saying that at all, every relationship and person is different, but I'm just sharing my views on the topic and using my relationship with Synthetik as merely an example of a 100% heterosexual, monogamous relationship)
Guard083, this is one of those situations that if you're heart, mind, gut, and spirit is not into it, then I wouldn't do it. If you have the tiniest doubt about doing it, then please don't. While I've never done such things, I do know it is something that does require alot of thought, communication, and you should not force yourself to do it.
When Synthetik and I started dating, I told him was that one things I could not do is threesomes/girl on girl, or any other form of "sharing". It is literally a hard limit for me. And I practically begged him never to ask me to share myself. Because my desire to make him happy, and the part of me that sees myself as being his, and his alone, would clash and would be pitted against each other. It would honestly stress me immensely and cause alot of inner conflict for me, and honestly wouldn't bode well.
However, that being said, I am lucky that he understands this, and that he too does not want to share me (nor himself) with anyone else. Call us jealous, possessive of each other, or what you may, but knowing that he will never want or expect me to go against my nature is a great relief to me.
I will be frank, I do not know your boyfriend, Guard, but if he truly cares for you, then he will not force this or anything else upon you (or use 'guilt trips' and other things to make you feel bad). And you shouldn't force it upon yourself either. Do not go against your feelings on this. If you do decide that a threesome/girl on girl is for you, then that's great, and I do wish you the best. However, if you still have reservations about it, then I wouldn't.
Not everyone is into such things Just choose what you know is best for you.
(*What I mean by the "I honestly feel no attraction to my gender whatsoever" bit is that I do not feel attracted sexually, romantically, and etc to my own gender. Granted, I have seen, say a picture of a nude woman and thought, "Oh, she's beautiful" but not from a sexual standpoint. It's as if I were commenting on a painting or sculpture, I am referring to the aesthetic-ness, and do not necessarily want to make out with it or something, lol)
There is absolutely no shame in not participating in Girl on Girl or Threesomes.
Personally, I know I've said it before, but I am completely heterosexual, and monogamous to boot. I honestly feel no attraction to my gender whatsoever*, not even the least little bit, and have no interest, nor want, to share myself or Synthetik with people outside of the two of us. Not only is the desire not present in me to do such, but I am not capable of trusting someone, *anyone* else enough to let them into our relationship. I'm just not capable of being romantically or intimately involved with someone I don't love. Since that is only Synthetik, it is literally impossible to be involved with someone else, much less someone of my own gender
(and please, don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that there's anything wrong if people do such things. I'm not saying that at all, every relationship and person is different, but I'm just sharing my views on the topic and using my relationship with Synthetik as merely an example of a 100% heterosexual, monogamous relationship)
Guard083, this is one of those situations that if you're heart, mind, gut, and spirit is not into it, then I wouldn't do it. If you have the tiniest doubt about doing it, then please don't. While I've never done such things, I do know it is something that does require alot of thought, communication, and you should not force yourself to do it.
When Synthetik and I started dating, I told him was that one things I could not do is threesomes/girl on girl, or any other form of "sharing". It is literally a hard limit for me. And I practically begged him never to ask me to share myself. Because my desire to make him happy, and the part of me that sees myself as being his, and his alone, would clash and would be pitted against each other. It would honestly stress me immensely and cause alot of inner conflict for me, and honestly wouldn't bode well.
However, that being said, I am lucky that he understands this, and that he too does not want to share me (nor himself) with anyone else. Call us jealous, possessive of each other, or what you may, but knowing that he will never want or expect me to go against my nature is a great relief to me.
I will be frank, I do not know your boyfriend, Guard, but if he truly cares for you, then he will not force this or anything else upon you (or use 'guilt trips' and other things to make you feel bad). And you shouldn't force it upon yourself either. Do not go against your feelings on this. If you do decide that a threesome/girl on girl is for you, then that's great, and I do wish you the best. However, if you still have reservations about it, then I wouldn't.
Not everyone is into such things Just choose what you know is best for you.
(*What I mean by the "I honestly feel no attraction to my gender whatsoever" bit is that I do not feel attracted sexually, romantically, and etc to my own gender. Granted, I have seen, say a picture of a nude woman and thought, "Oh, she's beautiful" but not from a sexual standpoint. It's as if I were commenting on a painting or sculpture, I am referring to the aesthetic-ness, and do not necessarily want to make out with it or something, lol)
01/05/2011
I haven't done anything with another girl.
I wouldn't do something just to please your boyfriend if you're really uncomfortable with it. If the idea appeals to you, or at least sparks your curiosity, by all means go for it. But if it is something you're going to regret doing, or be really turned off by, it isn't worth it. I'm sure he has tons of other fantasies that you might find more fun to bring to life!
I wouldn't do something just to please your boyfriend if you're really uncomfortable with it. If the idea appeals to you, or at least sparks your curiosity, by all means go for it. But if it is something you're going to regret doing, or be really turned off by, it isn't worth it. I'm sure he has tons of other fantasies that you might find more fun to bring to life!
02/27/2011
Yeah, I'm a lesbian so I've done a lot with other women.
However, I really don't think you should do this unless you are also attracted to other women, and a threesome is what you want!
However, I really don't think you should do this unless you are also attracted to other women, and a threesome is what you want!
02/28/2011
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Regrets are hard to live with. Don't do something for someone else. Do it for you, or don't do it.
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guard083
My guy is really wanting some girl on girl action and I'm very iffy on it. I was wondering how many girls have done this to maybe make myself feel a little better about this.
02/28/2011
I've had a threesome with another girl and her boyfriend when I was younger, but now that I am married, I could never imagine bringing someone else into the mix, I just wouldn't feel comfortable with it at all, if you don't feel comfortable don't do it, you wouldn't feel comfortable and it could end up causing problems in your relationship.
03/04/2011
I've been in a menage-a-trois and had threesomes, as well as made out with and had sex with girls with no guy involved. But I'm bisexual as well as open to polyamory (in certain cases). While I wouldn't want to involve someone else in my current relationship full time, we are very secure in our feelings for one another and in our relationship and we have had a threesome and want to do so again. He would even be ok with me sleeping with another girl without him, as long as I told him about it, preferably beforehand (and pictures would be appreciated, haha). This being said, playing with another girl isn't something you should do if you don't want to do it. You should never let someone you love push you into doing something you are uncomfortable with or that you might regret. Not only will you have those regrets for a long time, it will probably change the way you feel about your partner permanently, as he will be the source of these regrets. As Sex & Lies said, it is unfair to the other girl as well as to you, especially if she is bisexual or particularly attracted to you. Imagine having sex with someone who really didn't want to have sex with you but felt like they 'had to,' it hurts feelings. Just because some of us have done these things, regardless of why we did them, doesn't mean it's something you feel you should do. If you chose to do it, do it because you want to do it, not to make someone else happy.
03/07/2011
My first relationship was with a girl. I was 15, we were together for 6 months. I had a huge crush on the guy who would become my boyfriend for roughly 2 years. An opportunity arose and the three of us fooled around on a few occasions. Of course, this led to fights between me and my girlfriend and I broke up with her for my current boyfriend. It was a miserable and confusing year, but the time I had with her was wonderful and we're still best friends.
03/07/2011
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i've had quite a few girl-on-girl situations, and it's great, but only if you really like it. if you're not interested in it, you might not enjoy it....so...just think it through. you don't wanna be grossed out and chickin out you know?
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guard083
My guy is really wanting some girl on girl action and I'm very iffy on it. I was wondering how many girls have done this to maybe make myself feel a little better about this.
03/12/2011
Currently engaged to an FtM transgendered person - kissed 'em all. But reminiscing, girls are nice~ I ain't gonna kiss one for anyone else's sexual titillation though 'cept for me and my partner.
03/12/2011